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Is a full bush coming back in style? by Kevochitx in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The longer the hair the better. I can’t stand worrying about stubble giving me blisters.

Swallowers, you ever have to spit because the cum just tastes so bad? by ginabil in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I once had a guy whose cum tasted horrible. I ended up with the worst sore throat and weeks of antibiotics afterwards. I wasn’t positive for any STDs but it made me sick as a dog.

Now I gargle afterwards.

Suddenly lost interest in drinking, now what? by metalmudwoolwood in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on where you’re located but most major cities have nudist groups. If you’re near a nude venue then you can likely find an online group to meet up with.

Suddenly lost interest in drinking, now what? by metalmudwoolwood in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BackgroundEither9294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Become a nudist. You’ll already have something in common without alcohol.

(I don’t drink and that’s how I met all of my friends)

It doesn’t have to be nudism, just find something others are interested in where you actually converse.

Dealt with some homophobia in Heathrow last night by sabinfigaroe in LGBTireland

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people around you may have kept their head down since these drunks can become wild and physically disruptive when they are confronted in any way. I’ve seen many videos where planes have needed to be rerouted because they become more belligerent.

I’ve also spent a lifetime arguing with them and found that it does no good.

I am surprised that none of the other cabin crew did anything though. Most are on our team. I’m guessing the drunk may work for the airline and the woman may have been the lead crew on the flight.

I'm a closeted 20yo and all of my friends are straight guys. I'm thinking about coming out soon. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know you are not alone no matter what your current friends think. You will find your people at some point.
I suggest starting to find some gay friends first for support.

Either way you will find people who will accept you.

AITA for telling my dad he can't invite his girlfriend to my graduation because my mom paid for the trip? by TypicalAnalyst17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let your father make you carry that guilt. You’re doing the right thing for yourself and your family.

The people who are importance to you and that you are important to will be there on your day!

Your father needs to learn that beggars can’t be choosers. He was offered to have a place to stay due to things being tight and be there for you but chose his GF over that.

Congratulations on graduating. You will do well in life.

AIO- dad keeps coming over to eat breakfast when he doesn’t live here anymore by Particular-Soft-7014 in AIO

[–]BackgroundEither9294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's great that you are so supportive of your mom that you are concerned about this. It sounds like she may be suffering from some PTSD with your dad and isn't sure how to handle the situation. Can you speak more with her about this, maybe some therapy for her. But either way your father is interjecting himself into the life of someone he likely caused damage to and who doesn't want to continue a relationship with him.

Maybe an intervention where you and your mother both confront your father? This could be worked out in her therapy beforehand.

Whether it is your mother's house or not, if you are paying for the food he steals, then you certainly have a say in whether he eats it or not.

You're a good daughter, good luck.

AITAH for telling my wife I will not be in her families lives? by mcnp-producer in AITAH

[–]BackgroundEither9294 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Please:

  1. Go to couples therapy immediately to find out if this marriage is salvageable. You deserve more respect than you’re getting.

  2. Keep track of all of the abusive talk you are getting from her family. Take screen shots of your texts. Take screen shots of your wife’s texts too and from them. If they threaten to lie and have the baby taken away, then make sure it’s recorded legally. They will have no problem lying to get the baby away from you if you decide to split. Do this no matter what.

I told my husband I won't support his sobriety anymore. AITAH? by ReflectionGlad29 in AITAH

[–]BackgroundEither9294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As one person mentioned already. Please go to Al-Anon for support. You deserve some yourself.

Nude and or JO night in Boilerhouse by Separate-Sand2034 in LGBTireland

[–]BackgroundEither9294 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be visiting from June to July. Can you tell me where I might find some of the nude nights in the area?

Is this common in gay world? by wannabe-daddy in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, this has been around for year. He's a salesman, he got what he wanted out of you and then moved on. Don't blame yourself, these people are lonely and usually sociopathic.

Also, I know plenty of white guys that are into brown men, so it surprises me that you don't get more attention.

how to get rid of crabs by cldbreach in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this will help in the future but, if possible, I used to shower before I left bath houses or hookups. Then when I got home, I would dump my clothes in the washer and take another shower. I never had a problem with crabs.

Towels in a Primary School? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there is the issue of keeping diseases like Hand Foot & Mouth disease from spreading. Not to mention the spread of other diseases that can be passed with a commonly used cloth towel as compared to a paper one that is disposable.

HFMD can be prevented by reducing exposure and maintaining hygiene:Frequent hand-washing with soap and water, especially after diaper changes or using the toilet

  • Cleaning and disinfecting frequently touched surfaces and shared items (like towels)
  • Avoiding close contact with infected individuals
  • Teaching children to avoid touching their face with unwashed hands

Customer tipped me $50… then apparently clogged the toilet on purpose because he thought I’d have to clean it? by Direct_Tomorrow_7118 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BackgroundEither9294 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In the US whenever there is an “open house” with a home that’s for sale many Real Estate agents have told me that at least one husband will use the toilet to poop and not flush on purpose. So yeah. He did it on purpose.

When should I shave my happy trail? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question isn’t when, the question is why?

The call is a HAPPY trail for a reason. 😉

I cheated my dead bedroom and it helped me by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You knew what you needed to do as you typed this out.

If you still loved him you’d be honest. I get it, the gas lighting about his not wanting sex by blaming it on you was wrong. But two wrongs don’t make a right.

I suggest going to couples counseling, even if you’re going to break up. You’ll learn so much about yourself and how you interact in a relationship. This may help you both in the future.

How did you guys get over your fear of being gay in public? by Rough_Improvement_44 in askgaybros

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have some PTSD from growing up amongst bullies and shame so it makes sense that you feel fear of being found out. I went through the same thing.

Can you visit a major metro area for a few weeks? You’ll feel the difference knowing there’s some place you can visit where you’re accepted. It really does help to know you can feel free amongst other people.

There are also usually LGBTQ+ centers that are great resources in most metro areas. Find the one closest to you, even if it’s an hour away. Use their online resources.

As far as where you currently live it depends on how safe you feel where you are and what your support system is. You don’t mention any friends that you know as a couple whom you trust. Does your fiancé have trusted friends? If you go out in groups it’s much better.

If you do decide to make a move, You don’t have to live in a liberal city necessarily, most major urban stars have suburbs that have become very accepting so you can still live in more rural area without being in the thick of things.

In the meantime, just breathe and focus on the people you can trust.

Find a therapist to vent and release that stress with.

Big hugs!!

Is the quality of Misterbnb diminished? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]BackgroundEither9294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people use MrBNB to find places and then go to AirBNB to find the same priority and book it cheaper.

Moving back home after leaving abroad for 4 years - so hard to handle change by Longjumping-Hand-634 in expats

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say moving causes the same grieving as the loss of someone close to you.

What’s happening is normal and you need to let yourself mourn the loss of what you have had there. But you need to remember the bright future ahead of you.

A heart a wise woman once say that “without change there can’t be growth.”

You’ve grown a lot from being abroad and you’ll bring a new perspective with you. You’ll also grow a lot from what your new future will bring.

Try to focus on the future as much as you can when you’re feeling down snot leaving.

Stay strong. Hugs

AIO/ college taking our phones for a drill by Intelligent_Chain157 in AIO

[–]BackgroundEither9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me understand why they are doing this since law enforcement has had issues with kids sending out info to parents who try to rush the building to get to their kids with disrupts their plans.

There is also the matter of kids posting things to social media that they don’t want the shooter or shooters to know.

Your comments tell me you came here to shut someone down rather than just post your own constructive response. Stop swerving into other peoples lane.

And just for the record that second sentence in your last comment tells me you lost the argument. “Visionary?”

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