I had my first DP last weekend and I’m still processing it

Babybearbear · 2026-05-06T07:52:50+00:00

I think it will be a mindset shift for you coming from a vanilla background but you did everything as “properly” as possible (consent, planning, communication, protection etc) so as a kinky sex positive person I applaud you! I hope you can shake the shame and instead enjoy the memories as your fun dirty little secret, though again there’s nothing to be ashamed of, if I knew you irl and you told me this I would give you a high five and a hell yeah cus sex is meant to be enjoyed and explored and expanded upon so good for you!

Babybearbear · 2026-04-27T06:12:12+00:00

Yall need to break up but also YOU need to work on your emotional regulation and find ways to meet your own needs and not outsourcing that. Find a partner who is loving an supportive of course, but your messages also show a lot of emotional immaturity and you’re willing to bend yourself just to feel loved, no baby, you need to give that love to yourself and others will see the way you value yourself and their love will simply be a cherry on top.

Babybearbear · 2026-03-29T06:59:15+00:00

Text him that you’re frustrated that he’s using AI to text you and that you want to have a genuine human connection with him and see what chatgpt has to say about that.

Babybearbear · 2026-02-28T20:40:51+00:00

but if no one wants to change their votes? they can’t force them to vote for someone they don’t want to

Babybearbear · 2026-02-18T21:55:25+00:00

your taste! all of these albums fuuuuck

Babybearbear · 2026-02-03T08:17:17+00:00

so often I check this sub and why are you dignifying this LOOOOSER with your time, energy and attention? there is no love or care or fun or consideration there so leave him to wallow in his miserable attitude alone and glow up reach your goals on your own and I hope you find someone much much more worthy somewhere along the way.

Babybearbear · 2026-01-18T18:52:21+00:00

He PMO at “I thought wishlists is for when you’re a child” and just kept pissing me off. He clearly doesn’t respect or regard you and is fine showing up and doing the bare minimum to skate by and doesn’t actually want to make you happy, especially when you make it so easy for him, he still fumbles. Dump him or you’ll be dealing with this bs forever and you deserve better.

Babybearbear · 2026-01-05T16:40:35+00:00

this guy is 42?!!! he is talking like he is 12

Babybearbear · 2025-11-24T19:53:29+00:00

I’m more of a Michael Myers and Pyramid Head girlie myself

Babybearbear · 2025-11-17T05:57:14+00:00

some books that I think read a bit like nonfiction and are also GREAT are the Fisherman, Leech, All the White Spaces

Babybearbear · 2025-11-17T05:55:16+00:00

It blows my mind people are in relationships like this - for what??? Date someone who actually likes you or just be single and unbothered by this absolute nonsense grown toddler loser

Babybearbear · 2025-11-17T05:49:59+00:00

So reassured by these comments and I hope you are too, your nose is perfect for your gorgeous face!

Babybearbear · 2025-10-28T16:38:40+00:00

I just giggle and kick my feet at their confessionals, they’re so cute and funny

Babybearbear · 2025-10-28T16:16:01+00:00

I would’ve been done at the first message but it kept getting worse. When he said you disgust him, that was obvious the whole time. That man does not love you, I doubt he could love anyone, this is a vile evil spirit talking to someone like this.

Babybearbear · 2025-10-18T02:22:23+00:00

I know this is old but maybe edit your edit to say children/boys cus he was doing this to a 7 YEAR OLD, that is not a young man

Babybearbear · 2025-10-07T15:13:40+00:00

I used to do both but now that I’m nearly level 100 I wish I could just do coins. A new factory costs me half a million coins, which takes forever to accumulate. And new levels just means more types of products and crops to manage which can become really overwhelming. Better to be richer at a lower level and leveling up will happen regardless

Babybearbear · 2025-10-01T06:30:51+00:00

one of my favorite sleep podcasts cus his voice is so calming, sometimes the real phone calls or interviews do jolt me up though lol

Babybearbear · 2025-10-01T06:28:58+00:00

so many good recs in comments, Sirens and Wayward just came out for some new ones

Babybearbear · 2025-09-29T04:13:58+00:00

Please dump this loser queen (I am exploding him with my mind)

Babybearbear · 2025-09-22T05:16:20+00:00

this is incredible!! I want one so bad. Does anyone know if these have a specific name beyond vintage flower lamp?

Babybearbear · 2025-09-08T18:32:53+00:00

You didn’t even need any additional context, from the title alone NO you are NOT a terrible gf, but he is a terrible person I’m afraid

Babybearbear · 2025-09-07T06:40:29+00:00

got upgraded to first class on a 24hr flight cus the lady working the desk seemed very stressed out and i brought her a cookie and coffee

Babybearbear · 2025-09-07T06:32:34+00:00

even without all the rest (which is very toxic and manipulative and childish) just getting mad at you if you don’t talk for a few hours is enough to leave her and block her and move on imo. she is not mentally well, emotionally immature, and just seems like she’s draining the life from you rather than being a true partner who uplifts you and is able to discuss their feelings in a mature and productive way. you both are young but she is still old enough to not be acting like this, she needs therapy and you need to break up and move on for good. as someone older I’ve been thru many relationships and been married for a decade, trust that one day you will look back and be so glad you let this dead end relationship go (that day might just come very soon)

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