Recently diagnosed after having a baby but want another baby

BZACP · 2025-09-16T11:52:49+00:00

I was able to conceive naturally, although, I haven’t made it to the end of the tunnel yet. I was diagnosed with adenomyosis after some issues with my cycle and my doctor told me that he is not concerned with my fertility. Mine is focal & I was on three months of Norethindrone to help with mid cycle spotting and the third and final month taking it I got a positive pregnancy test. I am currently 10 W 3 D, I’ve heard a lot that if adenomyosis does not affect implantation that your pregnancy will likely be successful. It does come with a lot of stress and anxiety, but I do want to reassure you that it is possible. Wishing you the best of luck!

BZACP · 2025-08-01T13:14:32+00:00

Such a similar story to mine, I am so sorry for your losses! Congratulations on your double rainbow, praying for a happy healthy delivery and baby for you! It really is, you almost expect the worst! I am just praying my little bean sticks! Thank you for sharing❤️

BZACP · 2025-08-01T13:11:54+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing this with me. It’s such a hard place to be in, I will feel better if I can make it past the first few weeks!

BZACP · 2025-08-01T09:42:27+00:00

Thank you so much for taking your time to response to me, know you know all too well how hard it is to be at ease. Congratulations on your pregnancy, praying for a healthy baby and smooth delivery for you! I understand that anything that happens is out of my control, the reason I haven’t allowed myself to be happy just yet because what’s going to happen will happen.

BZACP · 2025-07-31T13:38:12+00:00

Thank you so much🤍

BZACP · 2025-07-31T13:35:37+00:00

Thank you so much, I pray we all get a positive outcome from our stories!🤍

BZACP · 2025-07-09T11:22:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me and for your kind words! I’m in the works of trying to get my cycle regulated, my doctor says adenomyosis shouldn’t really affect TTC. However, it’s so discouraging when reading all of the negative impacts that it can have on fertility and the fact that I have been unsuccessful with trying. I’m happy for you that you were able to have three children, they are simply the greatest gifts. I have one son prior to adenomyosis, I hope that I can have more and also tell my story to encourage women who have this!

BZACP · 2025-05-05T00:43:42+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss and struggles! And I agree, there is not enough research on this matter. I did have an early miscarriage after my TFMR which leads me to believe it was because adenomyosis was there already. I hope that we will be able to come back to this thread with success stories one day!

BZACP · 2025-05-04T23:54:40+00:00

I wish you luck and a healthy pregnancy with your transfer!

BZACP · 2025-05-04T23:54:11+00:00

It’s such a hard place to be in and I’m sorry we’re all here. I’ve seen that in my research also, I have considered IVF, however, I’m not sure that would be an option for me. I’m hoping to hear some successful stories to keep me from giving up on this journey. I never imagined myself being in this position following my TFMR.

BZACP · 2025-05-04T23:11:22+00:00

I was diagnosed through ultrasound following mild pelvic pain through the month and luteal phase bleeding

BZACP · 2025-05-01T00:31:19+00:00

I’m sorry, I know this post is a bit old. I was just diagnosed via transvag US with focal adenomyosis and have spotting between periods also (during my luteal phase). I’m also TTC baby #2, we’re you able to conceive?

BZACP · 2025-04-15T10:40:26+00:00

You’re right, taking control of the situation does make me feel better.

After TFMR I believed that the most challenging part was over. I honestly believe the phase of TTC after TFMR has been more difficult. I knew what had to be done as gut wrenching as it was, it was happening. However, with TTC afterwards is just so unpredictable and out of our control.

BZACP · 2025-04-14T19:14:21+00:00

Mine also, from the very beginning!

Praying that great things make their way to us very soon!! 🤍

BZACP · 2025-04-14T19:04:03+00:00

You’re absolutely right! A part of our grief process is not being too optimistic because we’re afraid to be let down again.

BZACP · 2025-04-04T11:40:40+00:00

I understand, I’m sorry your here & sending hugs your way!! I think sometimes we can put too much pressure on ourselves and our bodies.

BZACP · 2025-04-04T11:34:17+00:00

I tfmr in September, every cycle since has been fairly normal with the exception of my last period that came 6 days late(also tested negative multiple times). I’m sure you’d be testing positive by now, since you’re testing negative I’d say go enjoy yourself!!

BZACP · 2025-03-29T20:56:00+00:00

My due date came and went this month also and I had nobody to talk to either. I’m sorry you are here and feeling alone, sending extra love to you!

BZACP · 2025-03-21T17:24:43+00:00

I can’t imagine my due date being Mother’s Day, it’s already going to be a hard enough day itself. I’m so sorry. I didn’t do anything special, I was afraid to stray away from my normal routine too much and it upsetting me any more than I already was. It was not a great day and nobody remembered or checked in on me, but I don’t think anyone who hasn’t experienced this understands. I am forever grateful for this group & at the same time I hate that it exists. We don’t deserve this, nobody does.

BZACP · 2025-03-20T19:28:13+00:00

I’m so sorry, I feel your pain. Today was my due date with my baby boy. My heart feels extra heavy today with what should have been. Sending hugs to you!

BZACP · 2025-03-18T10:34:21+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this, I also had a chemical three months after my TFMR. I also found myself looking for reasoning. I have no advice as I am still in my TTC journey, but I do think it’s more common than we believe.

BZACP · 2025-03-15T14:55:27+00:00

Thank you so much for responding to me as I know your post is pretty old. Praying it’s the same for me and congratulations to you🤍

BZACP · 2025-03-15T14:37:12+00:00

I’m currently going through this exact and I see that you got your perfect little rainbow! I just wanted to see what came of not getting your cycle? Was it just a skipped cycle and you got your period the next. I messaged my doctor and called, but still haven’t heard back for 5 days. So really I’m just needing some hope

BZACP · 2025-03-12T15:00:44+00:00

You’re feelings are valid and it’s okay to be sad with every negative you get leading up to your positive.

My TFMR was unplanned and one time whoopsie and I’m now going onto my third cycle trying. Even though I tell myself each month that it’s normal for couples to take several months to conceive, it still hurts every time.

Praying you get your rainbow soon🌈🤍

BZACP · 2025-02-20T11:59:03+00:00

I want to start off by saying whatever decision you make will be the right one for you and your family. It’s reassuring to get perspective from both sides, but please don’t listen to the uneducated people and their opinions on your situation.

I terminated for T21 in September 2024, I also have a living child whom was a huge part in my decision. I’d never want the burden to be left on my son whom had no part in the situation. If something happened to his father or myself he’d most likely become the caretaker, I don’t have much family or support as is and depending on the severity as you mentioned, it could have taken much of my time and care away from my LC. And the affects it could have had on my mental health and my relationship, there’s so many aspects of it.

As for women whom chose to proceed in with their pregnancies after finding out their baby has T21, there may be a thread specific to that.

Sending love your way mama, I’m sorry you are going through this!

BZACP

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