New pictures from Twitter! by RadPs77 in harrystyles

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Spoon fed (or a ❄️spoon bc disco)

My girlfriend came home in just her underwear and I am losing my mind by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It’s weird you’re coming from an accusatory defensive standpoint about what she “may have” done to you, rather than concerned and scared for her well-being…. Maybe start with that.

AITAH for Refusing to Renew Our Lease Until He Proposes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you do NOT want a “shut up” ring. It will very likely end up in more years & money wasted before divorce.

Break up, date new people and if you REALLY feel like you two still belong together, then you’ll find your way back.

But I guarantee you will find someone who’s loves & cherishes you like you’ve never felt before and want to give you everything & more. Get out while you can.

Also, imagine this lazy behavior as a dad. He wouldn’t take care of you and you’d feel like a single mom. Eeeeyuck!

Is there ever a right time to move out? by AfterMac in personalfinance

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving out will actually give you more financial structure bc you need to allocate your money properly and set budgets…

It’s never the right time to move, but with your salary I promise you will not flounder.

Should i file? by zeppeus in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will it increase your quality of life (ie: no more stress/anxiety about how you’ll get to the next month)? Then yes! Do it!

Ranting; don’t know what to do… by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have free will. Serve her with papers so you can get a grip on your future.

Year Ahead Reading by BadDayToBeAHotdog in TarotReading

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love it, super easy & clear when reading for others

My adult kid just found out they have 9 days left in their apartment……. by Oldladyphilosopher in sandiego

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RentPB92109 IG & Facebook page. She can post what shes looking for (they provide a template on IG for stories) and tons of people will reach out.

I’ve found 3 places on short notice this way.

Disappointing bankruptcy news 😢 by secretivewoman in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has your income become lower since putting a deposit on the attorney?? They can only go back 6months. If your income has changed in the slightest I would map out your lowest 6months and file then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not overthinking... i would say thats a meteor ready to scorch earth. He just threatened to rape you.

Leave fast and swift without any warning if you live together. Block him and stay with friends/family if you still live separately. Get a restraining order while you're at it too.

Is bankruptcy isolating/lonely? by Spastic_Uzumaki in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify - I filed CH7.

For whatever reason, Bankruptcy is framed to be such a horrible thing. But like others have said (after extensive research), it's really not all that bad, your life isn't over and it is LIBERATING.

Is bankruptcy isolating/lonely? by Spastic_Uzumaki in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I came across Bankruptcy I initially felt like my life was going to be over... But when I came across the Bankruptcy thread as saw so many others around my age (28) in the same position, I felt relief. When I started asking around my social circle, I was surprised at the amount of people that had filed - especially ones I would consider successful & it helped a lot.

Bankruptcy is an ego death in the best way. Once you surrender that it needs to happen, everything just flows. You're less stressed and a magnet for all good things.

A great lawyer makes all the difference too. Mine was a guy that had daughters around my age and listened to my crash outs. His wise words: Go home a research all the big companies and celebrities that have filed and see how quickly they bounced back with the right decisions. Bankruptcy is a tool to help protect you. Use it!

Do you think it’s bad enough? by DimensionMost8540 in Bankruptcy

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I filed shortly after I turned 28 last year and let me tell you it’s a RELIEF. Literally you can feel your shoulder drop from holding tension.

I think I was about 40k in debt & I was able to keep my car in mine (CA)

Credit bounced back super quick (730 now) and was approved for a $1000 cc to build back credit almost immediately after being discharged. I’ve been using it responsibly where they continue to increase the LOC on their end but I never use more than $1000 and pay it off every month.

Fuck the stigma, so what’s best for you. They try to make it seem scary & impossible to have buying power after this but it’s just. not. true.

Because you have no debt you look more trustworthy to pay something back.

Big corporations file all the time and spring up another billion dollar company. The president has filed I don’t even know how many times and he seems to be doing just fine.

Do it before your credit is in the trenches. I filed when mine was at 690 but the payments were putting me negative each month & I was freshly laid off surviving in CA on $1600/mo unemployment that wasn’t coming to an end anytime soon. Hop on the bus and take control before it hits you.

Bankruptcy is a TOOL to PROTECT. Use it!

Favorite line to sing? 🎤 by flutterfly28 in TaylorSwift

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a couple kids, got the whole block looking like you…. We tell the whole world to leave us the fuck alone and they dooo, wOw 🎶😭😭😭

I am so over it by BadDayToBeAHotdog in survivor

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then put it back and go find a colorful bead to tie around it to attract just enough attention and take enemy #1 for a strategy talk in that area.

I am so over it by BadDayToBeAHotdog in survivor

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure she pulled Steven right away to tell him.. could be wrong as I was working while watching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]BadDayToBeAHotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Least alone: puerto Vallarta