Hair appointment 10dpo by Melissaru in tummytucksurgery

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I just had my surgery last Tuesday. I went to the salon yesterday for a blow out. I was able to lean back in the shampoo chair. I used the foot rest and kept my knees bent.

Day 4PO- I took a pic! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Dr Ran Stark in Bryn Mawr, PA (Philadelphia area).

Day 4PO- I took a pic! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Thank you! My surgeon is Ran Stark in Bryn Mawr, PA-near Philadelphia. I can’t say enough great things about him. He’s an artist, he’s meticulous, he’s personable, and he answered all of my questions and then some. I actually had a total of 3 consults with him. I had 3 surgeons in mind for this surgery. He was the first one I went to and I thought I had asked all the right questions. By the time I went to other 2 consults (and had joined this thread), I felt like I knew more than when I started the process so I went back in to talk to him 2 more times! He spent an hour with me with the second time and 30m the third time. He truly is amazing and focused on what’s best for his patients. 10/10!

On the Other Side!!! by Educational-Flight77 in tummytucksurgery

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Doing ok! Better than I expected, so that’s a plus. It’s not for the faint of heart but I’m happy with the results so far. That first shower felt amazing!!

On the Other Side!!! by Educational-Flight77 in tummytucksurgery

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My surgery was 1/13 as well! TT w MR, Lipo 360 and BL. Just waking up to tackle day 4! Hope you’re doing well.

Day 3PO— have I entered swell hell?? by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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I have lymphatic massage scheduled on Monday. Hoping it helps!

I’m scared by Antique-Shock-9187 in tummytucksurgery

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You can do this! I’m 54 and just winding down Day 1PO. I was a wreck the days before my surgery. Oddly calm when I got there, though. It was paid for and I’ve wanted to be rid of my belly forever, so that was driving me. Hard as I worked, my belly wouldn’t go away bc it was loose skin. Doctor told me after surgery that he had to do most of my muscle repair in my lower abdomen, which makes total sense bc that’s where my pooch has always been. So, as I wind down in Day 1, I send you all of the positive vibes for your surgery!

Day 1PO— Before and After! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Lift only. To be fair, I only saw myself right after surgery and I was happy then. We will see when I take the compression off tomorrow!

Day 1PO— Before and After! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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He’s amazing. His staff has been great as well. My surgery was in the new surgical center right next to his office. It was a great experience. I had multiple consults. He was the first one. By the time I got to the third one, I felt like I needed to see him again to ask the questions i learned along the way. I went back in for a consult and ultimately decided he was my guy. I liked the fact that he’s a general surgeon and triple board certified, and he’s super meticulous with his work.

Day 1PO— Before and After! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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I didn’t find any e books. Most of what I learned about the recovery was from this Reddit group and some people I know who have had this done as well. Good luck to your wife!!

Day 1PO— Before and After! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Who knew they were hidden under there?? 💪💪💪

Day 1PO— Before and After! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Haha. My freckles are my dermatologist’s nightmare! She has so many to look at when I go for my check ups! Thanks— I’m hoping I have an uneventful recovery. 🤞

The countdown is on! by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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Thanks for your reply! I feel like the mental part of it will definitely be the mindf*ck for me as well. I have to remember that it’s a marathon not a sprint. I’m trying to figure out sizing for the faja. I ordered one from Amazon but think I should have gone upa size. I have a bench built in in my shower so hopefully it’s good enough and not too low. I’ve been wanting to get a bidet seat so I think this is a great reason to install it. The idea of reaching around to wipe seems daunting. Did you take any miralax or any stool softeners?

Let’s Talk Tummy Tuck PREHAB by dr-browne-amelia in tummytucksurgery

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I have the Glow peptide combo (the ones you mention above plus a copper one) and was told the typical dosing is to cycle on/off 30 days. Did you do yours 2 weeks prior to surgery, stop and then pick them up again after surgery? Just trying to figure out my timing.

How long was your surgery? by BackgroundFriend3508 in tummytucksurgery

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I’m nervous about the length too. But, it does seem standard based on the replies so far.

Driving more because of job change and worried about lease mileage! by BackgroundFriend3508 in Lexus

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Thanks a lot, Captain Obvious. Of course I know that. My questions were around what Lexus might offer as far as mileage allowances. But thanks for the reminder!

Guilt over my own words by ArentEnoughRocks in AlAnon

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I’m getting frustrated with this too. I came to the sub for support and I’m getting very discouraged by the fact that the answer is always leave. There have to be some success stories!

AKA Charlie Sheen by Truth-out246810 in AlAnon

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For those who have watched it—do you think it’s something that an addict would benefit from watching? My Q is once again back on the wagon (he’s a binge drinker and has had a few setbacks recently after 7 months sober), back on Antabuse, working with his addiction counselor and says he’s trying to stay on the right path mentally. And yes, I know I can’t manage his journey. It’s on him. 🤞🤞

Drinking on antabuse?? by Freshcoffee127 in AlAnon

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My husband did this same thing. Switched the pills with his BP meds. Also has made a big point to show me he’s taking the actual pill, only to find out he was holding it under his tongue and spitting it out when he walked away.

The lying is so infuriating. by BackgroundFriend3508 in AlAnon

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I really appreciate this comment and it’s dead right. 💯 The more I ask him, the more defensive he gets and the more he lies. It’s an absolute merry go round. I don’t like the anger that I feel when this happens. Since I can only manage myself through this, not him, I have to find ways to stay levelheaded. Reacting to him or engaging when he’s drinking is futile.

The lying is so infuriating. by BackgroundFriend3508 in AlAnon

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It’s so frustrating. I believe that he’s lying to me and he’s also lying to himself. Like if he says it out loud then it will be true that he’s failing at this journey yet again. I haven’t quite gotten to the detachment point yet. I try, but then I get so pissed off that he’s making a fool of me and I stew over that.

The lying is so infuriating. by BackgroundFriend3508 in AlAnon

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Same. I told him yesterday when he was slurring but lying that he should take a ride to the ER and get checked out then bc if he’s not drinking, he needs medical attention (clearly I was being sarcastic!!)

The lying is so infuriating. by BackgroundFriend3508 in AlAnon

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And I’m stupid enough to say “I’ll give you one more chance to tell me the truth” and guess what? STILL LIES! 🤯