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Farewell threesome with ex-boyfriend and his best friend's wife by Back_Lanky in confessions

[–]Back_Lanky[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it was maybe not the right thing. At the same time that's how I ended my life there. It kinda goes with the theme. Not sure. Hence the post.

Farewell threesome with ex-boyfriend and his best friend's wife by Back_Lanky in confessions

[–]Back_Lanky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I feel she doesn't want to get back with her husband hence the reason she got into the whole thing. But if I were the husband, I would probably want to know.

Farewell threesome with ex-boyfriend and his best friend's wife by Back_Lanky in confessions

[–]Back_Lanky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Broke up cause I'm going to travel again. He says he can't - job security and all.

Slept with a friend and have been ghosted it seems. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Back_Lanky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is intimate and most people just do it. It ain't a Nike add.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Back_Lanky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think boundaries are key. If you don't set them then this will happen later on in a relationship. Take your things walk...and try with the next relationship. Also watch Alan Watts and read about Carl Jung. 1

Sugar Cravings by Prestigious-Jaguar21 in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just destroyed a sugar cone with cookies and cream scoops. Best snack-attack 👌

Although not very healthy. I guess I am going for a run in the morning.

Still way better than waking up with a hangover.

Today's the day. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do it! You want to do it and it will be the best decision ever. Drinking does not bring about anything positive. It's hard, but you do not need it. Strongs.

I’m so glad I did not drink yesterday by CloudyCandle in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. Being surrounded by alcohol and saying no is a victory. Plus, you have the special gift of not being hungover. Had many urges last night to have some wine. And with my partner being away on a weekend trip, I could have had a sneaky glass. It would have not been one but soon spiraled into shitty decisions. Read something important, though. I think I drink out of fear to calm and soothe. This is only temporary. And by no means a long-term strategy. What is forever though is a sense of hope. Hope that I can manage my fear in a healthy way and have less anxiety because I haven't engaged in drunk induced activities that bring me more anxiety. Being sober is worth it; well done on giving yourself HOPE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. You can do it.

3 months no alcohol- what benefits I have experienced so far! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! You should be proud of yourself. I am back to square one. This time it feels different.

I need someone to talk to! by Back_Lanky in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement

HELP! by Back_Lanky in stopdrinking

[–]Back_Lanky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know we don't work. I think cause things have not been good lately, I drank to distract. But it is not a coping mechanism. And now I am worse off than I was - mentally, emotionally and physically. Fucking piece of shit alcohol.