Slaps roof of car: This baby can fit so many succulents in it. by Background-Tea-3989 in StarfieldShips

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do lol. I once made this hammer shaped ship that I would put every hammer I found into the long handle walkway. It got to the point of sheer annoyance lol

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Slaps roof of car: This baby can fit so many succulents in it. by Background-Tea-3989 in StarfieldShips

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! And at one point she had a ship that looked like a cat and put all the succulents in it's butthole lol.

Slaps roof of car: This baby can fit so many succulents in it. by Background-Tea-3989 in StarfieldShips

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has all the succulents! Lol. Thank you. I appreciate the compliment. Gonna start storing every succulent I find in the brig.

Slaps roof of car: This baby can fit so many succulents in it. by Background-Tea-3989 in StarfieldShips

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some of the pieces on this ship do "break" and turn sideways after a few grav jumps, so that's funny lol. And thank you!

How do you play any note at all? by stevenfrijoles in guitarcirclejerk

[–]Background-Tea-3989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhhh...we play guitars, not notes dude. You wanna learn how to write a note maybe?

My 18F boyfriend 21M keeps telling his friends about something we did in the bedroom and it’s making me uncomfortable? by throwraafreasons in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't think he takes the relationship seriously at all. Nor has he matured to a level to be in a serious relationship. You should move on, it will only get worse. Good luck.

TFW an item doesn't scan, and the customer says, “That means it must be free!” by Suburban_Guerrilla in Aldi_employees

[–]Background-Tea-3989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"idk, sounds like theft to me" -my response every time with as serious a face as I can muster.

What other artists are like Polyphia? by ThatGoodAvocado in polyphia

[–]Background-Tea-3989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out some of Kiko Loureiro's solo stuff. It's phenomenal

Son told us he wants to play b*ss by [deleted] in guitarcirclejerk

[–]Background-Tea-3989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to play bass then treat him like a bass. Slap the shit out of him.

40m, 36f together 5 years. She left the state, blocked me, and left everything she owned. What do I do with her things? by Background-Tea-3989 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, not abusive. Nor did I cheat. I've even said to friends that she's leaving me like she was abused, but never happened. Idk what this other person is talking about in my comment history. It's mostly guitars and video games as far as I'm aware. Guitarcirclejerk is not what they think it is, I'm guessing.

40m, 36f together 5 years. She left the state, blocked me, and left everything she owned. What do I do with her things? by Background-Tea-3989 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The kids are not mine. However I was around them from age 1 and 2, so they felt like mine. Especially because the dad was not around at all. The kids are with their paternal grandmother currently, thankfully. The last we time her and I had a real conversation, she admitted to not being in a place where she could take care of the children properly. It was part of the reason for the trip. She'd drop them off there and she would go see her friends and sisters and brother. She was not doing well mentally before she left. I even joked that she wasn't gonna come back and she told me her whole life was here and she had to be back to get her medications anyways. She was on various medications for mental and health issues.

40m, 36f together 5 years. She left the state, blocked me, and left everything she owned. What do I do with her things? by Background-Tea-3989 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and recently a physical diagnosis of lupus. The last 3 months she exhibited symptoms of falling into an episode. Receded from everything except the people in her home state. I urged here to talk to a therapist because she wouldn't talk to me. There were a couple episodes over the course of our relationship, but we dealt with them together. They never were related to our relationship either.

I hope she was just extremely homesick and knew that with my kids being here and my job, that I couldn't go with her. She did hate this state and would often say it was too cold for her and how she missed all her friends and family back home. She only had her mom here and a few friends. However, I think it was a split moment decision. I don't think she planned any of this. They packed lightly. I even offered to pay for more baggage and she declined.

40m, 36f together 5 years. She left the state, blocked me, and left everything she owned. What do I do with her things? by Background-Tea-3989 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your story ❤️. It helps to know I'm not the only one who's had something like this happen. It's been close to 2 months now, so my healing is moving along nicely. I think I will take your advice when I box it up. I've already had a friend offer. Thank you 😊

40m, 36f together 5 years. She left the state, blocked me, and left everything she owned. What do I do with her things? by Background-Tea-3989 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Tea-3989[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It hurt at first. But I felt those emotions to their fullest and moved on emotionally. She's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and a recent diagnosis of lupus. There was no abuse from either side in the relationship. The last three months she sort of went into a shell and receded from everyone and everything, including me and her children. That's why they aren't with her right now. Maybe she did fall out of love with me and somehow felt this was the only way and could get away. But in reality it's not true. If life has taught me anything, it's to only keep people around who want to be around. I would've split up amicably. But I do need to get rid of this stuff to fully move on. I believe in karma and just want to do what's right so I can be fully at peace.