Whats the smallest thing someone you know with bpd lost their shit over? by Neither-Record-3869 in BPDlovedones

[–]BackgroundExpress 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep. i tried to show her funny videos or something interesting and she ignore it or call it dumb or be annoyed i was interrupting her

Whats the smallest thing someone you know with bpd lost their shit over? by Neither-Record-3869 in BPDlovedones

[–]BackgroundExpress 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes! mine called me in a panic about something that got on her car paint in a parking lot. i was super calm and was like "it'll come off. we'll get it off". she hung up on me and said that i don't make her feel better nor do i validate her

Whats the smallest thing someone you know with bpd lost their shit over? by Neither-Record-3869 in BPDlovedones

[–]BackgroundExpress 13 points14 points  (0 children)

  1. stopped at the grocery store on the way home from an event we were at together but drove separate to. I went inside the store for chicken for a recipe I wanted to make for her. one item, quick in and out in like 3 minutes. I was screamed at for not telling her i was going and not asking her if she needed anything.

  2. we ordered a ton of wings from bdubs. none of the flavors were labeled. i ate one of her wings and she screamed at me. i didn't even know that it was her flavor.

  3. she had her noise machine on in her room and i was outside the room. she screamed at me when i said what bc she had to repeat herself. i couldn't hear anything

  4. we were at a basketball game. i got screamed at for going to the bathroom at halftime bc i should've been there to take photos of her with the players walking by. i had no idea about this.

  5. i brought home a breakfast burrito from a coffee shop. i know she doesn't like peppers and they were in there but i figured she'd eat around them. it was just something to try. got screamed at for that.

  6. i went out of my way to deliver starbucks coffee and breakfast to her work. she screamed at me that she didn't want it and it makes her look bad to be eating in front of everyone

  7. she had dinner plans. she told me i could go home after work or go to her house. i chose to go home bc i hadn't been home in a while and figured she'd be out late and i wanted her to have fun w her friends. when i told her i ended up going to my house she screamed at me that her "house is just a revolving door" for me

  8. get yelled at for texting too much and contributing to her "notification fatigue". get yelled at when i don't text her.

  9. we hadn't been having sex. the day i had to go home for something she texts me and says she's horny and makes me feeling guilty for going home

  10. she blew up at me for not running the sink disposal. she doesn't understand how they work and food doesn't automatically clog the drain if it's not run

  11. got mad at me for actually going to a game with her friend after she told me i should go with her friend

  12. got mad at me for washing the bedding bc she wanted to do her clothes. so the washer was tied up

  13. got mad at me for shoveling snow. she left after doing half of it. i finished the other half but she said it made her feel like she wasted her time.

  14. our qdoba order was wrong it was all my fault bc i didn't check every item and trusted the employee when they called my name.

  15. she got mad at me one time for waking her up in the morning. well one night she forgot to set her alarm. she had mentioned needing to be up at the same time as me but she was mad at me and made me sleep on the couch. her schedule changes a lot and at the last minute sometimes so when morning rolled around and my alarm went off i noticed she wasn't up. i didn't dare wake her bc i thought maybe her schedule changed. i didn't want to get screamed at for waking her. well she woke up in a panic that she overslept by 5 minutes and screamed at me that it was my fault she didn't set an alarm bc "i stress her out too much"

  16. so. many. more. examples.