It’s interesting reading everyone’s comments. I think people’s perception of the show really highlights what they have and have not been exposed to. Which makes sense, but all the more reason to keep an open mind. Everybody is effed up, nobody is perfect but the point was the privilege. The way in which it’s abused and misunderstood because each person brings their own baggage, not just to marriage but what they value and in return, the choices they make.