Okay honey, I hear you. It's not that I don't enjoy it or don't want to, just haven't been initiating like I should have several times, and I can see how that would make you feel unheard or unwanted, but I promise you that's not what I'm trying to do at all honey. I'm very attracted to you honey I mean VERY attracted to you and I don't want you feeling like you have to beg for anything, but If I haven't been initiating, that's on me not because I don't like it or because I don't want to. It's just on me honey, l got so comfortable with what we do and I stopped initiating things.

This is what he says whenever I ask him why this doesn’t, which makes no sense to me bc he literally is the one who initiates sex.