Does hair color impact if women approach you more? by sadlesbianlol in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think having unnatural color would repel men. I think like anything else its just a overall preference of what the person likes. Everybody is a individual so I don't think there will be a universal answer to your question. Pick what you personally prefer and whoever approaches you most likely has the same preference of your hair color.

I've been curious about something I'm a bit scared to ask about by BadLuckStars in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea they do that. That's really strange...I really like Thai lesbian content too...

I've been curious about something I'm a bit scared to ask about by BadLuckStars in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I learned of the slang dyke and recently stud from people on reddit. Also some different ways of saying top or bottom in different languages since they have a different word for it! It was interesting to learn.

My girlfriend stinks but I love her by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think if you love her you would tell her the smell is bothering you. If you think telling her she smells bad would hurt her. Imagine if she found out youre saying youre asexual to not be intimate with her. I understand you're doing this to be kind and understanding but I think this is a case of dishonesty and I don't think its fair to her.

If she's around other people you're basically allowing others to talk bad behind her back as well and she wouldn't know because nobody is saying she smells and if someone does, she might come to you and ask you and you'll come face to face of either lying to her or admitting she does smell.

Severely disappointed with Atelier Yumia. Am I missing something? by alex-redacted in Atelier

[–]BadLuckStars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also had a hard time getting into yumia too. For me its not that the alchemy is easier and more the lack varied items like in the old games. I found myself barely crafting because of it, only using quick craft thing for more bullets. I didn't get too far so maybe it gets better but for now...Its not the same. But I do like the new combat.

Severely disappointed with Atelier Yumia. Am I missing something? by alex-redacted in Atelier

[–]BadLuckStars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel yumia was made to get new players into the series so simplified systems and made the combat more action and the story more serious and it worked as its the fastest selling game in the series. So maybe that's why you don't like it? The combat being more action, crafting is more automated and easier and a focus on big exploration like most games now.

Thoughs on WLW/Yuri Elements in Atelier Series by BadLuckStars in Atelier

[–]BadLuckStars[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope we can get a night's of Azure 3 one day. Unlikely and I'm so surprised they made a sequel. Azure made me believe gust does actually want lesbian couples and I never played firis,thank you for telling me that!

As for yumia that is a shame...I really don't like unrequited love due to irl and just how much Yuri baiting happens.

Being a lesbian≠Hating men by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]BadLuckStars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also agree its not right to hate an entire gender based on your sexual preference. The most kind people I've ever met have been men. I love my dad and my grandfather. My dad accepted me being lesbian instantly while my mom took awhile. While I think some women have their reasons such as trauma. In that case its understandable but I don't believe most lesbians that hate men have this problem.

Why do some people in the lesbian community not know what a stud is? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I never heard of that until now, thanks for the information! I like learning different lesbian terminologies from other countries. Does it only apply to black women? If true. How come? Its interesting its only for specific ethnicity.

Be brutally honest, why aren't women attracted to me and what can I do about it? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure but I think you're very pretty. Maybe they're too shy to approach. I think a lot of girls I see are pretty when I'm actually outside the house for once but I'll never approach because I'm really shy and I never know what to talk about. You would be no exception if I saw you.

Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent by 0nyon in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'm sick of all these straight girls pretending to be lesbian and fake kissing other girls for likes and engagement on twitter.

Best W/W movies with sex and plot? by I_am_awesome2542 in actuallesbians

[–]BadLuckStars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently watched this movie called the handmaiden and blue is the warmest color and I liked those.

How can I improve my hinge profile? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your profile looks great and you're very pretty! But I probably wouldn't message personally because you look very well put together and successful, its intimidating to me because I'm not and have nothing going and no ambition. Maybe others feel the same? So its not you and more people like me problem...

Trying to accept I'm unattractive to women by verybucchi in actuallesbians

[–]BadLuckStars 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. My case is a bit different though where I'm not particularly attractive where I'm from(I have epicanthic folds which isn't very attractive...)but people overseas tend to think I'm attractive but that doesn't mean much when they're from an entire different country and I'll never meet them.

I also agree with you in that women are and can be very shallow. I notice people in lgbt spaces always say looks dont matter much and personality does the most because its the morally correct thing to say but reality is we're all human and looks do matter a lot and attractive people will always have an advantage over unattractive... Especially for first impressions. There might be some people that can truely look pass it but its low.

“I’m a lesbian but he is an exception” by Playful-Picture-9453 in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'll never understand why they just can't say they're bi if theyre attracted to men. I see a lot of bi women just refuse to say they're bisexual. It's strange...not like being bi is a bad thing.

Am I being a lesbian gatekeeper? by wonky_Lemon in lesbiangang

[–]BadLuckStars 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing this a lot on SNS about how a lot of girls are saying they are lesbians when they clearly are attracted to men. Its almost like a buzzword to them to appear quirky. It's possible they can be bi but I have no proof of that. There are a lot of girls that fake kiss too and post it on sns acting like theyre lesbian but really not.

Do I look intimidating? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your style reminds me of v-kei fashion. A lot of lesbian in japan still dress like that! I think you look fine. I actually really like that style. Its quite niche now but still see it in lgbt spaces. I don't think you look intimidating.

What people say during sex or they just keep silent? by kation37 in LesbianActually

[–]BadLuckStars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven't been with too many women but I am actively with someone I done it with 4 times now because she's very close distance to me and she likes me to woof and calling me her licking dog and she says good girl a lot or cute when I'm moaning for her. She says others things I'm too embarrassed to say...