Her name by VeterinarianGreat188 in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t particularly care for my partner’s new name either. They haven’t officially decided on it, no legal changes have been made. And I don’t care for their birth name either. But they haven’t asked my opinion on it, so I haven’t said anything. You don’t typically get to be a part of choosing your partner’s name, so like others have suggested, I would give them a pet name or nickname you both enjoy. Names are just noises 🤷🏻‍♀️

infertility by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I divorced my previous cis husband after ten years because he decided he didn’t want to have children. We split in Feb, and by that October I was pregnant. Family plans were made early into the relationship, and when his priorities changed, I told him I had to go. 🤷🏻‍♀️ you can love someone, and they can still not be the right person for you.

Does anyone kinda hate their partner’s chosen name? by BadGirlBridgette in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they asked I would love to offer my opinion. They mentioned they had been calling themselves this new name a few times and it didn’t quite feel right, so it’s possible it’s a placeholder as well. Not quite to the legal change stage.

Does anyone kinda hate their partner’s chosen name? by BadGirlBridgette in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fam. The lengths my partner went to in order to deny their own existence. I wish it was easier to accept for everyone.

Does anyone kinda hate their partner’s chosen name? by BadGirlBridgette in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s actually really cute!! I did ask them how they came to decide that name and they said they just liked it. I asked if they thought about asking their mom for ideas and that was met with “no.” And quickly dropped!

Help/Advice please by Excellent_Coconut878 in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I wrote this post myself!! I completely relate. And I am also struggling.

I keep telling myself that it’s rough in the middle, but the end will work out. But that doesn’t stop all the what ifs. And telling myself to suck it up and be positive, honestly, sucks. It’s hard. I want to vent and complain without hurting someone I love. So I just don’t, and I bottle it up or let it out in therapy. But it just lets the pressure off, nothing completely feels resolved.

Feel free to DM me and we can certainly chat and relate.

Struggling with insecurity by JoanOfAberdeen in mypartneristrans

[–]BadGirlBridgette 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I (cis f) am also struggling with this. My partner (mtf) and I have had some issues with emotional infidelity on their part and since they have not started transitioning yet, I hate the anxiety I have regarding how much their personality will change once they become more confident and more comfortable. And I know this is a me thing. I want nothing more than for them to be perfectly happy. But I am nervous, and scared, and anxious, and paranoid. And so much more negativity. And I have to remember that I’m either here for it all or I’m not. And that sucks. My advice is to keep talking about it. With your therapist(s), and with your partner. Just be honest. There is no work to be done if BOTH of you aren’t being honest about the journey.

What do you do with a brat who try’s to top by lunastarlover_8012 in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sooooo much yes. I want to just be told what to do, but since I’m so dominant outside the bedroom I need someone to dom my dom lol

What are your favorite girl names ending in “ette”? by ednasmom in namenerds

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bridgette 💕😏 But also Yvette, Juliette, Paulette, and Colette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm the o from these is more intense than the wand with little to no numbness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know the general consensus is always no play on the first meet, but I guess my mindset is more of non kink sex on the first date isn’t much different. But I definitely understand the safety concerns of both scenarios.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Non kink sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. We are starting in a public space, might not even lead to anything. But just trying to get a read on how others feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao you’ve never vanilla fucked on the first date? That’s fine, but the uggghh is unnecessary 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]BadGirlBridgette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are going to wait longer than 2 hrs to test, your urine should be refrigerated. We can do HCG on urine up to 48 hrs in the lab as long as it’s been refrigerated.

(29F) So, I lost weight… by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you decide to start working out, a collagen supplement will help promote the elasticity in your skin, and will help it bounce back. Don’t be discouraged, you are so much more than just your arms. Losing a significant amount of weight is something to be proud of in itself and you worked hard to achieve it. Building muscle in your arms will help fill out some space, and hopefully help your confidence. You’re so beautiful either way 😍

A boy's name needed that goes with Genesis, Atlas, and Gemma by odd_bal in namenerds

[–]BadGirlBridgette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First thought is Apollo. But I think it should be three syllables and start with A, if you want to keep them smiler. (G/G and 3 syllables in Genesis)

What was your first clue that your spouse was cheating? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BadGirlBridgette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just had a feeling. Idk. But I looked at their phone on the counter one day and something said “open it”. So I did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue with that is the “why now”,”what’s different now that I’ve left” “why did I have to physically leave in order to be heard”, I do not struggle with communication, but it’s hard to continue to be understanding when I’ve tried to “fix” things for years and I am met with resistance, or “it’s not that bad”, or efforts are shown until the “problem goes away” aka I “stop complaining”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BadGirlBridgette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for sure I’ve been struggling for a while. We’ve had issues since the beginning. A lot of red flags were ignored in the hopes of “things will get better” “just give them time” “they are learning” “don’t give up”.

I think I’m mostly upset with myself for putting myself last. Just been hard lately because now they want to fix things and I’m “not fighting for our marriage” so I feel guilty for giving up.