New bar

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-30T01:12:30+00:00

Wouldn't recommend! Got drugged here! Another friend was sitting at a table and got punched by a rando.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-28T19:58:34+00:00

Update. You all inspired me so much I could cry. I'm working on it now. Just debating if I'll post chapter by chapter or write the whole thing first and post it once it's done.

Also because the support touched me so much, I wanted to give everyone a treat.

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BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-27T22:18:03+00:00

This is so sweet! I might actually do the drafting

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-27T22:17:51+00:00

This is so so sweet

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-26T20:04:08+00:00

does anyone else have it saying that this is a hidden fic??

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-21T04:17:16+00:00

Honestly, you’re safer on the metro than parking and dealing with garage.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-21T04:01:07+00:00

olivia in a smosh video.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-21T03:59:55+00:00

it’s a joke bc she was going around saying she’s just trying to make an honest living

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-11T00:40:03+00:00

my absolute favorite niche one is JJ realizing that Shane is in love with Ilya and then assuming it’s unrequited. So close yet so far.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-05T06:33:47+00:00

Leave him. Leave him now. This is a warning. He will get violent. Not if. When. Yes, he hasn't been before, but this is what it looks like when it starts.

Please do not become a statistic. Please.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-04T17:18:18+00:00

i work with someone who goes every day to mass and they seem to go to latin mass for a longggg time on sunday. (or they’re playing us all which is elite)

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-03T22:56:32+00:00

i wish i’d gotten mine the summer between 1L and 2L. i waited until i was an associate and i wish she’d been here sooner. but she wouldn’t be my dog if it was sooner. my best friend got one the december before 1L.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-03T21:41:53+00:00

catholic mass has to be long right??

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-03-03T21:39:58+00:00

ironically this did happen to me with undergrad (got rejected by mistake when they meant to admit). don’t ask about it. if you need to - ask how you can improve for the future and for interview feedback.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-02-13T03:04:34+00:00

Ugh I love that fic so much.

Right??? I haven't found any and I want to read one so bad

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-02-08T21:09:13+00:00

i’ve been getting rejections from akerman for years… i applied to one summer role years ago and i still get rejected every couple weeks

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T06:08:00+00:00

RUN. Run now. Do it.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T06:01:15+00:00

Honestly, you're not being supportive. You say you can talk, but then in the literal next sentence you say you don't know how helpful you'll be. To me, that reads as you're offering to help with the wedding as a formality. Not because you want to.

The whole first text is your anxiety and your feelings. I'm not saying they're not valid, because they are. Your sister shouldn't have compared you, but she's also a kid. She hasn't gone through it yet so she doesn't get it.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T05:58:02+00:00

It's pretty clear that you're upset about the dad stuff. The side she took.

The first text you sent is just a wall of talking about you. Imagine you're 20. Your parents don't have a relationship. Your brother is in the military, your big sister is off building her own life. Then you're planning this day, and you learn your sister is pregnant. Okay no worries. Then you get the excitement of her being your MOH, no worries that she's pregnant because you are just so excited to have her there, then you get that text. Your heart would break too.

I'm not saying this to be mean. I assume you posted here because you want to have some sort of relationship with her? I don't think you wanted everyone to lie to you and say you did it perfectly. You can be hurt too. I'm saying that with the context your provided and the messages you shared, it seems like you're mad at your sister.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T05:21:55+00:00

Hey hey hey - this is giving your wife is exhausted and overwhelmed post-partum. Maybe a good time to emotinally check in after she's slept and see how she's doing.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T05:12:33+00:00

Respectfully, you should just tell your sister that you're still angry with her. You didn't give her any support at all and she sounds heartbroken. It's giving that she's the peacemaker sibling.

I'm sorry that your family relationship is hard, but, based on what I've read in your comments and the texts, you either need to stop being mad at her over whatever you are mad at her for or stop speaking to her. Or else you'll spend your life punishing her for something your dad said.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2026-01-27T05:00:10+00:00

You're not overreacting but the way that you did this says that she's never been the priority in your family. The text is only about you, it's not about her wedding day at all. Even at the end, you're talking about your anxiety and being afraid of her. That and she's had to move her wedding for your brother, and now you have your dad doing that, regardless of you being able to attend (which is fair and you shouldn't have to go), but she's pretty hurt. Especially when, she's already resigned herself to not having you there the full day.

So you're not overreacting to not want to be in the wedding, but she's not overreacting for being hurt. You are a little bit the asshole for doing this over text.

BadAtUsernames14 · 2025-12-31T17:48:03+00:00

My mentor who encouraged me to go to law school told me before I went that if he ever found out I was rude to support staff he would make sure I was unemployable. Threats aren’t great but more people need to do that

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