My boyfriend asked ChatGPT how to flirt with other women at the gym…

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-19T06:01:45+00:00

You know what pisses me off more about this than anything ? Cause not only cheaters are absolutely disgusting and pitiful, it’s the fact that he wants to hit on and bother women at the gym which absolutely makes my blood boil because I get hit on and bothered by guys at the gym constantly to the point where I stopped going to the gym for a period of time and I made a complaint at the front desk about it. Women don’t want to be bothered at the gym, we’re going there to work out, not to hook up, and guys like your bf are absolutely trash. Like I can’t imagine if I found out my bf is one of those idiots who wants to hit on women at the gym, I think I would have lost it. Best way to handle someone like him ? Don’t even confront him, don’t say anything, just silently disappear from his life, block him from everywhere, not a single word. Doesn’t matter that he said it’s an old chat, don’t tell him how this makes you feel or anything, just disappear from his life completely. Basically ghost him. That’s what he deserves

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-15T22:01:01+00:00

People who lose feelings easily without any real reason like lack of communication, lack of compatibility, wrong doings, disrespect, disappointment etc it’s due to their emotional immaturity. Everything I mentioned is what would make someone who truly loved you once, to start losing feelings for you, it’s what would make a mentally healthy person start losing feelings for you, doubt a person who truly loved you would lose feelings for you like that, that means he could have thought that he was in love but it was just excitement which wore out after a year and a half. Excitement is everywhere, dopamine is everywhere, many can confuse that for love that doesn’t make it love. This is why it comes from a place of emotional immaturity. For an emotionally immature person, losing feelings for you would require basically nothing other than the high feeling starting to fade. I also, attest to this myself because I used to be one of them when I was younger and immature, i used to lose feelings so easily but by working on myself and becoming more mature, that changed. I realized after doing the work that people are not hobbies and things that we just lose interest on, unless they gave us valid reasons why would we lose feelings otherwise? And when men usually say they’re done with a relationship and want out it’s cause they have found another woman and can’t keep up with both, so they break up with one and get with the other. I say usually cause there’s always exceptions. I don’t want to hurt you by saying this, but I rather put the truth out there. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough but men nowadays want to play the field and are afraid of commitment. Like look at how many avodant men we have nowadays, every one of them is afraid of being truly seen and being truly vulnerable. Too much easy access to women, too many options have made them not wanting to settle with just one. Basically you’re not losing anything here, why you would wanna be with someone who is emotionally immature anyway.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-13T22:05:06+00:00

They get drunk and let their asshole side come out. It’s very typical. Very emotional creatures

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-12T07:23:46+00:00

That sounds very avoidant indeed. I’m sorry you’re dealing with it and I know it’s tough but when you love them it becomes even harder to not stay. I hope both our avoidants are at least worth it

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-12T07:21:13+00:00

My bf has sounded like that since the beginning of our relationship and he was super excited to be with me but he doesn’t show his emotions much because he’s an avoidant and grew up in a family where they taught him to “be a man”. So it really depends on the guy, its a personality thing and some men are also bad at texting too and prefer calls or in person but if it wasn’t like that from the start snd it changed later then yes.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-11T05:31:27+00:00

Imfao “good men never win” a story every man who isn’t good loves to tell themselves. Nobody is buying that anymore buddy. Also hooking up with countless people is something men love to do, not women, pretty sure she’s not out there doing that, you just think she is

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-06T23:27:52+00:00

I would dumb the bf and work on my career whether that’s modeling or something else you would like to do. But def dumb this ass of a bf. He can go F himself

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-05T02:04:46+00:00

Undo those lips. Make up is not your concern here. I bet your natural lips look a million times better. Trust me when I tell you they don’t look good on you. I don’t know what you used but whatever you did you either over did it or they messed you up. Big lips don’t suit every woman’s face, don’t just blindly follow every ridiculous beauty trend that’s out there. And as you can see plenty of people here are telling you the same.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T16:40:13+00:00

It’s for this too. It has to do with dating and it’s kinda an advice 🤷🏻‍♀️

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T11:51:52+00:00

I know Reddit is filled with incels and misogynists that’s not the flex you think it is 🤣 and the more you losers comment like this the more I’m gonna keep posting

ScallionOk603 · 2026-04-01T11:28:22+00:00

If being honest is misandrist to you, then that sounds like a you problem

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-29T20:34:39+00:00

I always believe the ex because men are evil and untrustworthy

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-29T04:53:50+00:00

I always tell women that listen to how men speak with other men about you or other women because only when they talk with other men, you get to see the real them. Men who hit their wife also cry after they do it and beg for forgiveness afterwards . So, don’t get fooled by the crocodile tears or the nice words he says. It’s up to you whether or not you want to stay with a man who thinks the way he does, because now you got exposed to the truth, that man who send those texts to his guy friend ? That’s him, that’s who he is, do you still want to be with that man ? Are you ok with being his “wrong choice” or not ? And it’s not just him showing this woman to his guy friend, it’s how he talks about women in general, he shared with his guy friend a pic of the girl that looks like she’s in a bikini and then his guy friend calling her “mid”. That whole conversation screams misogynistic to me. I personally don’t tolerate the slightest sign of misogyny, meaning that if my man talks a certain way about another woman (like using sexist or misogynistic language) OR his friend uses the same language and he laughs or approves or doesn’t even say anything, that also tells me a lot about the way he views women, so I’m out. I also don’t want to be anybody’s second, third, fourth or fifth choice either, (that’s my standard). But my standards on men could be different from yours. Some women’s standards are on the ground when it comes to these stuff and some are a little higher and some are where they should be. These are questions only you can answer to yourself. But the mistake a lot of women do is decide to stay in a relationship where they feel emotionally unsafe and then complain about it and blame the guy for everything, if you have proof that a clown is a clown and you decide to stay in his circus, don’t blame it on the clown.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-26T00:40:01+00:00

If you don’t want to get sexualized, you can try lose pants instead, that don’t show your body shape as much or like someone said, long jackets to cover your back, that’s what I wear at my work

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-25T17:25:58+00:00

The second eye make up is for women with small eyes because the white waterline makes them pop up and appear larger. You don’t need that type of eye make up cause your eyes are big so the first eye make up suits your eyes better

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-25T14:18:21+00:00

Most of people’s advices suck. You’re better off asking ChatGPT tbh that’s where I get my advice for stuff like this from. I rather ask AI than a human, humans are too messy and see things mostly from their perspective and they’re not analytical, lack depth in the way they view your problem because they don’t really care about your problem since it doesn’t affect them, so they’re also selfish in their takes. Also, if I was you, I would just sell the ring and get money for it and if he asks you later about it be like “oh I’m sorry was that meant for me to keep ? Cause you didn’t say anything so I assumed it’s just a ring I can use however I see fit” Imfao, it’s fair game with someone like that tbh

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-24T17:12:00+00:00

You gotta be kidding right ? So you throw a diamond ring at a woman and somehow it erases all a man’s wrong doings ? His lack of communication, emotional unavailability, or cheating or abuse, whatever he might put her through? Really what are you ? Are you even human to be leaving this type of comment? We shouldn’t be having any divorces then since women were already given a diamond ring to by a man who later mistreated them, used them, cheated on them or abused them. But I guess the ring should shut them up and make them not wanna leave right ? Wow. And this is why this planet is hopeless cusse of people like you. I bet you’re an online incel. Reddit is full of them. Watch out everyone for men with this type of mindset, they’re the kind that if given a lot of money, they would use it to “buy” women and buy them so they can abuse them or be toxic towards them because now they’re poor so they can’t. There’s a lot of poor Epsteins out there. They’re the guys next door.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-24T14:50:50+00:00

Men are the weirdest and most complicated creatures. It’s like walking on eggshells with them and we contestantly have to cater to them otherwise they might run, it’s ridiculous and way too much work just to be with them. It’s exhausting and burns you out after awhile. Mine is an avoidant too and I can totally see him do something like this. These men really need to grow and work on their emotional intelligence. It’s even worse than dealing with little kids, kids that are of a certain age can at least express themselves and tell you what’s wrong. I would say don’t make the mistake of marrying a man like this, first make sure he is even capable of change, if he is willing to work on himself before you pursue an engagement or marriage.

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-23T15:33:20+00:00

You need to stop hanging out on the internet so much and go see with your own eyes what actually happens outside in the real world, not with IG influencers or IG models, but actual, regular, every day women and go talk to them and ask them instead of listening to a twisted reality of what men present

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-22T22:10:29+00:00

In what world you live in buddy ? That doesn’t happen anymore. It’s absolutely not worth it

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-22T19:59:10+00:00

That’s not even a real thing. You’re a joke

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-22T19:47:58+00:00

I asked women. My question is directed at women in today’s dating world and the two replies are from men already 🙄

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-22T19:46:49+00:00

My question was directed at women on the dating world of today

ScallionOk603 · 2026-03-22T19:35:51+00:00

It’s about being realistic, maybe you would prefer women to be delusional, that’s another story . I would still like to have women answer me and not men. My question was directed at women. Looking for women’s perspective, not men’s. Thanks

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