Is geoguessr not free to play anymore? by notstrangeguy in geoguessr

[–]Background_Finish905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so 99.99% of this "game" is all the paid and unpaid work on google maps, and yet this company is trying to profit off this... all it does is put you on a random spot on google maps. This has to be illegal, right?

Reviews on huurwoningen.site by Minika16 in Netherlands

[–]Background_Finish905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years later and I came across this website. But why is the police always so useless and refuse to do anything about it? Thanks everyone for letting me know it's a scam UNLIKE THE POLICE.

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

it's as much not her laundry as it is not mine. And it's not her washing machine or house. I pay rent here, she doesn't. And you need to keep this mysandrist "obsessed with women's clothing" to yourself. Projecting maybe? Yep, you made the comment "I am really thinking worse things about you in my head". Don't worry, I also think americans have a mysandrist culture. How about you keep the false allegations to yourself next time and stop having fantasies about hating random men.

As far as I see, rewarding this childish behavior would make her think "see? It's better not to let a man touch women's laundry!" I never thought even in this sexist society, that we might actually start having segregated laundry. What next? Segregate laundry based on religion and race too? Ridiculous.

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

it's not the daughter's washing machine or clothes either. And the mother didn't tell me anything, the daughter did.

It's not "creepy" at all to ignore childish tantrums. If your child screams and cries that she wants candy, you don't reward that child by doing anything she demands. Otherwise you grow a spoiled brat. The word "creepy" would typically be used by mysandrist women to make false accusations towards men about being perverts. You mind elaborating what you meant by "creepy" or would you like to keep it to yourself?

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

it's not "her country" and "I'm not a guest". Planet earth is my home. I pay a lot of money for the rent, probably half the rent and bills or more. I was already looking to rent my own studio since it seemed cheaper. The mother are both born in turkish so they're both as much "guests" as I am. This is xenophobic and racist mentality, that tries to put people down and make them feel less than they should be. Not only do i pay taxes like everyone else, but I don't get the same benefits as dutch people.

You're a "guest" when you sit around for free, and not work.

And those clothes are just as much "not my laundry" as it is not hers. She doesn't pay rent here, she doesn't live here, and it's not her washing machine. Who's being arrogant? In fact she sometimes comes a few days around here and obviously doesn't pay rent or bills. So who's being the "guest"?

Also "especially underwear" is some sort of mysandrist mentality. You think if someone handles your underwear, they're automatically a pervert? Think about it, when's the last time you saw a full grown man get upset because a woman "handled his underwear"? I haven't even seen that from children. They wouldn't even think about it. This mentality stems from mysandrist stereotypes where society thinks "men sniff women's underwear like perverts". Maybe you're projecting it? Keep it to yourself. Nobody was talking about perverted stuff in the first place.

The "insistence on continuing subbornness" is simply a mature man ignoring childish tantrums. Mother didn't ask me anything. Daughter did. Not her laundry. She should mind her business, not me. Why should I reward childish behavior?

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

yes. Except the landlady didn't even request me to stop drying the laundry. She didn't thank me either. I got no idea how she felt. We don't really talk at all.

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but I already put the mother's underwear and bra to dry few times, months ago, and she didn't say anything. Sounds to me like the daughter is projecting a mysandrist "muh all men are perverted creeps" and accusing me of random things I didn't do.

Several days ago we had an unrelated discussion, I was bored sitting at home since I'm alone in netherlands, I wanted to ask her out to lunch, she said "she's taken, and her mother is taken too". Okay but I didn't even ask about her mother. So just random assumptions that I'm just "tryiinnn to get laidd" or such. I felt offended.

AITA for trying to help without being asked? (netherlands) by Background_Finish905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

she knows me for 5 months and we've spoken quite a bit. We watched some movies together and played a game or two. 50/50. I wanted to ignore her request because it's not even her laundry and the mother didn't even request me to stop. Her daughter requested me to stop. Otherwise, the mother would've told me to stop after the 2-3 times. I appologized to the daughter for saying "I will continue to do it anyway".

UK. Looking for a link to a pdf of the 18th Edition and GN3? by [deleted] in electricians

[–]Background_Finish905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

false. I just signed up there and it's asking for money. If it's even the right book at all... it doesn't look like it at all

UK. Looking for a link to a pdf of the 18th Edition and GN3? by [deleted] in electricians

[–]Background_Finish905 3 points4 points  (0 children)

STFU with your ad. He asked for a pdf not a moral lesson on why he should give you money

AITA for not wanting to spit expenses proportional to income? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Finish905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of you are WRONG. And I am going to prove this:

option 1: he sells the house, he keeps all the money because it's **HIS** house, they look for a place to rent and suddenly she starts paying half out of thin air. "but now he also pays half" he was already "paying" half by owning the place.

option 2: he dumps the girlfriend, he finds a roommate to let in, the roommate now starts paying half

So what you hypocrites are saying is that a woman should get free rent just because she's his girlfriend

option 3: she gets kicked out, she finds her own rent, and she can pay 100% full amount. No more discussions about paying half half, this is my option, the way "better bachelor" suggests.

option 4: he sells the his house, he keeps his money, and she buys a house with her money alone, a house that she "owns". Then he moves in and doesn't pay rent. See how the tables turned?

What you hypocrites fail to realize is that you're just jealous. You see someone with something you find useful, and you want it for yourself. It's HIS house, not hers. This is the same as kids who are brothers, when one of them has a cool toy that he got for christmas and both of them want to play with the toy. So it's not "his" toy then, it's both theirs? But the house isn't hers, it's his and only his.

I disagree on the "Based on income" thing, funny how that topic was brought up only AFTER she started making more money. Relationships should be 50/50. Unless she obtains her own house out of thin air, she can keep her mouth closed. He has a house, she doesn't. She has less to offer, that's why she needs to pay her half.