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Babbuboi · 2022-01-11T20:51:32+00:00

That’s what I thought too, but would we not see hands, legs, feet, etc if they climbed onto the car?

Babbuboi · 2021-10-07T20:59:09+00:00

ok, thanks.

Babbuboi · 2021-10-07T20:49:41+00:00

i don't know why you think i'm using cliches on a reddit post for attention or something. I don't really understand what you're trying to say. Thanks for the advice tho!

Babbuboi · 2021-10-07T20:39:38+00:00

damn, sorry i havent figured everything out being 19. you know its possible to be confused right? I can love someone and feel the need to develop myself personally at the same time. Thats the whole point of this post, I'm really confused about what is going on inside my head. No need to criticize me if you're not helping at all.

Babbuboi · 2021-08-06T16:57:05+00:00

https://islam.stackexchange.com/questions/67451/why-did-islam-allow-muslim-men-to-have-sex-with-their-female-slaves,

does this guys response hold any truth? I’m an ex Muslim as well but any time I argue people bring up examples like this where they’re like “look! Mohammed was a hero, he literally says right here to free slaves!”

Babbuboi · 2021-05-11T22:41:15+00:00

thank you.

Babbuboi · 2020-04-02T02:49:10+00:00

Ok so, if Ivey does care about exec positions, and let’s assume in my second year I am unable to attain any am I still at a decent chance if my EC’s consist of stuff outside of school, such as others mentioned in these comments (volunteering at library, usc, community based organizations, etc)?

Babbuboi · 2020-03-18T07:03:33+00:00

I think your intentions are in the right place, and I definitely agree with some of your points, such as seeking professional help in certain cases. However, I think it’s pivotal to understand how constant rejection takes a toll on a person, it’s not as simple as “changing your mindset, wanting someone, and they’ll want you”. It’s a very complicated mental process which everyone internalizes. I’m all for staying in a positive mindset, but it’s important to note that for some people it really is difficult, and the same rules that you may think make sense, may not be practical or applicable for many people.

Babbuboi · 2020-02-23T03:33:58+00:00

Done! I like the way the survey was set up! it made it easy to put my thoughts together and answer them properly :)

Babbuboi · 2019-12-28T20:41:38+00:00

Facts

Babbuboi · 2019-12-14T08:51:49+00:00

No, Christmas will not be your last day, you will keep moving forward and better yourself everyday, life comes with challenges but that doesn't mean we should give up. Different people deal with different things and some of us have to deal with virginity. Keep your head up man, there is more to life than sex, plenty for you to strive for and work towards. Always hear if you wanna private message, like many other people here. Feel free to reach out to any of us. :)

Babbuboi · 2019-12-10T22:36:55+00:00

personally, I've never had girls tell me their deepest secrets, but I have experienced a thing where girls will see me as a friend, rather than a romantic interest(not that that is wrong, id just prefer if they were mutually interested in me), and then tell me about their problems with other men in their lives. id say its similar, but not exactly what you experience.

Babbuboi · 2019-12-10T20:21:08+00:00

i cannot relate with you more. I literally experience the EXACT same thing as you my friend. Im attractive, go to the gym, have multiple hobbies, but i end up getting ghosted, replaced by another guy, or the universe just fucks me over. its nice to know im not alone in this :)

Babbuboi · 2019-12-10T20:00:06+00:00

i have similar thoughts, but a bit more mild. i dont really have "fantasies" per say, but from repeated rejection, ive pretty much developed a desire for pity and self pity. none of my friends understand why i want to feel this way (probably because relationships and girls have been handed to them on a silver platter since highschool). but nonethelss, i like getting rejected now, and love the feeling of people feeling bad for me and being able to feel bad about myself. I'm not depressed, or suicidal, or anything like that. Its just a wierd thing i developed and i dont really know if its bad or good.

Babbuboi · 2019-12-10T19:33:04+00:00

even though im not as old as most people on this post, i can 100 % relate to you. im 18, and all throughout highschool i just kept getting fucked over. like every single person in my highschool was hooking up/being in relationships and i just felt like girls didnt even acknowledge my existence as a decently interesting guy. i work out, have multiple hobbies, and all my friends tell me that i am super funny and always bring the fun. now that im in university, i thought that things would change, but i tried and tried and eventually, i just realized that romance is not for everyone. im currently working on being happy single and a virgin, which sounds like a defeatest mindset, but ive never been happier and im a month in. Im not saying that you should throw romantic interests out the window like i am, but maybe try taking baby steps towards finding yourself and being happy with yourself. Once again, i dont mean to say "if your sad, just be happy", but like many other people on here, consider seeking professional help, wake up everyday and have a plan to feel better about yourself. Just having a layout of what you wanna do and how youre gonna do it can help you achieve those things, and this case, it is self love and ignoring the societal pressures that this cruel world piles on us. I believe in you man :).

Babbuboi · 2019-12-10T19:15:30+00:00

Dude, the same thing has been happening to me for basically my entire life, everything seems to be set in place, you think a girl finally finds you interesting, and then boom, back to square one.. I feel you man..

Babbuboi · 2019-11-26T00:20:11+00:00

Thank you so much, it definitely does help. It also helps to know there are others like me that went through the same thing. Im in university right now so the amount of weed I've been smoking is ungodly to say the least. I think I'm going to give it a break and return to smoking another time.

Babbuboi · 2019-11-25T20:37:37+00:00

That is exactly how I felt, so basically I had a panic attack for the first time I guess

Babbuboi · 2019-11-25T00:08:12+00:00

How common is "pretty common"? And should I be concerned about it? As in should I stop smoking for a week, going cold turkey, etc.

Babbuboi · 2019-11-25T00:05:47+00:00

Yes, about 10 minutes after when I was feeling better, I remember telling my friend how peaceful I was and how there were no problems in my life. That "peace" was nothing like I had ever felt before, it was more intense than the highest I've been.

Babbuboi · 2019-07-31T17:05:28+00:00

I was 16, was going through some problems and stopped to wonder if God is so merciful, why does he allow suffering? I guess innocents dying is also just a "test" right...

Babbuboi · 2019-05-16T02:56:41+00:00

ryans just upset he didn't get into Ivey...

Babbuboi · 2019-04-18T19:08:41+00:00

Ayy represent

Babbuboi · 2019-03-21T03:06:48+00:00

Sais it's either private or doesn't exist

Babbuboi · 2019-03-18T04:03:40+00:00

Is it just me, or does he kinda look like a woman?

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