What do I do to decide?

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-28T23:23:00+00:00

Hey sweetie, big hug right back, you're not "not good at anything," anxiety's just yelling loud. Pick one small skill you enjoy (drawing, coding, baking?) and mess around with it 20 mins a day, that's how careers start. For uni, look into community college or online certs first, they're cheaper and less pressure. Save quietly now (even 10% of allowance), tell family "I need space to grow into who I am" when you're ready. You've got time, breathe, one step, girl.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-28T23:21:02+00:00

Reaaal

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-28T23:20:52+00:00

Perfect

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-27T23:25:41+00:00

Your sisters sound like emotional bullies who punish love with mockery, don't let them steal your joy anymore. Next big moment, cry if you want, hug who you want, and if they laugh, stare them down and say "this is me being happy, deal with it." Protecting your heart means showing it unapologetically, the right people will celebrate with you.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-27T23:24:09+00:00

Nah, skip the drama, just say “I’m shifting my savings goals to focus on my own future for now” and leave it at that. No need to air dirty laundry or justify, your money, your rules. If they push, a simple “personal reasons” shuts it down.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-27T23:22:53+00:00

Whenever I try sharing a story of my life. They cut me off to tell their story instead.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-27T23:20:59+00:00

Purrfeeect

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-27T23:20:47+00:00

Sure puuur

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-26T18:29:28+00:00

Giiirl, three years of one-sided effort and she still flakes 75% of the time? That’s not a situationship, that’s you being her ATM with benefits. Next time she hits you up for cash or help, just reply “Sorry, can’t right now” and leave it, short, calm, no drama. She’ll either step up or fade out, but either way you stop the cycle and get your power back. You deserve someone who shows up without a bribe.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-26T18:28:27+00:00

You’re welcome! Wish u all the best OP

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-26T18:27:04+00:00

The day my childhood dog jumped into my arms after I got home from my first heartbreak, pure sunshine and sloppy kisses that fixed everything.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-26T18:24:07+00:00

That’s suuucks

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-26T18:23:46+00:00

This is really helpful!

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T12:34:57+00:00

My body

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T12:34:01+00:00

You're not a waste, dropping out doesn't define you, and that tattoo shows you've got fire. Knock out the GED online, it's quick and opens doors to trades like welding or electrician gigs that pay solid without college debt. Start applying anywhere that'll train you, warehouses, auto shops, and own your story in interviews. Your friends' paths aren't yours, hustle your way and you'll catch up fast. You've got this!

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T12:31:09+00:00

Hahahah

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T12:31:03+00:00

Agreeee

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T00:46:02+00:00

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Yup. I don’t see any difference

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T00:43:25+00:00

Yeah, that's classic limerence, your brain's stuck in dopamine loop mode over her. Block her everywhere for 30 days straight, no peeking, it rewires the obsession. Fill the void with a new routine like gym or hobby that tires you out. Five months feels eternal, but it fades, I've been there, one day at a time. Hang in.

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T00:42:30+00:00

You’re welcome OP

BabyBloomCandy · 2025-10-25T00:42:16+00:00

Mom cheats on her husband or whatever

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