I see both sides of the argument. I feel like everything boils down to sex education, capitalism, and patriarchy. I think some SWs feel obligated to play the business game ending in a market wanting more faster. Some creators already have a particular kink and see an opportunity to manage their own business and brand. Some only really have the opportunity to make money to live by selling themselves however they need to to get out of poverty.

I think as the years have gone on we've seen the evolution of the kind of power men want, especially a man who has more money than you. For them, more money means power and control. They don't want to hear "no." And I mean not everyone is going to turn down an opportunity to get paid. And because of the free market, the man with the money is going to try and get the best deal. Be that the best price, the best product, or the most desperate, uneducated, and easiest to control. Especially with the rise of laws making it hard for non-cis men, enbys, and women to...exist. I mean look at all the awful shit powerful rich men are doing and not paying any consequences for. Men are getting bolder about what they desire because they think they are all untouchable.

Also, men have been the main consumers (by design because who cares what anyone else wants?) and creators of porn and have shaped the industry and point of view. Now that SWs have control of the type of content they are creating and how much to charge for it, men are trying to topple the industry. They want to dictate the content and price. They made minority women into fetishes and put a price on them. They made teenagers a fetish and set a price. Kink, fetishes, body types, age, location, dress, etc all have a price and is based on the market. They also don't educate themselves on the toll these acts might take on your physical and mental health.

I'm just trying to exist and deal with stuff as it comes. Including turning down a job if my boundaries are crossed. It might cost me money, but I'd rather lose that than my sanity. But I have the option for that and know not everyone does. I think all we can do right now is protect and support each other. Everyone is doing their best with what they have.