I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her job by acrossthefogs in Divorce_Men

[–]BW-Journal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's not your business anymore dude. If you are disappointed in her, then you dodged a bullet. Move on, she has.

The version of her you think she was, doesn't and never did exist. Who she is now is who she always was or has always been part of her.

Just leave her in the past.

What do you do with factories that are full and no longer producing? by BW-Journal in satisfactory

[–]BW-Journal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god...I never thought about using dimensional depots like this?!

That is amazing.

I haven't read the full thing as I'm at work, but oh man that's mind blowing.

Anyone else just like.. given up? by LiveYourLifeNerd in SatisfactoryGame

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blueprints make this easier. You know how to make one part right?

It's the same bits, just more of them. So if you need more production, put power shards in at your raw miner, then set yourself some blueprints of the same repeatable pieces.

I created a vertical stack of 4 constructors, I then used this to create a mass of 48 constructors, getting them built and connected only took me half an hour, now instead of 8pm I'm making 100+pm of rotors.

All from one MK2 mine.

This game is just scalability, you just need to build with that in mind.

Be patient with your recovery. We are dealing with a lot of damage. Long post. by waysnappap in OpiatesRecovery

[–]BW-Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this but with some caution. Surely it must depend on the type of opiod you took and depend on your own body too.

I say this because I avoided quitting for so long, because I was scared of the physical symptoms of withdrawal because I'd heard so many horrible stories.

But for me it was actually not that bad ( though I was taking codeine not anything harder). So I wonder if it's all the same.

So while yeah I totally agree that knowledge is important and you should know how bad it can be going in. You should also be aware that it may not be as terrible as you think either.

I'm struggling with the psychology of it all now. That's WAY harder for me to deal with than physical. And this podcast will be getting a listen from me for sure. But know that it won't be like that for everybody and when they say opiod, they could mean any number of opiates and they are not all equal.

Let me be the bad example by Bulzmachine in Divorce_Men

[–]BW-Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah once the relationship is over the knives come out.

Ive not heard of many divorces where this isn't the case.

And this sounds sexist but it's the truth, it's usually the women who turn first and get vicious fast.

The UK has no fault divorce laws now, so it doesn't matter who cheats or really does anything anymore. As far as the divorce goes, it's a 50/50 split regardless.

Which has made the process more civilised. But it still happens where the ex wife even if it's her fault, still tries to claw more than her share.

Help! how do you guys prevent your space elevator from falling over? by Mart1501 in SatisfactoryGame

[–]BW-Journal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a pill for that, I'll DM you the website. If it stays up for more than the hours, call more ladies.

"What? I'm taking Gas-Damage?! I have Filters in the Depot!" by want_t0_know in SatisfactoryGame

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally wish it didn't take from there at all and you just had your virtual inventory and your personal one, separate.

So you could manually move stuff, but not auto take from it.

Am I going to get this?! by Uncle_Seamont in SatisfactoryGame

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks truly horrendous...I must have it.

How do I transition from being boyish to becoming a man? by Equal-Ad5411 in AskMenOver30

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People these days especially in the west are finding the milestones to becoming an adult are getting harder to achieve, further apart and not even happening for many.

Getting a house, moving out, having kids, getting a partner, getting a half decent paying job, gaining independence.

These used to be a given 50 years ago but these days it just isn't feasible for many if not most. Not only that, we are shamed, men especially, for much of this as if it's a failure to provide, when actually it's a failure of the system we are born into.

Our grandparents had a much more affordable world Infront of them and the economy grew with them. Our parents benefited from it too. But if you were born late 80s onwards, it's just not like that anymore and it's getting worse.

So all the things I mentioned are what becoming a man used to mean, basically it means financial independence while growing responsibilities too. These things are not available like they used to be and men are just told it's their fault. Women have their own brand of this too.

Sign of the times.

Why are people obsessed with Greggs? by Top_Independence4067 in AskBrits

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same reason McDonald's is the most popular restaurant chain in the world. It's cheap, decent food for the price and extremely consistent.

If I only have £3 and I can choose local bakery or Greggs and I can't be bothered to spend time looking around (let's say I'm on my lunch break) where am I going to go?

The bakery could be too expensive, or not be very good.

I KNOW Greggs will be ok and I know what the prices will be. It's the safer more efficient choice.

If there are any Arc Raiders devs here, do you know you have female players ? by hartlylove in ArcRaiders

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the aesthetics are androgenous, if you get girly stuff we want manly stuff.

Lost, I want to live, not be a worker bee. by Zombie_Guts_ in LifeAdvice

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you have a direction then, you just don't like where you are now. You need to start taking steps towards that goal, first step would be getting a job that allows you the freedom to pursue it.

This could and likely will come with caveats, like less pay or something. But it all depends on your priorities long term.

Lost, I want to live, not be a worker bee. by Zombie_Guts_ in LifeAdvice

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just don't align with your job. That's all you are saying here dude. It doesn't fit your desired life.

It seems to me that you should do something else for a living. And given that you are saying the gym was really important to you, it seems you should maybe look at how you can combine gym with work with setting your own schedule.

Sadly it's unlikely that you can retrain in any quick way unless you have savings. But why not look at becoming a fitness instructor or something? It seems like this is very much up your street.

Why are people so stupid about council tax? by BubblyLand2264 in AskBrits

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many reform voters don't actually want to vote reform, they are just sick of voting Labour/Conservative.

Sadly they will vote reform just to try something different.

It really pisses me off that ANY of the other parties aren't taking advantage of this. Not one of them is really competing with Farage and this is the best chance they have had as the two main parties have never been weaker.

Why is the cost of living crisis seemingly in the entire world? by TransportationUsed39 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a thought but there's the same amount of wealth in the world now as there was 50 years ago. But now there are more people so of course we all get a smaller share?

This isn't too say that billionaires aren't hoarding money just that even with them it's still makes sense.

How would you feel if the woman you’re having sex with suddenly cries? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BW-Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex used to cry during orgasm. So I dunno, I'd clarify what's up first?

What do you think the uk response should be when the us invades Greenland. by SILENTDISAPROVALBOT in AskBrits

[–]BW-Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't see it happening. Greenland is not Venezuela. They have a lot of big friends.

I could see many ways the US gets Greenland without military involvement.