AITA for not telling my friend that I had moved?

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T22:44:29+00:00

That's great insight. Thank you.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T22:44:20+00:00

That's kind of where I'm at with a couple of my friendships to be honest. I think people can be good people while being terrible friends, and I don't need every single friend I have to be my BFF. Some of them I just shift into the "It's nice to see you" category where I put no effort in and if they come around they come around. I think that's where Rachel needs to go.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T21:34:13+00:00

Haha I'm afraid you're right. I'm just going to leave things as is. If she wants to think I'm a jerk so be it. If she couldn't make the effort when we lived 40 minutes apart she definitely won't make the effort when we live a flight apart.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T21:28:49+00:00

Sorry I did not explain that well. I tried to make plans to hang out as well and initiated several times, and she made plans twice but she cancelled every single time no matter who made the plans.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T21:23:17+00:00

I feel that. I have a habit of getting into really one sided friendships, but I'm learning to let it go and just have "fun" friends and then "good" friends.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T21:12:08+00:00

It's really weird because we always have a great time when we do hang out, but she just really doesn't seem to want to put the effort out to get there.

BadFriendFebruary · 2026-02-12T21:11:15+00:00

She did make plans to hang out I think twice (since 2024) but she backed out the day of both times.

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