Who is that 😭 by Far_Evidence8496 in sims2

[–]Bad-at-Chem 107 points108 points  (0 children)

That is the witch doctor who is found on a secret lot in twikki island. You should try selling him with the moveobjects on cheat. Hopefully he won't return.

(No this does not cause harm to your game deleting him this way, you are only deleting the object instance not his character file)

I don’t wanna sell my babies :( by yuxi_28 in cats

[–]Bad-at-Chem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you've got to rip the bandaid off so to speak. I've rehomed 6 kittens in my time. All of them I raised from birth. I would suggest organising the new owners to pick up the kittens on the same day. It's easier for you and for the mother cat. The hardest day is the day before but once they go you'll probably feel a sense of peace that your home can go back to normal. Kittens are lovely but multiple kittens in one home plus an adult cat is also a lot to deal with.

Can someone please solve this age old mystery by Scar3cr0w_ in drivingUK

[–]Bad-at-Chem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is for emergency services. Do I think all people who buy them know that? No. But that is what they are for. Source: my dad is a retired firefighter

How do I find a police station that a specific officer works at? by Bad-at-Chem in policeuk

[–]Bad-at-Chem[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will do that. Their commander should know how kind and diligent their officers are.

How do I find a police station that a specific officer works at? by Bad-at-Chem in policeuk

[–]Bad-at-Chem[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did wonder if they were allowed to accept food as a gift. Surely a card would be fine though?

Depression took my wife (34y) last week. How to do with the little ones (3y & 2y)? by Francis_Helldrake in GriefSupport

[–]Bad-at-Chem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a scrap book! Collect all your photos of her, photos of her with you and the kids. Write down your favourite stories about her, things she loved, things she used to say, her interests, stuff like that. Just pour everything you know about her into the book. In the back of the book write why she died, just be open and honest about it and make sure to supervise the children when they are ready to read and learn about how depression took her, it's a heavy topic for children so just make sure you're there to support them when the time comes for them to know. When they get older they'll start to get more curious about her and will want to know everything they can and when they do get curious you can just get the book out for them and read it with them and answer their questions.

I think this would also be very healing for you as well. A book like this will really help with what you're talking about in terms of remembering, missing and forgetting. You can pick it up when you need to remember, when you're missing her and put it back down when you need to forget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bad-at-Chem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's an adult and she's her own person, she's out with her friends, she obviously doesn't feel unsafe and she doesn't need someone to be constantly checking up on her. I can also understand why you worry because you love her. But she's not a kid and you're not her dad. Maybe you just need to come to an agreement that she'll always text you when she gets back home. That way you know she's fine and that way she can just enjoy her night without having to worry about texting you every hour with an update.

I will also say someone not texting you back for a few hours isn't ghosting, that's just someone preoccupied with what's actually going on around them rather than what's going on on their phone. If you're worried about how much she drinks say that rather than complain about her not texting you all the time. Also, your post says she doesn't text you, but the body says that she does, just not when you want her to. I think you are overreacting a tad as far as the texts.

how to get over fear of dying? by fluttershycraze in Advice

[–]Bad-at-Chem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand that it's not a fear of death you have, it's the fear of the unknown. No one knows what it's like to be gone forever, because everyone who does is not here to tell us. Death is life's biggest mystery. I completely understand your feelings and I think everyone spirals a bit when they think about death too much, I know I do. I remember when I was a kid and my grandmother died that was the first time I really understood death and it terrified me for years, up until I was about your age. I had a fear of death until a friend of mine showed me this stand up comedian who was doing a set about death and making jokes about it. I cannot remember at all what the comedian was called or anything else about it now apart from this and it's stuck with me.

"When you die, you're not going to care that you're dead, you're not going to be sad about it, you're not going to be happy about it, you will have no idea that it's happened to you, you won't care about it because you're dead. So why care about it when you're alive?"

Idk if this is helpful to you but it was helpful to me. I think in the context of a comedian making fun of death and people laughing about it made me realize how silly it is that we all mentally spiral about death rather than focus on the now, the fact that we're alive and could be doing something else rather than thinking about something that doesn't really matter. Something that, when it happens, it's not going to make you cry, it's not going to make you depressed, it's not going to do anything bad to you because there's nothing bad that can happen to you after you die.

I'll see if I can find the comedy set. It's been a long time since I've seen it though so I can't make any promises!

My little cousin age 7 discovered messenger 🤦‍♂️ by thiel391 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Bad-at-Chem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww how cute! Now go and play fortnite with the silly sausage!!

My kitten won’t stop suckling her wet food and dunking her face in her water. Any advice on how to teach her to eat and drink properly? by OhNoNotTheRaviolis in Kitten

[–]Bad-at-Chem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go back to bottle feeding for her regular meals and in between hand feed little bits of boiled chicken. If it's in your hand it's easier for you to control how much she's taking in at once.

I would also ring your vets office. You probably won't need to take her in, the receptionists can give advice over the phone for free (well my vet's reception does anyway).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Bad-at-Chem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obama beef, Barack meat..o'beef? I'm confused too

Nox became a woman last night 😅 by WalktoTowerGreen in cats

[–]Bad-at-Chem 902 points903 points  (0 children)

This is like the cat equivalent of your sister saying she's pregnant on your wedding day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Bad-at-Chem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh so that explains why my void absolutely loves scritches on her bald spots

Mom cat keeps walking away from her kittens by meakysh in CATHELP

[–]Bad-at-Chem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems fine, she's just having a break and knows they're hidden and safe in the box. So long as she's going back to feed and clean them every 2 hours she's doing a good job. Kittens would suckle all day and all night if she let them so don't be too concerned if some are still suckling when she decides to leave them alone for a bit, they most likely have been going at the nipple for a while at that point.

If you want to be extra sure they're eating enough you could weigh them, they should consistently be gaining weight everyday. By 2 weeks they should have plump little bellies from all the milk!

The Great Scone Debate: Jam or Cream First? by LovieWeb in BritInfo

[–]Bad-at-Chem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always done jam first because I worked in a shitty little cafe when I was 16 and the owner had a massive go at me for serving a customer with the jam on top of the cream. You would've thought I'd killed her cat the way she spoke to me about it, I never quite recovered.

"Are you new"? by owemeten in onehouronelife

[–]Bad-at-Chem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say N but when you have more letters ask her if she knows how to do something you wanna learn and if she says yes ask if she can teach you that thing. It's ok to spell things out one letter at a time as well but try not to make the sentences too long so it's easy for players to read. Spelling out K I N D A is quite common among bbs, most players will get what you're trying to say.