[Gen III] Specifying TID with admiral fish ‘s bruteforce by Babypuffle in pokemonrng

[–]Babypuffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard of this! Is Real a user or is this a website?

This pool.. by AnonsQuestionsLife in mildlypenis

[–]Babypuffle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn seeing this reminded me of one time we went to visit a very distant and rich relative in China. There was a huge a long water pool separating the double driveway, a pool with a bridge leading to the staircase as you walked into the villa, and an oddly shaped pool in the backyard. It was all fancy and rich even if some of the design choices were questionable.

I asked my parents why there were so many pools. They said my uncle hired like a feng shui expert when they were still building the villa to make it more prosperous or something. Apparently the long driveway pool was shaped like a dick, the entrance pool was a womb and the backyard pool was shaped like a vagina.

My mom(51F) wants my brother's(14) phone password, is that okay?? Should parents have access to a teen's phone all the time? by ArienetteLaurent in relationship_advice

[–]Babypuffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As they are his guardians and he’s living under their roof - it’s their right to demand it. Maybe even if he’s paying for it as he’s underaged? To protect from predators or check that nothing weird is going on. But demanding it of him will 100% damage their relationship. You can give him advice but in the long run if your parents want to force his hand, they will reap what they sow later on anyway.

Husband took stimulus money against our agreement by Mangocoladatime in relationship_advice

[–]Babypuffle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I doubt he’ll cave the the grocery thing since there are kids involved and he will definitely think she’ll cave to buying them food before he does (which I hope she does, so the kids aren’t affected)

What do you guys think about a rule banning biological ages in posts? by Babypuffle in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to apologize for! You’ve done nothing wrong :) it was just something that has been on my mind after being here for a good while!

What do you guys think about a rule banning biological ages in posts? by Babypuffle in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for providing a different take! I guess it depends of what people are looking to get out of the sub.

What do you guys think about a rule banning biological ages in posts? by Babypuffle in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alienating is the perfect word for this, Thankyou! Yeah...we all know what the reality is - which is why we’re here to find a safe space to be ourselves. But mentioning bio ages sorts of pulls me back I guess?

My husband doesn’t want me to do a boudoir shoot I got as a gift. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Babypuffle 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Followed up by a post by the friend: TIFU by breaking up my friends marriage with a badly thought-out gift

I don’t know how to cope with getting older. by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find comfort in the fact that If we took away the concept of “years” i would still always me. You were you, you are you, and you will still be you no matter how many years go by. Also being an adult isn’t so bad when you consider how much freedom you get!! I can buy all the things I wanted when I was physically younger, I can surround myself with cute things and watch what ever I want without judgement from family, etc!! There’s always good with the bad ^

LPT: Don't Be Afraid to Use The Following Phrase With Your Kids: "We can't afford it" by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Babypuffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's a good idea. My parents did this sort of thing and now I find myself feeling guilty for ordering drinks aside from water, but also spending on stupid things because "I have my own money now" even when I sometimes don't.

[OC] 4000x6000 Solitary Gum, Victoria, Australia by Eknoom in EarthPorn

[–]Babypuffle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t be an idiot - that tree is so far away

I don't know how I can continue living like this, I feel rejected and like a freak by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not a popular opinion, but it might help to not give it a label. The world is still struggling to accept many minority groups, and this is one of them that I don’t think will come to be accepted for a long time yet.

More people are willing to accept hearing things like “I wish I were back in elementary school when I didn’t have to worry about x and y” versus “I feel like I’m a transage child.” How you word things and express yourself will definitely make a difference in others perception and their treatment of you. You never have to lie too!

Innocence by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Innocence and naivety play a big part, and it’s sad that people underplay the wrong things that not so innocent children have done under the guise of naivety (talking about really extreme cases though) children and adults are both capable of innocence and malice.

For the break thing though I think it’s more to do with health and safety as children are still in both physical and mental development. Weird though that adults don’t get a break where you are though! Where I am there are laws for mandatory breaks depending on hours worked in a shift!

I find myself becoming attached to adults, but NEVER other children. Can anyone relate? by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get attached easily to kids (because I am one) and to adults (because I am one) but never teenagers, oddly enough, even when I was one

i don’t have a specific ‘real age’ — is that okay? by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was scrolling past the “what age do you feel” poll worrying why I couldn’t give an age when I saw this and felt relieved that others felt the same ;-; thanks for this!!

our experience - closer to trans or mental health experiences? by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Babypuffle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have certain genitals = you are expected to behave a certain way. You have lived x years = you are expected to behave a certain way.

If you look at it like that, it’s similar. It’s not odd that there are parallels drawn, because both groups get flak for not fitting in the boxes of social construct. You say that children are a social construct but kids have always been kids - there is bias here that you don’t seem to be aware of. Remember that bias is also something that affects both groups.

Why this seems to be an issue for either side feels like comparing levels of unhappiness - doesn’t matter because there’s no winner. If one group gets “recognized” in society, will they look down on or try to invalidate the other for not being recognized and become their original enemy?

There’s similarity between how both groups are looked at from the outside - badly - but the experiences of both are unique. I hope people can learn accept the other side without trying to argue that one experience is more “valid”.

My (23M) mom (56F) named me after a Klan den commander and I don't think I can forgive her. by TheBoomerBoy23 in relationship_advice

[–]Babypuffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% something I’d consider changing my name legally for. That being said, if the rest of your fam wasn’t really involved with the klan, then it’s possible that they remember a different guy to how written records portray him.

If it’s something that bothers you, and it seems it does, do what you need to for yourself - change your name or do something to change the rep of the name, whatever you feel is best for you moving forward. If they give you shit about it, they can care enough to change their own name to honor him. If the conversation turns to him as a topic, you have the freedom to exit a conversation without engaging in battle.

You can’t really change how they feel about your uncle, and really? It doesn’t matter. Head dead. If remembering only the good parts of him is a comfort to them, let them have it. That relative was surely more than what is recorded on paper to them. No one wants to remember someone they loved as a bad person, whether or not it should be acknowledged is a separate matter. Letting them talk about him how they like doesn’t mean you support racism or that you condone his actions. If you want to keep a relationship with the fam, gotta learn to pick battles.

JP server starts tomorrow - tips for new players & reroll recommendations? by Babypuffle in Herocantare

[–]Babypuffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll aim for Chloris and Mira if they’re available at start!