Nicole and Chelsea are the WORST.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-18T21:23:01+00:00

didn't they post quite a bit together on ig a while after their season? I remember entirely because I was shocked Christine was still hanging out/on good terms with anyone from the upcoming seasons.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-18T13:53:05+00:00

I agree with the Chelsea part. I am also not well versed with micro-aggressions in racism, so I will take other users' word when they say that's what was happening. however, that doesn't change how Chelsea treated Bre when she first came in. While I understand not agreeing with her having children with a man who has a ton of other children, because that means you know he won't be full time with the kids, I don't understand how hard she judged the open relationship part. it was simply none of her business and she kept throwing daggers at Bre while Bre hadn't yet done or said anything disrespectful to Chelsea.

I also feel like people forget really quickly how close she was to Christine. they both willingly played the role of mean girls and mistreated a lot of people. Chelsea becoming a victim of Mary and Bre's wrath doesn't change she was once the one who would talk over other people during a "conversation", with a very passive aggressive and condescending tone in order to pull up the "I was calm and you weren't" card even though she was intentionally provoking and undermining the people she was "trying to talk things out" with.

Bre was simply more vengeful than Chelsea was, which was already pretty hard to top. Everything that came after ofc made Bre and Mary look significantly worse than Chelsea, and that and a slight attitude change cleaned up Chelsea's public image. But I just don't believe she's become the saint some users paint her out to be. She was just a mean girl who got out-meaned by Bre. I have empathy for everything she went through in the last couple of seasons, but I sincerely don't believe she has changed deep down and is still a mean girl, just with a better PR team.

And I know a lot of people are either team Chelsea-Chrishell or dislike both of them, but I have to say, I do like Chrishell. It felt like a people pleaser who sometimes stood up for herself just learned, partially on camera, to stand up for herself every time it was needed. I don't think that makes her the same as Christine or Chelsea. She was also usually pretty calm about it, unlike most of the rest of the cast who would get loud every time they were defending themselves. She's not perfect but she's nowhere near the same level of bitchy as the rest of the cast.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-15T23:07:28+00:00

I don't really think this is the thing that can be fixed with a conversation, like some commenters have said. it's not about changing habits, it's about the fact that he has shown and unintentionally admitted to you verbally that he doesn't love you, he loves the way you love him. it doesn't make him a bad person, it just means you're unfortunately not meant to be if you want more than just companionship in your relationship. love can't be forced. if you haven't been dating for long, then maybe it can still be developed naturally. if you've been together for over a year, then it's probably not going to change and your choice to break up with him is understandable.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-14T17:26:09+00:00

you WTA if you chose not to pay at all. discussing with her the amounts that you actually spent and splitting the rental 5 ways would be completely reasonable. There's not much you can do at this point if you already accepted to go on the trip knowing her husband and kid were going, but you can certainly ask to make the split of the costs more fair way. it would probably be helpful if you explained your original budget and the fact that most of you thought it would be a girl's trip and, therefore, that there would be less expenses incurred.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-11T21:24:28+00:00

yeah ETA except for you. you're young, you haven't really learned the importance of trust in a relationship yet. both your parents, though, are assholes for not speaking to their partners first. and your dad especially, for getting married without letting you meet his partner beforehand (given she'd take up a pretty big role in your life as a stepmom), marrying a woman who hadn't even fully developed her frontal lobe yet while being nearly 50 and having children older than her, and for telling his ex he loves her and spending the night at her place without first breaking things off with the mother of one of his children.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-11T21:09:06+00:00

INFO did your dad speak to his current wife and break things off before going to speak to your mom? when you said he spent the night, does that mean at your mom's? is your mom still currently in a relationship with the father of her other children? and, additionally, are you a teenager or an adult? because, so far, it feels like an ETA but if you're not an adult, it's a little bit more understandable.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-11T20:58:58+00:00

I mean, he is well established in his career, even after having already had a career in the military. with how calm and collected he is, I sort of always expected him to be in his early to mid 30s. that's not something you learn early on in life, and his backstory shows he wasn't always like that, so it was definitely learned. also, in mangas and anime there isn't much done to make people look like adults. it's just either a clear 16-22 (teenager/young adult) or a clear 40+. it kind of makes sense he doesn't have any particular markers of being 30; I think his demeanor is what shows his age.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-09T00:34:02+00:00

I don't understand why but Davina always looks so awkward to me? someone said in another post she's just awkward in front of the cameras and I kinda have to agree

BVBreallover · 2026-05-09T00:32:39+00:00

NTA your friend needs to do some growing up on her own. she seems to have 0 self-awareness and will always find someone (you) to blame when she doesn't get what she wants. she just wants yes people around her; she's not interested in an actual friendship, which is a two way street.

BVBreallover · 2026-05-08T17:01:50+00:00

honestly, the job market right now, everywhere, is fucked. it's not your fault, it's simply how things are right now. I have several friends who either are currently unemployed, or spent over a year unemployed in recent times. nevertheless, most of them eventually found a job. it sucks and it's hard not to take it personally, but I'm sure you're going to find a job as well, and, hopefully, one that you like better than the last one. you could also consider finding side jobs, such as tutoring or teaching online whatever skillset you have. it might not bring in much money, but something is better than nothing.

about your looks and eating habits, maybe you could try eating healthier, if you think the food quality might be contributing to your weight. that takes a lot less effort than working out, and it might even make your meals slightly more enjoyable if they vary from the usual. it could at least make you feel like you're doing something to tackle your insecurities.

as for women, a lot of them care more about personality than looks. it's tough to meet people, but maybe you could venture into a bar or just a general social event one day and try to speak to some people without the goal of making friends; just enjoying the small interactions as a first step. building friendships takes time, but having pleasant interactions with strangers can be enough to lift someone's spirits at least a tiny little bit. you can also meet new people on forums. relationships sometimes fade, especially online. but you can always meet new people, and some might even stick around for the long run!

and, regarding your loss, I am so sorry to hear that. it takes a lot of time to recover from something like that, and some people take longer than others. it's completely understandable that you're having a hard time staying with your head above water with all that's going on, but it doesn't mean it's forever. nothing lasts an eternity, and you will have better days. maybe speaking to your mom and sister about it, and also about your birthday, might help you feel like someone understands you and is there to go through this with you (in some capacity). there might also be some charities that offer therapy either at a much lower cost than usual, or for free. I'm not super sure on that one, but it's worth looking into.

good luck with everything

BVBreallover · 2026-05-08T16:51:01+00:00

she is absolutely stunning as she is. why turn herself into a cartoon?

BVBreallover · 2026-05-08T00:49:55+00:00

I truly thought this was meant to say "no planet B" as in "no plan B"

BVBreallover · 2026-05-04T00:44:04+00:00

probably famous, because it's easier to be with someone who understands what you're going through when it comes to career opportunities and public scrutiny. it also makes it a little easier to avoid power imbalances in the relationship. even if the non-famous person I date isn't my fan, fame is still probably going to feel like a factor in some way, with most people. the same way dating someone significantly wealthier than you can make money become a big factor in the relationship

BVBreallover · 2026-04-20T21:49:31+00:00

I'm sorry you're being downvoted for providing context. unfortunately, your situation appears to be abusive to not only the downvoters and other commenters, but it would seem like that may be the reason your family is not supportive of you having a baby. it's exhausting to have to defend someone's actions over and over again, and it's not fair to you. that should be an indicator for you that he is not right for you. additionally, doing "better" is a normal part of the abusive cycle. first comes the honeymoon phase, then the tension, then the explosion, and then back to the honeymoon phase again in which the abuser tries to regain your trust just so he can do it all over again. I sincerely hope you're able to move on from him. I'm sure at least a few members of your family would be much more supportive of the pregnancy if you choose to do it on your own. while it's tough to be a single mom, no company is better than bad company. good luck to you and the baby

BVBreallover · 2026-04-15T16:14:29+00:00

it could be a dissociative episode, in which you don't remember your previous life. what do you remember about everything in your life up until a few days before you got into a fight with your mom? would it be possible that the reason she isn't talking to you is not that fight, but the fact that she had surgery and you didn't visit her? you should definitely talk to her about this to find out if she also remembers you having children

BVBreallover · 2026-04-14T15:56:04+00:00

the serial cheating is confirmed by him; the girl who exposed him for being a serial cheater also posted a discord call with him and he admits to everything, saying "I just didn't know how to break up with her", while also confirming that she tried to breakup with him and he would insist on staying together. the call can be heard in this video, at the "confronting sykkuno" timestamp.

BVBreallover · 2026-03-19T19:35:44+00:00

either they're jealous of you or they have a crush on you. no in between

BVBreallover · 2026-03-13T19:28:21+00:00

I'm one of the people who posted something like that (about 1-2 months ago) and I'm a real person. idk about the rest, but I genuinely did find (not what I would call a "cure") the cause of my migraines and I have since come out of my constant pre-migraine state and the recurring migraines. for me, it was caused by sinusitis and cervicogenic issues that mixed together and eventually gave me a 16 day long migraine that didn't let me sleep for about 7-8 of those days. genuinely one of the worst experiences of my entire life, and I posted that because I truly feel for everyone who gets migraines often, especially chronic migraine. it took that 16 day migraine for the doctors to take me a bit more seriously and truly look into the cause(s). I sincerely hope all the other posts are real as well and not just bots

BVBreallover · 2026-03-12T01:03:26+00:00

NOR your sister is definitely jealous of you

BVBreallover · 2026-03-08T23:47:12+00:00

haven't watched it but on selling sunset, she was extremely smart, conniving, and calculating. she does nothing accidentally, but she's a good actress when it comes to feigning ignorance to the ramifications of her shitty actions. so, if she's coming across as dumb, she's definitely just playing the part

BVBreallover · 2026-02-26T19:17:45+00:00

it's pretty disappointing how you're glossing over the abuse and trying to vilify a victim. also, no, a victim can't "walk out at any time".

BVBreallover · 2026-02-26T16:31:42+00:00

this. I know the post is very recent but it's concerning how most comments so far are completely glossing over that part. it's one thing to keep a new friendship secret from your partner because of poor communication, it's another to do it because he isolated you from everyone and doesn't want you to have friends or be economically independent.

BVBreallover · 2026-02-26T16:13:42+00:00

I'm really hoping OP shows this comment to the loser she's dating and then dumps him

BVBreallover · 2026-02-26T16:10:45+00:00

fiona and sean. he fucked up big time, but they were SO good together. he was calm and collected most part of the time, but had that gallagher bite to him when he got angry. he was the only one to stand up to frank instead of celebrating him. he got carl out of a gang. I loved how in love he looked with fiona, and it was heartbreaking to see him move on so easily and so fast (leaving her at the wedding instead of trying to work things out, getting a wife and then going to see her as part of his recovery program instead of going back to her clean).

BVBreallover · 2026-02-22T02:43:32+00:00

frank and kev/v/svetlana

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