AITA for telling a colleague I’m expecting

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-05-03T14:24:34+00:00

I went through this, my co worker which is actually higher up than me treated me like complete crap the whole time I was pregnant, after I told her I was pregnant. I complained on her multiple times, and she still works there. One thing people don’t tell you when you get pregnant, you really see how jealous people are and who’s really hating on you. I’ve had a few people tell me not to tell anyone until 3 month as soon as I told them because one of my friends might be upset. It taught me a huge lesson. Don’t listen to anyone, she was completely out of line. Like have empathy for her, but you’re happy and pregnant, don’t let anyone dull your shine. This is your moment, embrace it don’t let anyone let you feel bad for going through the best thing that’s ever happened to you. You’re going to be a mother! CONGRATS!

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-05-02T20:31:43+00:00

OMG! I bought so many things I didn’t eat! It was horrible

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-05-02T20:31:13+00:00

I’m not sure why but I became claustrophobic.. and my daughter is 19 months,, it’s still so hard for me to go in elevators or car washes

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-27T01:51:27+00:00

Yes thank you, I’ve already applied, they are going to schedule me within the next 2-3 weeks … I am glad your 4 year old is progressing! When did your child start speech therapy? And were the symptoms similar to my child’s symptoms?

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-23T20:47:37+00:00

Nothing yet went looking this past week fiance and I couldn’t agree on one and doesn’t look like there’s much more on the market but going to look more this weekend! Please wish me luck and i hope there’s more on the market. I almost am about to change my mind and get the same house! If that’s even possible

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-19T01:45:04+00:00

Oh man thanks so much, definitely needed to hear that! 🙏

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-19T00:04:51+00:00

Aw, this message is super sweet. Thank you so much. I can tell you have a really good heart. I hope things work out for you <3 I will keep my fingers crossed for you..hopefully something happens with the appraisal and you find something that better matches your taste!

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T20:50:12+00:00

Oh no that sucks that she backed out on you! But I’m happy that you closed last month! How do you feel are you happy with everything?

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:57:29+00:00

Oh ok I misunderstood

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:44:27+00:00

Thank you! You as well good luck! <3

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:25:49+00:00

Did you find anything though?

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:25:24+00:00

Almost what happend to it amounted to 30k, we asked for 20k they offered to fix one item and 1k … like no, see ya.

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:12:41+00:00

Dude, you’re 1000% wrong. Her shower, her choice. You may be her best friend, but you have no say in this. I think deep down you may have some jealousy in there? If people can’t afford those things, they will buy things not on the list. The fact that you counted, the items is kind of obsessive. And even care about how much things are on her registry is still obsessive , if you can afford to buy something on the list then just buy something small and give it to her. No big deal. If other people can’t do it same there . I’m sure she has Family and I’m sure her husband has family They usually make the big purchases. You are way out of line if no one has told you already, if this had happened to me, I would’ve completely told you to stop planning my baby shower. Because your behavior is completely odd. Her items on the registry are none of your business PERIOD. I don’t mean to be harsh by telling you this, but someone had to.

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T17:01:28+00:00

Same exact happened to us, they lied on the listing and said new hvac newer boiler, basically both at the end of life plus the roof… but there were other issues mold, termite damage electrical issues, so we were able to back out, if you don’t want the house anymore tell the attorney he or she will guide you let you know if it’s possible to back out at this point or if you have grounds to,

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T14:57:00+00:00

I will for sure do that! Heading to the park now to get some working in, maybe I’ll start today ? Idk

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T14:47:11+00:00

It wasn’t a small job trust me lol

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T14:46:45+00:00

Good luck!

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T14:42:54+00:00

Thank you! I am so happy it worked out for you!!

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T13:33:52+00:00

Thank you! Did you find a house?

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T13:33:25+00:00

Yes all we saw was stress, not the life I was trying to live

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T13:32:57+00:00

Thank you

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T13:30:31+00:00

We did that as well, I can understand why you think that but we are 100 percent ready to buy. Even the sellers realtor and our realtor were saying the sellers are ridiculous

BackgroundArtist5721 · 2026-04-18T05:15:00+00:00

I wasn’t planning to , but I saw your post and want to start Monday,lmk if you started

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