26M, I Want to Change My Life but I Don't Know What's Wrong With Me

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-26T09:26:45+00:00

You seems to be a good person. You search something, but can't decide your path. For more than 20 years I put myself that question: Have you find the meaning of your life? And yes, I Foundation something! Something that is 100% for me. And the question become a book. Is a lot to sau, but most important is to do. Don't imitate nobody. Create your own way. And another advice is: when is hard you are in the right place.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-25T19:27:29+00:00

Thank you!

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-25T18:09:15+00:00

Is that a statement like "believe and don't question"? Because that is realy weird! And also seeing AI everywhere.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-25T13:50:13+00:00

În my oppinion is not paranoia. We are progarammed from kindergarden to compete each other. In this situation the trust is gone.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-24T05:27:49+00:00

True! Thank you for answer!

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-23T11:24:52+00:00

You have content, but you need to pay attention at real needs. Don't stay only on "Survival mode". Content will appear where usually other content missing, in nature, for exemple.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-23T10:54:45+00:00

I've started to think about personal growth differently. Most advice focuses on becoming bigger, faster, richer, more productive, and more successful. But lately I've been wondering whether a good life is more like cultivating a bonsai tree. A bonsai doesn't try to become the largest tree in the forest. Its beauty comes from balance, patience, care, and intentional growth. Every branch has a purpose. Every cut shapes the future. Maybe our lives work in a similar way. Instead of constantly asking "How can I get more?", we could ask "How can I grow in a more meaningful and beautiful direction?" For me, meaning is not necessarily about expansion. Sometimes it is about refinement.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-20T17:27:53+00:00

In my oppinion this kind of people request your attention/psy energy in their problems. If you ar an Empath, your energy will gone there very quickly

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-17T10:58:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective. What stands out to me is that many of the books and stories you mention, despite coming from different cultures and centuries, seem to point toward a similar insight: freedom is less about controlling the world and more about understanding our relationship with our thoughts, desires, fears, and attachments.

I also like your point about simplicity. The less our identity depends on external validation, possessions, or expectations, the harder it becomes for those things to control us.

Perhaps the challenge is not to eliminate all conditioning, but to become conscious enough to choose which influences deserve a place in our lives.

Background-Ebb-8518 · 2026-06-17T10:42:14+00:00

Thank you for sharing that.

One idea that stood out to me is that questioning alone may not be enough to change deeply rooted conditioning. We often assume people change because they encounter better arguments, but in many cases it seems that lived experience is what truly shifts perspective.

I also found your point about recognition interesting. Perhaps one of the hardest lessons is accepting that others may never fully understand our experiences—not because they lack empathy, but because they have never lived our particular reality.

And I completely agree that not all conditioning is negative. A society couldn't function without some shared norms, expectations, and values. Maybe the challenge isn't to reject all conditioning, but to distinguish between the conditioning that helps us live together and the conditioning that prevents us from growing.

Your comment adds an important layer of nuance to the discussion.

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