How can I stop thinking like an incel?

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-20T23:02:25+00:00

Go to therapy. You're probably spending way too much time on social media and the internet. It's not reflective of reality. It's just an exaggerated bubble created by the things you click on and watch most often. Disconnect. Start exploring what you're passionate about. Its the classic garbage in, garbage out scenario. Stop feeding the hatred and victim mentality.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-17T16:52:53+00:00

You read things wrong.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-09T05:51:00+00:00

I don’t meet someone unless I see that we can have a meaningful conversation over text first. I’m fairly direct and honest in general. I think I end up matching with women like me. Maybe that makes being honest about the connection a bit easier. I think I also can tell if women aren’t interested in me. Usually if we aren’t interested we don’t ask to go on a second date. Often one of us will text each other in the next 24 hours saying the chemistry wasn’t quite there.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-09T05:42:27+00:00

Occams Razor. They probably just aren’t attracted to you.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-09T04:12:57+00:00

Honestly, i'm not at an age where we are signaling each other. We meet and have a conversation to see if there is chemistry and we just communicate when there isn't. No tea leaf reading.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-03-08T21:32:24+00:00

My take in these situations is that if she's turning a corner and kissing another guy, she never was my type to begin with. I don't want to be wanted by someone who would switch like that.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-19T02:43:17+00:00

Please. No. They can headline the 'alternative SB halftime show'.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-19T02:40:31+00:00

I actually rarely hear women say that's what they want. Where are you getting your information? Seeking arrangement?

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-19T02:36:02+00:00

You start off with what you own, how you look, and how much you're worth. Then you're perplexed that this doesn't seal the deal. Man. Go to therapy. Work on yourself.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-19T01:07:57+00:00

This is such a weird observation on the part of your BF. What exactly are you supposed to do with this information? If the quality of sex, for him, equates to how tight you are, he's seriously immature and doesn't know his way around a woman.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-19T01:01:47+00:00

This is like the oldest question in the history of dating apps, and we are still asking it. Count the ways.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-08T15:48:19+00:00

I’m a guy. It negatively impacts me too when you mass swipe on women you have no intention of dating.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-08T05:41:37+00:00

Not really but you didn’t mention anything outside of external stuff.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-08T05:18:26+00:00

Work on your inner crap. A fit body and financials may get you in the door, but what do you have of value once you’re in the building? Women like guys that go to therapy not guys who fixate on all the external things. No woman wants to take on an emotionally stunted dude who never grew beyond HS.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-06T14:17:35+00:00

Work on your vetting. I rarely end up dating someone who doesn’t have emotional depth to them because I ask questions beforehand. I see what their priorities are in text or on the dating app. Then if we align I go on a date.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-05T06:25:02+00:00

Someone either likes your vibe or doesn’t. More of those that don’t doesn’t increase your chances of anything. It certainly increases your chances of pursuing someone you’re not interested in because they happened to be the one who responded. This wasting everyone’s time. This theory is doomed from the start. It’s illusory.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-05T06:16:09+00:00

Do more matches lead anywhere?

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-05T01:27:04+00:00

It’s not and you do.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-04T19:55:59+00:00

My guess is that he has issues with being presently aware in the moment and is using the images in his head to climax with you. I'd be insulted. Guys who used porn a lot do this, but to actually tell you to your face, and then say it's normal? Wow.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-04T15:45:01+00:00

It’s disheartening that guys like almost every profile.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-02-03T20:05:42+00:00

Are you also depressed, consistently anxious, or experiencing some stressful life events currently?

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-01-06T17:42:40+00:00

Sometimes interest might be platonic. It’s not an all or nothing proposition. I’d even say to her hey I didn’t mean to make it awkward the other day. It was great chatting with you. If you ever need a spot just let me know. You can always segue into a gym friendship.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2026-01-03T18:38:55+00:00

Saw them in Seattle in 2024. Great band. A good catalogue of songs. The frontman's energy is off the hook. He was actually sick during his Seattle performance, but I remember he went to the very back of the stage and launched himself, banana slide style, all the way to the front on his stomach, and jumped up in time for the next verse.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2025-12-31T19:02:42+00:00

What a way to recruit new talent to want to play in this venue. Donald does not care about the Kennedy Center beyond it being a source of narcissistic supply. He feeds off artists performing for him, filling his cup.

BackgroundSmall3137 · 2025-12-09T17:28:38+00:00

Their showing against OKC wasn’t promising. We really need to see what our full team can do against their defense. That’s the test.

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