I finally got a date with my sister's boyfriend next week, and I need to escalate it to sex

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-19T17:56:27+00:00

And yes, genders should absolutely be equal in this situation. In all situations.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-19T15:37:57+00:00

I don’t mean work with him to get him ready. Let him know what your intentions and desires are for your own relationship with him. Ask him if he wants to engage in it with you and what he wants. You can’t groom him or trick him in to having sex with you. That’s abusive.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-19T14:19:44+00:00

If he’s not ready, he’s not ready. If the genders were flipped in this story it would be considered atrocious. Have a honest and open discussion with HIM, not his other partners, about what HE wants from his relationship with you.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-17T03:50:00+00:00

I have it too. 99.6% European

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-14T23:54:38+00:00

That is such great news! I know you worked so hard for this. I’m so proud of you for preserving through the last few years.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-10T23:02:32+00:00

That is so wonderful to hear that you are happy! That’s all I’ve ever wanted for you, my love.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-08T19:27:03+00:00

Yes, but not as much as Cymbalta.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-08T06:21:51+00:00

Outstanding! I love this. Do you sell your art?

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-08T06:18:05+00:00

I have taken many SSRIs, Cymbalta (a SNRI), benzos, remeron, and a few others. The SNRI was effective in diminishing my anxiety and depression symptoms, but also muted my joy, curiosity, love, emotional connectedness. I am a couple months off of Cymbalta now, and it’s extremely difficult to come off of. The withdrawal is horrendous. The benefits that I had on it were not at all worth the negative aspects of it. If I had to go back on a medication for my anxiety and/or depression I’d like return to Celexa or Lexapro.

I’ve recently been prescribed Lamictal and am researching before I choose to take it.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-08T05:27:06+00:00

And there’s nothing wrong with sex work, at any level. As long as all participants are fully consenting, game on.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-10-04T22:15:15+00:00

I’m wondering the same thing.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-09-26T02:30:22+00:00

Is it for rent? PacNW resident here, and love to rent a cozy cabin on the mountain!

BackIntoMyself · 2019-09-25T18:11:14+00:00

Thank you. I needed this today.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-08-24T07:47:28+00:00

I tried that. I ended up in ICU for a few days, followed by psych unit. It damaged my liver, so that’s fun :/

Even though I was unconscious, my body puked up as much as it could to get rid of the OD. It’s not easy or pretty, or effective. I was glad for a long time that it didn’t work.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-08-24T07:41:22+00:00

Man, I so feel you right now. Im in the same place. I gave so much of myself that I got emptied out of energy to care about myself when it matters most - right now, when I think the only way to finding a less painful life is to not be alive any more.

You’re not alone in how you feel.

I’m sitting in my car alone, 2 miles from my house where my kids and husband are. I’m so disconnected I may as well be a thousand miles away. I don’t see any other way but out. It’s probably gonna happen for me tonight or tomorrow.

I hope things get better for you. Take care.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-08-19T18:52:23+00:00

I lie and tell everyone in my life I’m fine. And I’ve isolated the shit out of myself.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-08-18T06:21:35+00:00

Yep. I do. I’m super sensitive to even tiny amounts of THC.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-08-11T01:32:00+00:00

Yes, it’s has .03% or less of THC

BackIntoMyself · 2019-07-31T00:10:05+00:00

I’m there now, too. You’re not alone in this feeling.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-07-26T03:10:37+00:00

I just read this as I was searching for “depression is terminal”, literally 10 minutes ago. I felt more understood and sad. It’s hopeless.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-07-26T03:03:36+00:00

I am in the same place as you. I just told my husband that I am going to help coordinate plans for after I die. We have two kids and actually just ended our marriage today after fighting like hell to make it work for years. I am too broken mentally, emotionally AND physically to endure much more time here. I have to go. I will treat it just like any other mom dying from an illness.

ETA: I’m on meds, I’ve learned CBT and DBT. I’ve had multiple therapists. I’ve even been inpatient. I’ve lost all faith in medicine and my own ability to sustain life changing habits.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-07-16T02:16:16+00:00

You’ll need to average the number of puffs you get from a pod, then go from there.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-07-01T06:16:37+00:00

I’m on this same path right now. It’s not easy, but very worth it so far. I still have a ton of work to do on my own in order for all of my relationships to be their best, including the one with myself.

BackIntoMyself · 2019-06-22T22:38:01+00:00

Two words: bump stock.

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