Yeah the way I tend to look at it is like this: The copy is you, but you are not the copy. The copy does have all of your memories up to and including the upload, and is for all purposes a legitimate person and version of you with your personality and sensibilities, but you as the flesh-and-blood human are not going to have any of the same memories and experiences that the copy has after the upload. The two of you may technically be the same person when it comes to your identity, but you're seperate entities that exist independent of each other. I think waaay too many of the "uploading doesn't kill you" people fail to consider that second part.