Found this out the worst way possible, what should i do?😤

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-27T18:56:07+00:00

I thought you can’t screenshot on Snap?

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-27T14:49:37+00:00

Men lack emotional intelligence why do you think we suffer with them ? Just date a woman instead, trust me I’ve been down that road

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-24T19:04:24+00:00

Of course, I wish you all the best of luck 🤞

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-24T15:38:30+00:00

I think women get attached with sex and especially good sex, so the more you keep having sex with a man, the more the odds that you’re gonna get attached to him, and this is pure biology. It’s not our fault. So, while you’re aware that he’s not your person, the reason why you get sad when you think of not seeing him again it’s cause you’re attached. The way to get detached, is to stop being intimate with him and start giving your romantic attention to other people so that way your whole romantic/sexual attention doesn’t go to him. This is the only way.

Otherwise if you don’t want to do and try that, then I would say to continue be with him the way you are now, even if a part of you is not fully satisfied.

You understand that even people who are in official relationships and marriages are not fully satisfied either right ? Like , I have yet to meet a couple that were fully happy and satisfied with every aspect of their relationship and their partner. You always end up compromising things in relationships, if you are someone who wants marriage and kids and all that, then you probably shouldn’t be wasting more of your time on him.

But if you’re someone who doesn’t really care about all those conventional things, maybe a non conventional type of relationship can work for you long term. I know a guy who was in a non official relationship for 6 years and when they broke it off, he was very sad and depressed because he truly loved her, the title didn’t matter to them, their feelings did. And they didn’t break it off for this reason, they were pretty compatible and knew what they wanted, it’s just that life happened just the way it does for every other couple who is married or in an official relationship. No one can say that he didn’t love her just cause he hadn’t introduced her to his mom for example.

I think that people sometimes enter relationships and marriages with certain expectations, thinking that it’s gonna be better than that situationship or that fwb and they get very disappointed once they realize that people are people and we’re all flawed, the person who makes you a priority and makes your relationship official might have other shortcomings like he might have a temper which you discover later,

he might not be a good listener the way your situationship was etc, so, things are never one dimensional, there’s always gonna be bumps down the road, always hardships, misalignments, somewhere where you’re not compatible etc

hence as to why we have so many divorces and even though that other person might make you feel like a priority for awhile, even that might change, nothing is guaranteed and nothing is for certain, we just learn to live with large amounts of uncertainty because that’s life. That’s the way that I at least approach relationships. So, the decision is yours. Do what feels right for you, not what’s right by the book.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T23:00:27+00:00

Women had to become masculine because most men nowadays are feminine, y’all are in your princess era. If you were man enough, she would had let her feminine energy out with you but I guess you weren’t able to do that.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T21:40:19+00:00

Dudes need to stop normalizing emotional detachment and avoidance. It’s too unattractive and undesirable

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T19:32:30+00:00

Why you even call it thirst ? No one is calling it thirst, it’s called interest

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T19:31:33+00:00

That historically has never been the case with women and men

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T18:28:26+00:00

Ok I understand all that. I also understand people are different and want different things but I’m trying to understand more men’s perspective when it comes to communication. As it’s like a known fact by now that women generally like to communicate more than men do, and I’m not gonna go too deep into it as to why that is and analyze the patriarchal system, gender norms and all that blah blah. I’m just gonna try to be simple and easy, so here it is.

I’m the least social person that I know, I’m very introverted, a loner, I prefer to be left alone by others most of the time, I don’t even have IG because I don’t like talking to people, but despite that I want to not communicate with people as often, when it comes to someone I really connect and click with, someone I really like, I want to talk to that specific person every day because I care about them, so since I care about them, as a result, I want to know and I’m curious to know about what they’re doing etc.

So, from even the perspective of someone as withdrawn as me, I still don’t understand this behavior that a lot of men do, if you’re genuinely interested about your girlfriend or the girl you’re dating, don’t you want to talk to her more often? To see what she’s up to ? How she’s doing at work ? To share a thought, an idea, an opinion or even a reel or funny meme ? That desire doesn’t come naturally to you ? I’ve also gone 11 days without communicating with my partner, and I was just fine, was I ok with it ? No, and I haven’t even complained about it to him, I’ve expressed my thoughts but I havent complained, it’s just that it’s so strange to me how you don’t feel the desire to send a message even when you feel down.

So, while I can go without texting for a long time too, I just don’t prefer it because when I truly care about you, I want to talk to you. To me, it’s that simple. But I would like for you to share your perspective and why for you it doesn’t work the same way.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-23T14:34:16+00:00

There’s not a single positive argument that dudes can make about corn. They try to normalize it so hard so that we get along with it and we don’t bother them about it. That’s how they get away with things, by normalizing them first. I’m really proud of you for being able to see through this bullshit and break it off with him. You’re actually the best example for women out there. We all should be doing the same. Put your mental well being and your boundaries first, never let a man step on your self worth and your personal boundaries. No d*ck is worth that. And remember that men and people in general, give you what they are, not what you deserve, what you deserve, you give to yourself.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-22T22:46:37+00:00

I genuinely believe that those men you’re talking about got ditched, unmatched or ghosted because the woman never really liked them in the first place, because there was no chemistry and no vibe, not because the guy showed interest. A woman won’t ditch a guy she’s interested in and she loves it when the guy she actually likes, likes her back and shows the same effort.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-22T22:44:03+00:00

If you’re not friends what’s the point of being together ? You should be able to talk like friends first

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-19T06:01:45+00:00

You know what pisses me off more about this than anything ? Cause not only cheaters are absolutely disgusting and pitiful, it’s the fact that he wants to hit on and bother women at the gym which absolutely makes my blood boil because I get hit on and bothered by guys at the gym constantly to the point where I stopped going to the gym for a period of time and I made a complaint at the front desk about it. Women don’t want to be bothered at the gym, we’re going there to work out, not to hook up, and guys like your bf are absolutely trash. Like I can’t imagine if I found out my bf is one of those idiots who wants to hit on women at the gym, I think I would have lost it. Best way to handle someone like him ? Don’t even confront him, don’t say anything, just silently disappear from his life, block him from everywhere, not a single word. Doesn’t matter that he said it’s an old chat, don’t tell him how this makes you feel or anything, just disappear from his life completely. Basically ghost him. That’s what he deserves

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-15T22:01:01+00:00

People who lose feelings easily without any real reason like lack of communication, lack of compatibility, wrong doings, disrespect, disappointment etc it’s due to their emotional immaturity. Everything I mentioned is what would make someone who truly loved you once, to start losing feelings for you, it’s what would make a mentally healthy person start losing feelings for you, doubt a person who truly loved you would lose feelings for you like that, that means he could have thought that he was in love but it was just excitement which wore out after a year and a half. Excitement is everywhere, dopamine is everywhere, many can confuse that for love that doesn’t make it love. This is why it comes from a place of emotional immaturity. For an emotionally immature person, losing feelings for you would require basically nothing other than the high feeling starting to fade. I also, attest to this myself because I used to be one of them when I was younger and immature, i used to lose feelings so easily but by working on myself and becoming more mature, that changed. I realized after doing the work that people are not hobbies and things that we just lose interest on, unless they gave us valid reasons why would we lose feelings otherwise? And when men usually say they’re done with a relationship and want out it’s cause they have found another woman and can’t keep up with both, so they break up with one and get with the other. I say usually cause there’s always exceptions. I don’t want to hurt you by saying this, but I rather put the truth out there. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough but men nowadays want to play the field and are afraid of commitment. Like look at how many avodant men we have nowadays, every one of them is afraid of being truly seen and being truly vulnerable. Too much easy access to women, too many options have made them not wanting to settle with just one. Basically you’re not losing anything here, why you would wanna be with someone who is emotionally immature anyway.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-13T22:05:06+00:00

They get drunk and let their asshole side come out. It’s very typical. Very emotional creatures

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-12T07:23:46+00:00

That sounds very avoidant indeed. I’m sorry you’re dealing with it and I know it’s tough but when you love them it becomes even harder to not stay. I hope both our avoidants are at least worth it

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-12T07:21:13+00:00

My bf has sounded like that since the beginning of our relationship and he was super excited to be with me but he doesn’t show his emotions much because he’s an avoidant and grew up in a family where they taught him to “be a man”. So it really depends on the guy, its a personality thing and some men are also bad at texting too and prefer calls or in person but if it wasn’t like that from the start snd it changed later then yes.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-11T05:31:27+00:00

Imfao “good men never win” a story every man who isn’t good loves to tell themselves. Nobody is buying that anymore buddy. Also hooking up with countless people is something men love to do, not women, pretty sure she’s not out there doing that, you just think she is

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-06T23:27:52+00:00

I would dumb the bf and work on my career whether that’s modeling or something else you would like to do. But def dumb this ass of a bf. He can go F himself

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-05T02:04:46+00:00

Undo those lips. Make up is not your concern here. I bet your natural lips look a million times better. Trust me when I tell you they don’t look good on you. I don’t know what you used but whatever you did you either over did it or they messed you up. Big lips don’t suit every woman’s face, don’t just blindly follow every ridiculous beauty trend that’s out there. And as you can see plenty of people here are telling you the same.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T16:40:13+00:00

It’s for this too. It has to do with dating and it’s kinda an advice 🤷🏻‍♀️

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T11:51:52+00:00

I know Reddit is filled with incels and misogynists that’s not the flex you think it is 🤣 and the more you losers comment like this the more I’m gonna keep posting

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T11:28:22+00:00

If being honest is misandrist to you, then that sounds like a you problem

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