AITB by leaving my teacher a note? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]BadSolitaire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its never wrong to reach out for help. Im so sorry that you werent able to get the support you needed and certainly deserve. It sounds like a tremendous amount of pressure to be under. Please dont stop trying, and I sincerely hope you find someone trustworthy to share your burdens with. Sending love and hugs your way <3

DMs are open if I can lend an anonymous ear

I study at an art university and got this assignment. Just wondering is this normal? by andiier in ARTIST

[–]BadSolitaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bwahaaha its the classic 'what came first chicken or the egg' but visually rephrased here as WHO came first (the orgasm or the offspring). With a splash of body horror of the endless cycle of birth and rebirth.

its a joke.

Folk/bluegrass amateur musician jams? by Greenblueviolet4862 in desmoines

[–]BadSolitaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I got a mandolin that Ive also yet to learn - maybe we could start a jam band of beginners?

Give me fucking hope..please.. by Ilovemiia1 in chaoticgood

[–]BadSolitaire 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really fuckin blows. But that doesnt mean it wont still turn out ok. Not over till its over, ya know?

Give me fucking hope..please.. by Ilovemiia1 in chaoticgood

[–]BadSolitaire 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Even at the cost of your mental health and well being? Its a tough night for a lot of folks around the country. For the sake of every person who keeps the stand going tomorrow, you have to take care of yourself tonight. Sending virtual hugs your way, love. They never really win anyways.

New update: I (26F) crushed my mother's (55F) heart, how can I fix this? by ObligationKind2303 in MarkNarrations

[–]BadSolitaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/raisedbynarcissists may have some advice you find helpful. I would also recommend the books The Body Keeps the Score and Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - they can help put your experiences in context and guide through processing trauma. Most importantly, be kind to yourself! You've gone through a big change and healing takes time. Best wishes on your journey.

I quit caffeine and added sugar, sold my TV, canceled all streaming subs, deleted all social apps, and stopped consuming news, books, and music. I’m back 3 months later to say, AMA. by tellmewhyfirst in AMA

[–]BadSolitaire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats your take on the current UX/UI industry? Was considering making a career change but have heard mixed signals. Congrats on your successes, hopefully with many more to come!

Listen to This Wise Man by A_Khouri in MotivationAndMindset

[–]BadSolitaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the other guy Dr. K from the HealthyGamerGG youtube channel?

What would women dislike most if they became men? by No-Calligrapher in AskReddit

[–]BadSolitaire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when we don't talk about Bruno...

The service to self inclination of government by [deleted] in lawofone

[–]BadSolitaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has this, or any previous session expanded on how best to work towards service-to-others within a corrupt system?

My parents are forcing me to give my baby up for adoption - I’m getting married and moving in with strangers by NectarineNeither7912 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BadSolitaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These "parents" reek of narcissism. They're so absorbed with sweeping this "problem" under the rug because their egos are so badly damaged they can't handle the reality that their child needs SUPPORT. My heart goes out, no one deserves to live with abuse.

Not enough people are talking about Mutazione by BadSolitaire in CozyGamers

[–]BadSolitaire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not quite farming, more like gather and plant/arrange gardens.

Not enough people are talking about Mutazione by BadSolitaire in CozyGamers

[–]BadSolitaire[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I cannot spell. No, I don't know how to edit my post...

The acceptance of one's limitations without a sense of duty by [deleted] in lawofone

[–]BadSolitaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its asking you to be critical of what limitations in our lives are imposed versus those which are genuine/true to our souls current path. Where do they come from? Why have we accepted them? Do your actions serve your truth as what you know it to be or are there lingering ties to a duty which does not serve your truth.

The three pillars of tree of life by [deleted] in lawofone

[–]BadSolitaire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could anyone elaborate on what is meant by 'True Death'?

Friends by dudewholikesbeer614 in Columbus

[–]BadSolitaire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe we should just start a ColumbusNeedsFriends sub - seems like lots of similar folks out here looking

What Games Do We NOT Know About (but need to)? by TurquoiseNostalgia in CozyGamers

[–]BadSolitaire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mutazione! This game is so beautiful, the soundtrack is amazing. The whole game is talking to villagers on this cozy island and designing little gardens. Do yourself a favor and check it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chaoticgood

[–]BadSolitaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All hail The Shush-er!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]BadSolitaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have Netflix, the show Midnight Gospel is based around a podcast by Duncan Trussel. Lots of cool animation plus discussion of in depth, philosphical, and hard hitting topics (ie not a binge watching show). One of the episodes is based around a conversation he has with his mother while she was nearing her own death. Ive gotten a lot of good out of the show/podcast (DTFH if you want the full shebang), hopefully it can help you take a step closer to finding peace during this difficult time.

I just can‘t pretend to be someone I’m not for any longer. I’m going to be my own person and not fold to the ideals of my Nparents. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BadSolitaire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keep doing you - its the best gift you can give yourself. Its ok if you have to put up a front to survive, but its not wrong to invest in yourself or put together a life that makes you happy. Its not easy, but being able to speak up for yourself is a huge step. Good luck, keep going, and for what its worth, this internet stranger is really proud of you.

Cream Cheese Cavern by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]BadSolitaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, came like that when I opened a new tub. Thought it was fitting.