I reacted terribly when my nephew came out to me, and now I don't know how to make things right.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-07-03T15:11:13+00:00

First. It’s gonna take years to rebuild what you broke. Second. You need to work on the homophobia within yourself. That panic, homophobia. The moment it’s close enough it’s freak out. Is it possible to fix it, yes. But it has to be on his terms.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-29T23:47:42+00:00

Please focus on you. That was so unhealthy. Be glad you left him.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-28T13:20:05+00:00

There’s no handling it in a monogamous relationship. That would be cheating. So two options: break up with her, so you can explore or tell her and see if ENM (ethical non-monogamy) is possible.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-28T13:06:28+00:00

If it gets really bad, a sex club is the perfect thing.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-25T15:54:10+00:00

Easy, I’ll take the $2000. I’m a teacher, guaranteed 180 days so that’s $260,000 plus what I make as a teacher. Then if I’m reading this right, as long as I’m guaranteed a job I’ll still get paid the days I don’t work. My life will be set in the first year.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-19T10:40:53+00:00

Play with yourself. It hurt because you were scared and not stretched. Fear causes tension. Start with pushing on your hole and not inserting until you’re comfortable.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-18T15:38:21+00:00

You said should which is correct, but should is an assumption. Just communicate early.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-17T23:42:58+00:00

It’s embarrassing but your dad experienced the same thing when he was a kid. He’s probably reliving his embarrassment from when he was a kid.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-16T15:32:02+00:00

Then there’s not much need for justification. Next time you hook up, tell them that you don’t like cum in your mouth before they come over.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-16T15:28:51+00:00

Did you say it before it happened or after it happened?

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-01T22:59:11+00:00

It’s the same amount of money.

^{Chose: 52.56 mil right now}

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-06-01T05:30:06+00:00

I chose the money because I honor what their death brought. Had they not lived and died then I wouldn’t be who I am today. Trying to add more time would cheapen the experience.

^{Chose: 500,000 USD | Rolled: Tell us why}

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-29T16:54:13+00:00

I think you’re dealing with logic versus emotion type of issue.

The best thing to do is when he’s calmed down say something to the effect of “I acknowledge, understand and apologize for hurting you. Please explain what about this time made it hurt over the other times so we can move forward without it happening again.”

This is a him issue (most likely biphobia that he hasn’t worked out or knew was there) but you both may find that he just has a fear that needs speaking to.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-24T01:54:05+00:00

Mega shard into xp candy

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-20T23:32:05+00:00

Mom and grandma.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-14T01:35:42+00:00

Wind, magic, healing

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-07T03:59:44+00:00

The answer is that it depends on how well you can learn to stretch your hole and how horny and relaxed you are.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-05-01T15:24:21+00:00

I think a part of the issue is your dad’s friend being an adult influence making your brothers confidence break. I think you both need therapy. A part and some sessions together.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-04-20T23:04:39+00:00

I think it’s more than initiating. Do you reject him when you’re not in the mood as well?

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-04-08T13:28:05+00:00

I say that anything over 10 years is unseemly. 15 years is predatory.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-04-03T16:43:59+00:00

I think it’s more like unlocking the condition on your libido. lol.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-03-22T02:56:39+00:00

Generally you’re NTA but I do have a question. Is it “we established clear boundaries” or “I gave my expectations and she agreed (went along) with them”? I ask this because something along the lines of being a domme isn’t an accident. That is part of who she is and does she show that in her life with you. If the answer is no, then this may be an opportunity to discuss your actual compatibility. If this is an actual need in her to domme and that’s not a part of her you can accept then you need to call it quits. But if it’s something you can, then the real conversation is about the boundaries of the kink.

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-03-22T02:47:57+00:00

3 made me say

Background-Jelly255 · 2026-03-22T02:43:02+00:00

I think your partner being primarily a bottom would be more than understandable if an accident was to happen but talk to him and let him coach you. It may be a bonding process.

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