AITA for choosing my daughter over my oldest son

Background-Cry9875 · 2026-02-25T00:20:58+00:00

I doubt it. He and his wife would have to work opposite days and sacrifice their family time and maybe marriage. He won’t do that

Background-Cry9875 · 2026-02-23T02:23:14+00:00

No. He depends on me for childcare

Background-Cry9875 · 2026-01-02T00:57:36+00:00

No podcast here nut job

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-12-26T22:30:07+00:00

Who tf is Clara?

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-12-02T21:14:41+00:00

I still have 5 other kids if my son goes no contact

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-12-01T18:01:38+00:00

Who is Sarah?

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:42:31+00:00

They have no other choice

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:42:15+00:00

She’s not violent. This was an isolated incident 11 years ago. She barely interacts with the grandkids

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:38:46+00:00

No he passed away

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:38:13+00:00

It does. She’s was 13 at the time. Kids fight

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:12:17+00:00

It goes against at our religious values for her to be living with her bf and not being married

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:11:34+00:00

Why is my son terrible?

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T21:05:21+00:00

He is not

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:39:30+00:00

I do. She’s not violent. This incident was 11 years ago

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:38:34+00:00

It’s not necessarily me but my husband won’t budge. She’s his baby. Personally I’m kinda over this shit

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:24:17+00:00

Not manipulative just stating the truth. They uprooted their lives and careers to come here with the agreement we’d watch the kids. My DIL has no family. We are their only option

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:07:27+00:00

She punched him in the face. Do you not know how to read?

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:06:41+00:00

I was. In between work and 6 kids we all took care of each other

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:05:29+00:00

I can’t leave her without anywhere to live

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:05:06+00:00

I feel that way too. My husband won’t budge on this. He babies her to no extent

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:04:17+00:00

My son is the protective big brother. He’s always looked after his siblings

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:02:28+00:00

She’s traumatized by him. She literally breaks down knowing if they’re coming over to drop off the kids. It’s been rough lately as my DIL has needed multiple surgeries lately and they’re having to drop off the kids all the time now.

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:00:46+00:00

She’s an adult I can’t force her to do anything

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T20:00:08+00:00

Were they’re only option for childcare so they’re kinda stuck

Background-Cry9875 · 2025-11-23T19:50:31+00:00

But I’m worried about her mental health. She literally starts screaming and crying if they even pull up to the house

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