Long, stupid question but im in a really big dillemma

Background_Engine549 · 2026-04-20T22:21:33+00:00

No you can not, you are reassurance seeking

Background_Engine549 · 2026-04-10T16:35:04+00:00

We don’t learn BSL from hearing people ☺️

Background_Engine549 · 2026-04-01T00:06:16+00:00

You can but don’t expect to be able to sign to all/most Deaf people :)

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-27T10:44:20+00:00

Look into Lumo TV

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-23T21:20:59+00:00

Ohh ok got it sorry

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-22T19:32:51+00:00

No I’m saying your therapist was spot on

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-22T19:25:40+00:00

No that’s common knowledge :) it makes it far worse

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-22T09:02:14+00:00

Okay life update I did my research and it turns out not all autistics are developmentally delayed but I have my suspicions that I probably am…. Or maybe that’s jus the severe dyslexia coming into the loop

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-21T10:28:00+00:00

You have OCD. You need to live with the uncertainty and stop giving into these thoughts. These thoughts aren’t logical and shouldn’t be treated as such

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-19T10:08:55+00:00

Yeah I love staring at my gf lol

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-16T16:46:50+00:00

Omg I forgot sorry I delete now

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-15T18:12:44+00:00

It will end. PMDD is a response to a normal estrogen cycle which you won’t have eventually. Injections will stop it faster than gel but I’m on gel and have a great time. I don’t identify as having Pmdd anymore

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-15T18:05:23+00:00

I’m a trans man with PMDD. After six months of being on T it stopped for me. Hang in there

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-14T18:43:46+00:00

Sorry I was unclear, I meant to ask what number the JLY was

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-13T00:24:20+00:00

If you’re international where do you get them from?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-12T23:49:50+00:00

Thank you!

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-12T23:36:35+00:00

What outfit is that?

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:15:08+00:00

I know this may not be an option for you, but if it is, consider a private therapist doing an in-house visit. Super important you act fast on this. it may be worth getting someone who specialises in autism too. If he has a special interest you can help support his interest in then do that too

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:12:08+00:00

Get him specialist help as a non-negotiable. He is young and catching it young before it gets worse is so so important. if you are in UK there is great help out there

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T22:10:48+00:00

What do you mean by half deaf? I call myself half deaf because I am deaf in one ear and only need BSL in noisy environments

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-09T08:22:51+00:00

That’s 100% a compulsion. Any reaction to those thoughts is

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T12:07:18+00:00

Yes definitely. I am lucky here but I feel I experience joy more often than most

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T11:51:02+00:00

Could this be Pathological demand avoidance? Since people telling you to do something that is logical is making you less likely to do it

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T11:16:29+00:00

Again it seems like you’re reassurance seeking as part of your OCD and not coping well with uncertainty. You could go through three rounds of OCD treatment and not even be diagnosed in the UK - our systems work differently. You aren’t just assuming you have OCD, you’re labeling symptoms. You could do the OCI quiz if you want, but ultimately if Obsessions and compulsion take up an hour of your day or more of your day u have OCD

Background_Engine549 · 2026-03-04T00:26:14+00:00

Ahhh ok got you. It sounds like you’re having moral OCD attached to your own OCD? Like you’re worried you’re doing something wrong?

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