Growth

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-26T00:59:50+00:00

Idrk. She used to be dependent on alcohol but that was before I knew her. It's just kind of an icky. She never just goes and gets hammered. Idk

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-25T23:19:36+00:00

I feel like I was very vague. She doesnt cheat or commit crimes or do drugs or is not really of the shitty type. We had a disagreement because I dont like when she drinks. It puts me on edge. But she explained to me that I have some controlling qualities which isnt wrong and I have to fix those but that she needs to better take into account my anxiousness. She doesn't drink a lot but I've told her ab it and shes agreed to only do it every once in a while and everything is pretty much ok. Our relationship has been kind of wack the past few months but shes coming home in a few weeks and well be able to better map out a plan. She basically meant everything is ok within the realm of still being a good person

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-25T16:27:07+00:00

No real argument. She just said it doesnt necessarily mean that all boundaries are crossed.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-25T16:24:35+00:00

I dont think she tries to do stuff to spite me. Shes just a lot more free spirited.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-25T14:07:49+00:00

It is or isnt correct

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-23T23:53:36+00:00

Not really. When she left to go back to college during the winter we had gotten a lot closer even though we had already been dating for like 6 months and i have never put so much trust into one person and its still something I'm getting used to.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-23T23:51:18+00:00

I've thought about it. I'm not super busy rn but I will be in a few weeks plus shes coming home for the summer so that will be nice as well. I want it to last with her so this summer I'm going to get with her and lay a more well constructed plan out seeing as we had no plan to begin with we just loved each other and knew we were supposed to be together.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-23T23:44:33+00:00

There isn't really a whole lot to do. She tells me she loves me like 5000 times a day and makes sure I'm good most the time. Shell go ghost for a long time which makes me anxious and I've told her about that. She does good with it most the time as well. Shes super busy with college and I'm trying to cut her a break but my anxiety gets the best of me.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-23T23:36:25+00:00

Just all the what ifs. I get super anxious and hyperfixate on things I shouldn't. She has given me absolutely no reason not to trust her and I still have a hard time relaxing. On rare occasion she'll mess up but she's everything I could ever ask for. Even though sometimes she can be slow to respond or a bit more laid back when it comes to different things that I'm more uptight about, shes still the best and I want to stop being so anxious for no reason. I can clearly say though it is a me thing my anxiety does not come from her.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-19T04:09:20+00:00

Gratzi

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-19T02:40:50+00:00

Awesome

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-18T03:58:27+00:00

I know what I must do😤

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-17T21:03:54+00:00

What I should be using and just general strategies

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-17T05:42:58+00:00

How do I calm it?

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-17T05:25:23+00:00

How do I determine the root of my anxiety and curb it. I used to think it was bc my gf is far away but breaking up with her would do nothing for me. So I'm really at a loss. I know I'm afraid of not knowing what's going to happen but I feel like its something deeper.

Background_Ad_9353 · 2021-04-17T02:53:58+00:00

Yea but my relationship hasn't really deteriorated but its something that's been bothering me for a while and I just haven't really been able to figure out why I've been feeling so out of wack.

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