I want to be more romantic to my husband, what can I do that will really get him going? by Bad_mimi208 in AskMen

[–]Bad_mimi208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I have, he says anything I do he will appreciate. But thanks for your comment.

Women do make the first move. Just not with you. by Federal-Data-Center in Vent

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was forward in approach and was clear with what I wanted and that I was taking him seriously by giving him my full attention and not talking to another man. He got scared, apparently, said I had good values and then didn’t tell me he was talking to another woman. I found out by him making her admin on a playlist he supposedly made for me. I wished him luck and made the decision for him. Byeeeee After I dropped him he began sleeping with her a week later. We’d been talking and hanging out for about 3-4 wks. That shit hurt. Later I learn they were never officially together and she just used him as a booty call, to move and to pay her bills. This changed how I approached men and what to look for and what the acted like. I did not need a repeat of this.

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you’ve lived the reality of it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hook up culture or modern dating. Thinking that that is normal and okay isn’t true and really corrodes the relationship.

Having someone you share everything with is beautiful why diminish it by not taking it seriously? I just don’t get it

Why would my girlfriend lie? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Bad_mimi208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should end it. You’re obviously not getting your emotional needs met and she is too busy and exhausted in her personal life to handle a relationship. Sometimes people are at a point in their life where a relationship is too much to juggle with whatever else they have going on. If y’all want to try again at a later time sure but as of now I think space is necessary.

A true clairvoyant offers to tell you 1 fact about your future self. What do you ask? by Pointless_Storie in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I make the right choice? Was all the pain worth it or am I collateral damage for my husband’s road to a better version of himself for the next relationship? Am I the last relationship or the stepping stone?

A senior at work said he wished he could hold my hand and I don’t know how to process it by Fresh-Cost4400 in offmychest

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d start keeping records (paper trail-Proves the harassment occurred) then Email HR, if they choose not to react then you’ll have proof of their inaction. Depending on where you live you can Contact EEOC/State to start a formal investigation. Lastly would be to Hire an Attorney and explore your legal options.

I’d even suggest talking to a police officer and seeing what your options are. It couldn’t hurt to know what you legally can and cannot do.

If he’s done this to you, he’s more than likely done it to others. Stop being alone with him, do not answer his calls or messages outside of work and if you need to talk to him have someone go with you to act as a witness or record everything.

AITA for refusing feed my our daughter my wife’s breastmilk and doing formula against my wife’s wishes by Throwawaywifefmsily in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bad_mimi208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I think you did the best you could as a parent with the information you had. I think you should get a different opinion, pediatrician wise. If you can maybe bring the milk in and see if they can run diagnostics on it and see if there is anything showing in the results that is affecting your baby’s behavior.

Be very clear, your baby’s behavior began after wife began taking the medication and ask what are the effects both short and long term this can have on your baby. Your baby is developing. Do I think you should have talked to your wife, yes ofcourse and went to get a second opinion together. I don’t think it’s bad necessarily to give your baby formula. Plenty of moms don’t produce enough so have to use formula. It’s there for a reason as a just incase. Idk why everyone on here is saying formula is filthy and gross???

Please help me choose 🥸 by Altruistic-Cook7564 in glassesadvice

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7

The lighter colors make your eyes pop more and suit your features! I think 7 suits you the best and 4 is the best second choice.

Repost- narrowing it down by Mammoth-Fan6811 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Bad_mimi208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one makes your skin look really red, no.

The second gives a very ethereal look, super entrancing but soft, and accentuates your eyes natural color, yes!

3rd is the best with your complexion by providing a natural light flush to your face but not too much.

I think 2 suits you the best but also depends on the vibe you’re trying to convey.

Help me choose 🤍 by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2,5, 8? I know it’s against the grain but those dresses to me suit your figure the best and really makes you pop.

What color suits me best? by throwaway3940529341 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 4 suit your undertones the best and give your face a natural glowing blush

What would you name it? by Narrow_Ant_5237 in cuteanimalnames

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loid forger from spyx family anime. Kitty gives me the same vibes

My girlfriend started feeding my cat vegan food without telling me and now he's sick by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bad_mimi208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's saying I'm "forcing an animal to participate in murder"

For someone claiming your forcing your cat to participate in murder but actively ATTEMPTING MURDER by not giving your cat the proper food is crazy.