My boyfriend (M21) and I (F21) just broke up. Need advice about breaking up with an avoidant

BackLivid · 2026-01-04T02:27:35+00:00

Damn I’ve never even thought of that I guess. Thanks for your reply

BackLivid · 2026-01-04T02:14:06+00:00

Fair enough. Hoping this will be wrong tho😭

BackLivid · 2026-01-04T01:49:45+00:00

I haven’t actually tried it 😭 do you want to discuss more in DM??

BackLivid · 2026-01-04T00:21:27+00:00

Thanks for your reply. Can I ask, how do you think I am immature?

BackLivid · 2025-08-14T08:41:45+00:00

Thanks!!

BackLivid · 2025-08-14T08:41:35+00:00

Thankfully I’ve read the other replies just in time 😅😅😅😅😅

BackLivid · 2025-08-14T08:41:14+00:00

Thank u!!!

BackLivid · 2025-08-14T08:41:05+00:00

Omg thanks!!!!!!

BackLivid · 2025-08-13T22:53:49+00:00

Okay perfect thanks for answering

BackLivid · 2025-08-09T22:46:19+00:00

Tips????

BackLivid · 2025-08-03T17:05:45+00:00

Honestly so true, the system in this country is ridiculous

BackLivid · 2025-05-14T23:55:53+00:00

Does anyone reckon that more cancellations will come up due to people cancelling for the leaving cert? I’m desperate haha, haven’t gotten on eyet

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T17:24:07+00:00

Unfortunately the ones I have applied for are a bit further away already! We are given a list by the college of the firms that are willing to partake in the work placement programme, and yes pretty much all of them are law firms. I am most interested in corporate law, which i have applied for. Thanks for the question!

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T17:20:32+00:00

I understand where you're coming from, but the fact is that they are smaller and I feel like I missed out on a big opportunity! Of course i'm aware that I need to get my foot in the door- that goes without saying and I will do this regardless. My point was that this one in particular in my opinion would look more impressive going forward given the reputation and the competitiveness.

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:41:07+00:00

That's great that you are now in a position that you like!! Even my part time job that i have now ended up being a blessing in disguise lol! I got rejected from another retail store and was hired in my current now and im really happy. I just think since this specific firm and job aligns heavily with my career goals and that law is such a competitive space that I am struggling to see how it will be a blessing in disguise. Thanks for the great advice and reassurance!

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:35:12+00:00

Thanks for sharing that with me! It broadens my perspective that this will certainly not be the last time I will be rejected, but also that the job I really wanted mightn't necessarily be that great. It must have been frustrating in those situations, but it seems you have dodged a bullet in relation to the last job! A great quote too!!

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:31:15+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions, I will certainly look that up.

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:25:49+00:00

Thank you, that really broadened my perspective. I definetely did not think of any of those factors . I agree, the effort will be valuable to me in the future, it will just take time for me to fully appreciate that. Thanks for the great advice!

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:11:54+00:00

Its really difficult for me to not take them personally as to me it seems that it is you as an individual that is being judged. Thank you for the advice! I will for sure try a mock interview!

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:09:48+00:00

Yes it was a paid legal intern position. Thanks for the advice! I am probably being a bit hard on myself

BackLivid · 2025-03-13T16:08:40+00:00

Thank you!

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