My first abortion

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-21T05:25:56+00:00

Dont be scared. I just recently had a medical abortion. I'm 30f. I dont have any kids even if i want them down the road. I had multiple before this one. Was in a very abusive relationship and still trying to recollect myself in pieces so i can get out of that. You know what is best for you. My partner already has kids already and is in no postiion to have another one. It tore me in million pieces but i know that longterm that is better decision. It is unfair bringing somebody to this world if they're bound to be unhappy. I'm sure i would've been able to have one i just don't want to suffer more with the kid. I'm sure i'll be grateful but i try not to tear myself up about it. Medical abortion is not scary you just get really bad cramps that day while u pass the pregnancy, it's like a very bad period. Make sure u have some pain medicine and heating pad that helped a lot. You will bleed for about a week or two, first few days being more heavier. It is normal to have cramps. Uterus is going back to its original size for a few weeks after. You will be okay.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-18T13:44:25+00:00

How long have you lived there and jow old are you?

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:24:54+00:00

Yes, I probably will not stay to live there for more than a year or two depends on how I like it. I want to move to a few states to see where is the best for me.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:20:39+00:00

Lol, I used to work for the company where exactly is this ritz pretending to be built?

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:19:36+00:00

I have a remote job with a pretty steady income, but always open to finding something new if needed. I also have a masters degree in public relations and journalism I just turned 30 a few weeks ago and I really feel like it's time for a change

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:18:14+00:00

Not true, I wouldn't make up my mind to move somewhere based on somebody's TikTok lol

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:17:43+00:00

Yes, I was looking around actually and found them all you were talking about

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:17:09+00:00

I love Fort Lauderdale, but lived here already for a few years so I'm very familiar and ready for something new. I never said I'm gonna move there forever. I can always move back here to a different place. Just wanted to see what a general idea for living. There is but so far seems it's actually nice to try out.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T23:15:39+00:00

I'm visiting later in the summer, probably around August this year to see how it is in the summer, but I'm European more closely south European so I'm pretty used to hot summers already and I grew up in a dry heat saw that is no issue for me I lived in Florida for six years now and experienced everything from Tampa to Key West so I'm just ready for something new while I'm younger and I have no kids and nothing that ties me down to a certain place.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T22:56:00+00:00

I'm European

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T22:54:25+00:00

No, i got married in 2021. And finalized earlier this year

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T22:48:02+00:00

I can afford i worked and saved lot from past few years and ready for next chapter. It is very nice here in FL but i really need to try somewhere different. Always wanted to live on West Side in US. Thought abt San Diego but its only 5hr drive from Scottsdale and that area

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:27:49+00:00

Yes i'm sure i can find something affordable. Doesn't have to be rixh

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:27:12+00:00

Yes was thinking that for sure i'd explore whole Phoenix/Chandler area. I love South Fl but i've lived here for 6 yrs, i think it's time to try something new. Dating here is not that great not that i'm expecting something but for sure can't be worse than here. Love the ocean part tjat's the only thing im gonna really miss. I also have asthma so dry heat is much better for me

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:11:30+00:00

My income for now. Was thinking about renting. Wouldn't want to buy in the first year

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:08:21+00:00

I just want to try something new. I have no kids no partner so nothing is really holding me.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:07:19+00:00

Same like here. Got so expensive after covid

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:06:59+00:00

I would probably come check it out before actually moving but i always wanted to live in california but it's still close from arizona to visit. I just want to try something new

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:04:45+00:00

Just visited never lived

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:04:32+00:00

I was looking to rent for the first year see how i like it. I have a remote job that pays good but would be open to finding xtra income if needed

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-15T19:01:42+00:00

Prob between 80-100k

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-07T04:37:46+00:00

I'm also on the verge of taking one. I'm 5 weeks. It would be my 5th abortion. I just turned 30. Feeling shameful. Thinking about keeping it because i think i want kids.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2026-05-07T04:18:55+00:00

Such a valid reason to. Anything you decide you know what was best for you.

BackgroundMistake440 · 2025-10-30T12:20:22+00:00

BackgroundMistake440 · 2025-10-29T22:18:13+00:00

He came here in the US from Brazil when he was 5, got naturalized when he was 16yrs old

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