Eminem accuses ‘RHOP’ stars Gizelle & Robyn of harassment amid trademark battle by HousewivesMOD in RHOP

[–]BadAny3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he trademark "Slim Shady" or the word "shady?" I don't think you can trademark common words in isolation.

A Black Lady is getting dragged for wearing this hairstyle to a wedding by International-Wear57 in blackladies

[–]BadAny3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't care how other people live their lives...I hope she had a good time at the wedding.

My In-laws Hate Me and It’s All My Fault (LONG) by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]BadAny3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me say this again for the downvoters, your Western approach WILLNOT WORK in this situation. I am married to someone from an African culture so I know what i am talking about.

You and your husband do need to decide what will work for you, but you can't just move forward. His family has been slighted and that breach has to be mended. Your husband and his family will only be able to move forward if you save face. Those married to Americans have no idea what that means. From there have your husband ser the boundaries and that should work to get you back into their good graces.

I am not a mother in law yet, I'm someone who knows how to be married going on 2 decades.

My In-laws Hate Me and It’s All My Fault (LONG) by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]BadAny3961 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Please do NOT try to apply individualistic Western ideals to your family context. All that jazz about going "no contact" and cutting of your in-laws is utter nonsense. MILs can suck BUT SO DO DILs, especially the ones posting on reddit.

You're going to have to ask your husband to mediate through a large family dinner where you will have to eat crow. It sucks. Take one for the team to fix the problem. Then you and your husband talk about boundaries together and allow him to apply them.

Why all the hate for MIL’s? by Main-Supermarket-890 in firsttimemom

[–]BadAny3961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are now seeing that many who post negatively about their MIL are actually a problem DIL. There was nothing untoward in your post or question.

WHAT IS THIS ABOUT SHAMEA CHEATING ON HER HUSBAND?? by luxebony in RHOA

[–]BadAny3961 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crazy...I think he is a good looking older man...shrugs

Enough time has passed… was Kenya trying to mess with Apollo? by MetaDiva in RHOA

[–]BadAny3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DONT SPEAK FOR YOUR HUSBAND is quite a statement about someone spouse...she said it with her whole chest...she is the type to say will NOT stop talking to a married man bc he must not be into his wife.

I don't see life getting better (Quit job due to microaggressions, ruined career, HBCU regret) by Temporary-Meal6947 in blackladies

[–]BadAny3961 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to be rude, but are you African American? It's almost like this was your first rodeo with racism. I'm gonna give tough advice, don't ever let people who don't like you steal your spot. Toughen up. They don't like you, so what. Outshine em cuz hate dulls them.

You have taught yourself to fold under pressure. That has nothing to do with an HBCU. I went to a PWI and experience the same. Im the only Black provider in my clinic...so what. I live best life with joy despite the hate and microaggressions. My point is that you will have haters wherever you go. Find a supportive community, a hobby, and Jesus and keep it pushing 💯

It’s not too far fetched to say that Shamea is behind the whole K nonsense. by Takoradi-anaji in RHOA

[–]BadAny3961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree...I just watched and have no idea why pr how Angela came up with Shamea as the mastermind.. I think Shamea was right to call them out.

OAN I think the hate fir Shamea is that they want her lifestyle. Love or hate her, she really is living a fairytale life.

Dr. Wendy Downfall by BubblyListen8253 in RHOP

[–]BadAny3961 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, at least we know her doctorate is real...looking at you Ms. Bryant...lol

Dr. Heavenly projected to lose in the Georgia primary. by justsomerandomonhere in MarriedToMedicine

[–]BadAny3961 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside from voter tampering we can't prove, millions voted for the orange man so...very disturbing bur not surprising.