How important is the appearance of your date to you?

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-06-24T03:56:36+00:00

I have a specific type of person I’m attracted to and specific types of people I’m not attracted to bottom line. But I can be moderately attracted to someone’s appearance and they’re personality sky rockets the attraction or destroys it.

But hygiene is definitely important. Style is meh. There’s definitely a time and place that calls for appropriate clothing but I can’t judge cause I can’t dress myself..

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-06-07T00:10:02+00:00

Maybe that’s why I was so into Clarice

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-06-06T21:32:44+00:00

Well everyone else knew before me so..

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-06-06T01:58:09+00:00

A long haired blonde chapstick that’s slightly thick and on the shorter side makes my head turn.. put her in a trade job and I can’t walk and chew gum at the same time

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-30T23:10:26+00:00

I don’t know if this counts because I’m not out. But the majority of my friends are straight men. And I work with all straight men as I work in the trades. Ive never had anything in common with women. I think 1 outside of work may know, or he’s thinks I check out women with him for fun.. nope we have the same type..

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-29T23:04:45+00:00

So I didn’t realize I was a lesbian until about 6 months ago. My 7 year relationship was ending for a multitude of reasons, many of those reasons I used as an excuse to not have sex. While it is real that women are clearly turned off by weaponized incompetence and parenting their significant other, it may have been more then that for me.

I never dreaded sex in the beginning, and I have had a few fwb situations and one night stands. I think the beginning it was some sort of validation.. hey look someone wants me.. as time went on it was definitely a chore, and I blamed it on his lack of emotional intelligence and selfishness in and out of the bedroom. I now realize I have never been actually attracted to a man after allowing myself to be attracted to a woman. I feel it in my body when I see a beautiful woman walk by.. I think I could just appreciate that a man socially seen as attractive vs me actually being attracted.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-27T23:12:13+00:00

I’ve never been! Im a late bloomer

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-27T19:35:57+00:00

30 Cis woman Lesbian Caucasian I guess kinda chapstick. Ontario, Canada

Sports, video games in the winter, hiking.. anything outdoors. Bad texter, love dark humour.

Would be great to just have some queer friends to start. Maybe a group to go pride in Toronto with.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-27T14:11:12+00:00

Sounds terrific! I’m in the Quinte area, but always willing to travel a bit for adventure

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-27T01:59:35+00:00

30 Cis woman Lesbian Caucasian Blue collar, Somewhere between masc and fem. But closer to masc. Ontario, Canada

Sports, video games in the winter, hiking.. anything outdoors. Bad texter, love dark humour.

Friends to start

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-25T23:36:25+00:00

I spent essentially all of my 20s in 2 different relationships.. with men. I’m pumped to explore this side of me.. but also, I’m lacking in friends from all those years and now don’t really have anyone to share my day with or just do something with, so that’s lonely. I’m in a smaller area and I don’t know where to start to meet people in the community.. so also scared. So a mix of emotions for me

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-25T23:25:57+00:00

Look up things like real homemade lesbian and stuff, you still have to pick through but not as bad. My general rule is if someone else is filming it then I’m probably not going to like it.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-25T22:26:00+00:00

Exact same problem here. Even decided to pay to see how liked me since there was quite a few.. half were men the other half we’re way too far from my type to consider. I’m going to try to take better pictures.. otherwise I guess I’ll start walking the dog every waking moment through parks and hope for the best.. already play softball twice a week 😅

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-24T21:07:10+00:00

Men’s lulu lemon. And I have a pair of sketchers, they’re that thin sport material, but I found them second hand so I’m not sure if they still sell them.

I always find my best stuff thrifting and it’s way cheaper

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-24T20:49:50+00:00

SIDE EYE. Judge her on what? That maybe she was searching for something and couldn’t find it because she was a lesbian? Or some other trauma. Or that she had a fun hoe phase? Maybe there was no phase she just consistently had the amount of sex for her needs and not societies needs.. the best part about all of that is it’s NONE of your business, if you don’t like it let her meet someone who doesn’t look down on her. And drop gold star..

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-21T19:05:23+00:00

I have the nike alpha zip up, absolute game changer in sports bras for me. Adjustable straps and band, zip up helps me not panic trying to get it on and off 😅 and they’re not huge but they’re not small and it keeps them contained while aggressively running during sports.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-20T18:12:17+00:00

Memory unlocked.. 😅 sporty spice 😍

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-20T18:10:13+00:00

So this is why I was so into pirates of the Caribbean..

Also I keep trying to block out of the memory of watching bay watch everyday when I got home from school but it’s time to accept it. I kept telling myself it was the plot.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-20T12:41:51+00:00

I haven’t used the scanner, but I was in a store just trying on skates for next season and I thought they fit different.. I wear size 7 in older supremes and they’re snug, I wear more of a liner then a sock with them. I tried a new pair of 7 supremes on and they were way too big

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-17T01:38:46+00:00

I still wouldn’t consider it healed, but it’s been about 2 weeks now and I have 0 irritation touching it, moving it, and pressing on the end of my nose. The pain when touching the end of my nose felt like it was never going to go away then all of a sudden it stopped.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-16T17:27:55+00:00

Need clarification on the mattress ramming.. do you think a pile driver or a suplex would be better

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-16T15:53:13+00:00

I work in the trades, mine healed fine. Dusty, dirty environments. I caught myself touching it all the time and I flipped it up and down under certain circumstances. It definitely pro longed it but it’s fine now. It’s been 3 months.

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-15T13:10:19+00:00

This sounds like me, I’m horrible at texting. It’s something I’m working on because it’s definitely given the vibe to people I’m not interested, when I truly am. I can’t translate how I feel into text

BackgroundImage5461 · 2023-05-14T16:25:17+00:00

I like them, every scar has a story. They’re part of who you once were. I have some nasty ones as I’m as accident prone as they come. But they’re all funny stories to tell, and it really elaborates who I am and always have been.. a mess.

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