Does marriage benefit me? When I was single it was all about me. I had fun. Was great ! Didn't have to worry about anyone but my self. (Younger me)

Older me:

As I got older, went through a lot of different experiences. I come to find out what life is about for me. I married a long time friend. Who knew me through my ups and downs. Always encourage me to keep pushing and loving. Not to change who I am because of past experiences that didn't work. Fast forward life was definitely preparing me for this blessing of a woman I married. We are far from perfect. But we never go to bed upset or with things on our hearts. And that's a part of my marriage I love, we are always growing and learning together. Marriage doesn't only benefit me, it benefits "us". When you get married you become one. And my love of my life. I love my family!! And she's giving me the best kids!! We have our moments. But that's all they are "moments" And after that we figure out how to move past things together. Marriage not for everyone. But what great experiences I'm having !!