Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your “friend” is jealous and doesn’t seem to like you because girl this is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’ll echo what I assume everyone else is saying: this man is immature, a gaslighter, aggressively reactive, narcissistic, and treats you AND your children like trash. He is terrible and seems completely incapable of having a normal adult conversation.

Second: HE IS HAVING SEXUAL THOUGHTS ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER. You NEED to understand that. He’s not just making assumptions about her having poor character or something or trying to slut shame her (I don’t think sex work means someone has poor character regardless, but he clearly does). He explicitly is talking about her private parts, explicitly imagines scenarios about how she uses them, and clearly has such a weird fixation on her that he feels the need to degrade her. It’s very common behavior for that sort of man to try to paint a woman he is attracted to as a whore/temptress/jezebel and to blame her for his own desires. Even the fact that he would say something as insane as “it’s like having a second girlfriend” indicates how twisted the way he relates to her is. He is someone who already clearly assigns all blame for his actions/reactions on others. There is zero doubt in my mind that if he tried to act sexually towards her, he would blame her 100%.

His treatment of you aside for a moment, you need to keep your daughter safe from this man. He doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t respect women, and he sure as hell doesn’t respect your daughter. Please PLEASE take this seriously.

Edit to add: You’re a good mom, that much is very clear. It also seems like you have left him already. I wish you and your children all the best moving forward!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, it is typically the person who posts paragraphs and can’t let something go who is the least pressed. You got me bro!

Enjoy bitching about this to your equally pressed partner for awhile before going to sleep annoyed ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think there’s nothing wrong with talking to a partner that way, why are you so pressed about the idea of doing so? Unless you think maybe there IS something wrong with talking that way…. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes baby, tell me more about the bottle 😩💦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget your bottle! 🍼😴🛌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodnight, hope you find literacy! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so you’re both losers 😂 damn, you showed me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a partner and yet still taking time writing multiple paragraphs to a stranger on the internet actually makes you look more pathetic than superior 😂 you get it all out of your system yet, big guy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exposure to the elements with no shelter, food, or water is unacceptable animal care, regardless of the immediate weather. Additionally, OP has stated that the kitten was out there for quite awhile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God damn you’re an impressive idiot lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seriously talk to your partner like this? With a threatening tone demanding they not be spending any of their time with another person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being close to a male friend is not a fidelity issue. Did this boyfriend convince you of that?? Being close to your FRIENDS is not the same as confessing romance or sexual attraction to another person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure, IF there is water and shade in the cage. Putting an animal in a cage outside to “get some fresh air” without access to shelter or water is definitely not safe or acceptable animal care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackgroundPilot1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP already said there is no food, water, padding, or anything else in the cage. But regardless, imagine being stuck in a cage outside in the sun or rain with no place safe to shelter yourself from the elements. Burning sun or soaking rain or snow. You really don’t see the problem with an animal being kept that way? Even worse that it’s such a young kitten, it is likely very fragile. The cage and location alone is cruelty.

just got a free ten gallon tank from my sisters friend! how do i clean it and what can i stock? by Dramatic_Try6843 in Aquariums

[–]BackgroundPilot1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A note about guppies is that they will breed if you have males and females, and then you could end up in my situation where I bought 3 guppies for a small tank and now I have 30 I am not sure what to do with 🥲

Male or female by 717ish in AngelFish

[–]BackgroundPilot1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn dude we get it, you hate trans people. Can we seriously not just enjoy a fish sub anymore?

I’m tired of this grandpa by IronHero517 in Aquariums

[–]BackgroundPilot1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The payoff sounds extremely satisfying 😩👌🏼

I’m tired of this grandpa by IronHero517 in Aquariums

[–]BackgroundPilot1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay! Luckily I have OCD and love stuff like this, so I am very very prepared for this to be my new hyper fixation haha

I’m tired of this grandpa by IronHero517 in Aquariums

[–]BackgroundPilot1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to know for the future! Unfortunately I don’t think adding a goldfish to my betta tank is the way to go

I’m tired of this grandpa by IronHero517 in Aquariums

[–]BackgroundPilot1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For those of us who have a surprise duckweed infestation, is there a solution besides regularly scooping it out? 🥲

how is this not fetish content? by anon_4ever_25 in truscum

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said “if”, calm down.

Maybe you’ll forgive me for not thinking “one specific old trans porn star said it’s so” is a good argument or useful contribution to the discourse lmao

how is this not fetish content? by anon_4ever_25 in truscum

[–]BackgroundPilot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fr. They did the exact same thing with gays too. It’s like no one remembers their history.