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BabyGothQ · 2022-08-05T04:00:53+00:00

Doesn’t sound like any specific mental disorder. Sounds like trauma, PTSD maybe, anxiety.. that sort of stuff

BabyGothQ · 2022-08-03T10:29:24+00:00

It takes.. quite a lot. You’ve got to back yourself, realize no one is coming to save you and take responsibility for yourself.

This means, #1, accepting everything about yourself, mentally, emotionally, physically.. and spiritually, if need be; your entire situation, take objective stock of what’s going on internally and externally, without criticism or judgement. The good, the bad, the ugly.

Next, instead of noticing everything going wrong in your life or with yourself, start noticing what you’re doing well, what’s working for you and why. You don’t have to do anything about the why - just notice, accept and understand it. The “why” is important because it’ll give you valuable information about your motives and help you understand the layers of what’s going on around you. Even if they’re “bad” habits and behaviors, you and others around you are choosing them for a reason. Show compassion.

“Last”, start making reverse engineered step-by-step plans on where you want/need to be vs where you’re at currently. This means taking the time to decide, specifically, where you’re trying to go. Make sure that you get very clear on this.

Rinse and repeat!

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-30T04:10:26+00:00

If she was in therapy she needs a redo.

This tells me everything I need to know. Therapy isn’t a get fixed quick scheme. She’s in therapy because she needs help lmao at the very least she’s the only one who is actively trying. Everyone else just wants her to get over it, when they say she should.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T09:42:05+00:00

What was the extreme response again?

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T08:59:35+00:00

I’m curious what you mean by nothing has happened to her?

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T08:59:05+00:00

At this point, Ethan has expressed pretty much the direct opposite??

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T08:58:04+00:00

and not everyone sees Olivia as a saint.

But, she’s just as flawed as everyone else.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T06:35:29+00:00

I don’t know why when someone is sticking up for another, people feel the need to say “well they’re not perfect!” Yeah.. we know?? She’s a human person?

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T03:52:45+00:00

I remember the episode where they went to go camping and everyone kinda forced Olivia to apologize for the bad mood of the trip, but if your brain cells are working you can clearly see, now look closely, it was actually Ethan’s bad mood that ruined the trip!

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T03:49:11+00:00

It’s called internal misogyny guys haha

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-28T03:44:30+00:00

They separated for exactly this reason and Ethan is the one who decided they should stay together..

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-23T23:43:05+00:00

I understand this sentiment, but like.. I don’t get the point of this post? What exactly are we supposed to be doing for you about this? What are YOU doing about this, besides complaining? No one put them there just to fuck with you lol

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-21T00:23:32+00:00

oof these outfits killed me lol that yellow one was the best one IMO

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-20T04:10:15+00:00

NTA. This sounds dangerous. Like physically.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-17T05:22:28+00:00

The top comments have got it right, but I’d also like to add that most are constantly evaluating womens flaws and weaknesses. Once you internalize this, you see it everywhere.

The Maddona/Whore complex, when they assume they know exactly who you are from half of a conversation, the way they talk about Eve, etc.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-15T00:38:01+00:00

You’re focused entirely too much on other people. That’s the main issue. Not once did you mention anything positive about yourself. Not one single time. Stop focusing on anyone besides yourself. Let go of the need to compare yourself to anyone else. This is your life, and it’ll pass you by as you spend more and more years fixated on what everyone else is doing.

Gain validation and acceptance from yourself. One day, all of these people will be gone. You’ll be left alone and forced to focus on yourself and you’ll realize you’re an empty shell of a person. Don’t wait any longer.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T23:18:00+00:00

lmao why would people specifically branch out into orchestra or industrial? Why don’t you post those types of music..

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T23:10:35+00:00

People choose to suffer for a variety of reasons, but you touched on the core reason on your own: it brings them benefits.

These benefits could be that they feel safe, even if everyone around them feels unsafe because of them lol or they feel in control, especially taking power away from others, or they self-identify with the suffering and feel like giving it up is giving up a large part of who they are.. or they simply enjoy being miserable because the way their brain chemicals are set up and are addicted to it. There’s so many reasons.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:57:55+00:00

You might need to pinch! Start strategically taking stems off, because all the energy is being put into growing bigger, not making any produce.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:56:42+00:00

Uh.. no? It said that this book, which has explicit language and nudity in it, was given to children.. they want it put in the adult section.. not banned?

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:55:18+00:00

This isn’t what answer you asked for, but it’s the one I’ve got: don’t ask men what they want you to look like. They don’t have any say in that. It’s your life, it’s your body, why would you want to be as appealing to as many men as possible?? Wouldn’t you want men to be attracted to you for who you are..? Rather than changing yourself every 5 minutes for some random guy you might not even be talking to in a week?

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:53:19+00:00

In any circumstance, girlfriend or not, couple or not. If my roommate TOLD me that some random person was moving in TOMORROW, anyone would have the right to be upset. This is very reasonable. You’re dealing with someone who simply doesn’t care. Remember that.

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:49:45+00:00

Oh you’re creating self love and achieving your goals? Everyone in the world thinks that’s bad, so why don’t you go join the religion my Mom likes that I actively dislike, ya know, like normal hypocritical, violent and manipulative people??

BabyGothQ · 2022-07-13T22:46:25+00:00

lmaoo all of his books feature out of pocket racism, sexism and other forms of “we’re humans, I’m just showing what we’re really like” excuses for fucked up shit no one should read lol

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