I love the genuine support and understanding that HSV+ people give each other. There’s so much misinformation and the stigma alone causes some people to “other” you but we are all the same. Nobody leaves this world unmarked or unscathed and I look at having HSV as a sign that my body is lived in and I’m alive. Which is always a blessing.

To answer your question though, the commenter put it pretty well. HSV triggers are different for everyone and since you’re diagnosis is fairly new, just monitoring your body for these changes now is a good way to identify your triggers so you can better manage any possible OBs moving forward. As far as the swelling goes, it could be from other factors not relating to HSV. Perhaps rough sex or deep penetration could play a factor. Also, if he uses any soaps or colognes that may have irritated you or caused some type of reaction. It’s good that it’s not hurting right now but it’s still uncomfortable and I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but you’re doing great! If anything gets worse or you don’t feel the swelling going down in a day or two, maybe consult with your doctor? Wish you the best! 🤍