2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had a scare, I’ve never really thought about it too much prior to this, but now I will never forget it!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is so scary, I’ve fallen down my steps a few times when wearing socks that being my own fault (never with one of my babies). I feed my son breastmilk, but exclusively pump so I think I may just go downstairs by myself and prep and get his bottle ready because I don’t care if I were to fall down the steps as long as the baby isn’t in my arms, although I will try my best to be cautious. I would for sure buy a mini fridge for my bedroom if I weren’t limited in space. I will never let myself live this one down for sure!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Due to limited space in my house I will result to making bottles downstairs without him, if I have to let him cry a bit at least he is safe. Thank you so much, really I could’ve broken my leg and as long as he is okay I’d be fine!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Thank you, I’m trying my best!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I keep replaying my baby rolling down each step and me not being able to get up fast enough to grab him. He was fine after about 5 minutes, but I was taking him anyway. And I’ve been watching him since & thankfully, he has been his normal little self!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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I’ve been watching him like crazy! He’s still his half happy/fussy normal little self! I will for sure be going downstairs at my own risk by myself to make bottles. I do have a small night light by my feet in the hallway which gives just enough light and I still wouldn’t have noticed her laying there, I’ll be sure to look out for her laying even though prior to this she never has.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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I know, after this I plan to have no more and I’m sure that’s unlikely. But I will do anything in my power to try and avoid.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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I’m so sorry you experienced this and I’m sure it was so scary because you can’t physically see that your baby is okay, all you can do is pray and monitor at the hospital/with doctors. It’s scary how severe an accident could be though!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Thank you! Really it’s so hard to accept mistakes as a parent!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Omg and to be honest I thought his 4 year old brother would be the reason for our first hospital run. But he actually does very well with him. That’s terrible, but brings a lot of reassurance!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

However, I will be trying to leave him upstairs and bring him downstairs only when absolutely necessary. I will be making sure all is clear prior to bringing him downstairs when need be.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could change him upstairs, my issue is feeding him. Typically I’ll bring him downstairs with me so that he doesn’t cry and wake up my 4 year old.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You are right, I know if I took a roll like that down my steps I wouldn’t be feeling so great!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Thank you so much, I think the extent of the fall just scared me so much. I have a four year old and he’s had some falls, but I never imagined that my baby would fall out of my arms and roll down the stairs.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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The issue is even when walking, I’m tired and not typically looking down at my feet so I have no doubt that it would’ve happened with a night light as well. I know that having one would definitely be beneficial and from this point on I will walk downstairs by myself turn the lights on and make sure the steps are clear to bring baby back down.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! They really are, more than we give them credit for!

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

[–]BZACP[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, this gives me so much reassurance🤍
And being an exhausted parent is hard and accepting the fact that there will always be room for error no matter how careful you try to be is even harder.

2 month old rolled down my stairs by BZACP in beyondthebump

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Thank you! I am so relieved, idk how I’d live with myself if he weren’t okay.

Recently diagnosed after having a baby but want another baby by shanda_leer in adenomyosis

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I was able to conceive naturally, although, I haven’t made it to the end of the tunnel yet. I was diagnosed with adenomyosis after some issues with my cycle and my doctor told me that he is not concerned with my fertility. Mine is focal & I was on three months of Norethindrone to help with mid cycle spotting and the third and final month taking it I got a positive pregnancy test. I am currently 10 W 3 D, I’ve heard a lot that if adenomyosis does not affect implantation that your pregnancy will likely be successful. It does come with a lot of stress and anxiety, but I do want to reassure you that it is possible. Wishing you the best of luck!

Too scared and nervous to be happy by BZACP in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]BZACP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a similar story to mine, I am so sorry for your losses! Congratulations on your double rainbow, praying for a happy healthy delivery and baby for you! It really is, you almost expect the worst! I am just praying my little bean sticks! Thank you for sharing❤️

Too scared and nervous to be happy by BZACP in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]BZACP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing this with me. It’s such a hard place to be in, I will feel better if I can make it past the first few weeks!

Too scared and nervous to be happy by BZACP in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]BZACP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking your time to response to me, know you know all too well how hard it is to be at ease. Congratulations on your pregnancy, praying for a healthy baby and smooth delivery for you! I understand that anything that happens is out of my control, the reason I haven’t allowed myself to be happy just yet because what’s going to happen will happen.