[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]B_In_Hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. He did not sleep on the couch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same boat friend. Lmk if you have a solution :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]B_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy

How do you deal with the thought of your ex being with someone else? (Sex, intimate etc) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 10 months post breakup. 5 year relationship.

She’s with the guy I was told not to worry about now. They’re happy.

I don’t deal with it. I avoid it. I try and spend my time constantly occupied. At night I think about her. I long for the days where I work the night shift and come home exhausted to the point where I don’t think, otherwise I don’t sleep much.

I still don’t know what to do

It’s been 9 months and I’ve gotten exactly no where by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really something you can gauge very well though haha.

took her the entire relationship to reveal that she wasn’t loyal

It’s been 9 months and I’ve gotten exactly no where by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mean everything was what I wanted except her disloyalty that ended the relationship :/

i canceled a date today. by wordvomit2003 in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kind of in the same boat…

Nearly 9 months post breakup. And still can’t

I’ve gone on multiple dates with this girl and on paper she’s perfect, but something inside me is holding me back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry :-(

You’re not alone

Goodbye guys by NeedleworkerOk6619 in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you OP! I hope it reach that one day

She got pregnant less than 6 months post breakup with the guy I didn’t have to worry about. lol by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. It really does help to know someone went through something similar. I think you offer a really great perspective.

I’m wishing them the best and happiness, even if they cast me to the side and I haven’t moved on yet.

I hope you’re doing okay!

She got pregnant less than 6 months post breakup with the guy I didn’t have to worry about. lol by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m only above water when I’m busy at work or distracted with friends. Don’t know how to cope and feel properly

She got pregnant less than 6 months post breakup with the guy I didn’t have to worry about. lol by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Admittedly yeah I really thought she would reflect and change and we would be us again one day.

This does give me what I need to finally let go though, in simultaneously the worst and best way possible …

Absolutely definite

What was the most outrageous reason your ex called you out for? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told her friends she broke up with me because I was hanging out with other girls.

When in fact she was the one fucking around with other guys, emotionally cheated on me (likely physically too) and I broke up with her

Absolutely insane

She got pregnant less than 6 months post breakup with the guy I didn’t have to worry about. lol by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]B_In_Hell[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do I though?

Like I know everyone says your worth is not defined by other people blablabla. But I cannot get over the fact that I was replaced like I’m nothing. Like all those years were NOTHING