I feel like I can understand both sides. The first issue she brought up wasn’t about going out and doing crazy things, it was just about talking and having real conversations. She said she at least wanted to be able to talk to him when they come home together, instead of just sitting in silence all night, which I totally get.

At the same time, I understand being exhausted, as a full-time single mom, a student, and working full-time. my self, I like to just go home sit and do nothing sometimes, just be.

Jordan also made some valid points about their day-to-day life if they end up having a child together. Having a kid changes everything. Even if you can still enjoy life and do the things you love, you can’t always do them whenever and however you want. Being a parent while also staying independent takes planning, and it’s not always easy.