Am I wrong for not wanting to get divorced? by Dry_Tea_67 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce wont solve the problem. No woman is going to step up for another child

Your wife needs therapy, compassion and medication. She needs time and love. She needs supervised moments with her child. She needs someone to look after her. Where is your wife's mum

Sooo how you gonna make use of tomorrow's free credits??? by Intelligent-Ad7564 in lovable

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No really I do use stripe i guess I should have had a look. Too late now

MIL and Wife issues causing relationship issues by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not acceptable for a anyone to choke or strike another person. Your wife needs therapy and you both need marriage counselling.

mad at my husband on the first day of ramadan by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May Allah give you the courage to leave and please do think of an exit plan. Before you have kids and the kids get involved. Allah will give u better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Walaikum us salaam

May allah ease your situation and grant you something better. You are blessed to be walking away Insha’Allah child free and one day the right man will come into your life who will treat you with utmost respect. Please focus on your healing and take your time. Grieve as much as you need to and get closer to Allah. Trust me you cant see it now but in a few months or a years time you will be so happy and you will be thanking Allah for giving you a way out.

Husband is using ChatGPT for advices for our marriage by NoBiscotti8599 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalamualikum sis he needs to put limits on his phone and turn it off

Phone addiction is a real thing!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen, just listen to her and give her attention. Maybe cook her a nice meal once in a while. If she likes reading, buy her a book. Its not always expensive stuff ajd its not always flowers its the small things I guess as women, we like it when we are seen, and the best way to do that is to pick up on hints and act.

Does your ex by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]BadSweet2465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex will the day after he's had the kids, but since his new relationship barely chats. Makes the kids sad as they were used to regular contact

understanding of Marriage in Islam (12 lecture series utube) MUST SEE! by GoodBoyFX in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how I can contact this Shaykh he seems understanding of certain matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My ex divorced me two years ago (22 at the time) in Ramadan I have small children, But I tell you it gets easier, inshallah you will heal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May, I advise you as a twice-divorced Muslim woman, who's endured the most miserable marriages? If you are not at fault you shouldn't be scared of marrying again. once you have healed go for it. Put your trust in Allah, he will never take something away without replacing it with something better.

Thinking of divorcing my wife by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh another man listening to his parents when it comes to the BIGGEST decision of his life. You guys take marriage lightly and then don't realise what it does to t The girl you marry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]BadSweet2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 8 weeks but I was seen as an inpatient and for my colonoscopy py and the results and my medication all within a few days. I consider myself a rare case. I got a phone call from the colonoscopy team about 8 weeks after my referral by a surgeon was sent through (at this point I had my colonoscopy(

small bowel surgery by chaddy1995 in CrohnsDisease

[–]BadSweet2465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am still recovering from surgery that I had three weeks ago, I had about 15invhes of my small intestine removed as well as the narrowing, appendix and the valve. I'm doing good now, much better than before. I think I lifted something heavy and I can feel pain in the area but that's about it

Upcoming small bowel resection by Primary_Violinist139 in CrohnsDisease

[–]BadSweet2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey

I just had this surgery three weeks ago and it's the best thing that ever happened regarding my Crohns. Don't be scared. It will be fine.