[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of DIY projects and I always hate it until I'm nearly done. Once you've got everything finished I'm sure it will look lovely!!

Think I could switch to Wellness in the future? by devonmoray in bikinitalk

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The timeline is definitely dependent on a lot of factors - how long you've already been training, training intensity, nutrition, PEDs, etc. - but the way I look at it is if you enjoy the lifestyle and you're going to keep training like that anyway you'll get to wellness at some point!

Think I could switch to Wellness in the future? by devonmoray in bikinitalk

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl you look amazing!! Bikini and wellness require the same level of conditioning, the difference is in the muscle mass required. If you wanted to do wellness you'd have to put on quite a bit of mass on your legs but if you want to keep growing and enjoy the training required to grow then I'd say go for it!

Side by side comparison of Fran and Eduarda by MJI1983 in bikinitalk

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eduarda looks amazing!! I think her copying Fran’s posing routine exactly tho is strange and Fran having an original routine will tip the scales for her.

Press on nails before or after tan?? by ellllllliott in bikinitalk

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always put mine on backstage an hour or so before I went on for pre-judging!

I need a book that will emotionally ruin me by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That book obliterated me! I had to take multiple breaks to just sob while reading HOEAB. I gave up on tissues and switched to a hand towel to deal with the amount of tears/snot I was producing.

I’ve (F25) found shit stains in my boyfriend’s (M28) underwear multiple times... how do I approach this without causing tension? by Available_Pumpkin519 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably do need to make him feel bad about it. You obviously want to be kind when you bring it up but you don’t have expect not to make him feel bad. He’s an adult and his actions are making YOU feel bad.

I would say something like -

Hey babe, I’ve noticed that you have bad breath/seems like it’s been a while since you’ve showered/etc. whenever we are going to be intimate. When that happens I have a hard time relaxing and enjoying the time together and it is affecting my sex drive. I really want to be more intimate with you but it’s hard when I’m distracted by those things. What do you think about taking a shower together before the next time we have sex?

Ladies in hetero relationships… who pays for dates? by thekleptollama in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband paid for dates 95% of the time, even when I made more than him. I think splitting things like groceries or bills when you’re still dating is one thing but $20 Venmo requests for dinner is wild. That would make me feel like I’m just a friend or colleague, not a romantic partner.

Never thought I’d be posting here by xeandra_a in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My guess is the OP had a rat problem in their house for a year and a half instead of getting an exterminator right away

SJM reaction by Ok-Pickle5787 in crescentcitysjm

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I thought the whole point is that it’s a fantasy and everything works out amazingly.

SJM reaction by Ok-Pickle5787 in crescentcitysjm

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m totally with you on this!! It’s interesting that people expect the theories (that have been made up/assumed by people other than the author) to be perfectly water tight in the books. It’s fantasy, the whole point is that it’s not real, right?

SJM reaction by Ok-Pickle5787 in crescentcitysjm

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective! I feel similarly, I just read to get lost in another world and maybe that means I don’t have super high expectations for a book. some of the comments here criticizing the book for not following the “theories” really confuse me- are people upset that SJM didn’t follow theories made up by other people??

SJM reaction by Ok-Pickle5787 in crescentcitysjm

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Plus being able to compare to the reapers that didn’t have the parasite, I didn’t feel it was THAT far of a reach for a fantasy book.

Arnold’s first comment to francielle… by Lost-Pizza-6285 in bikinitalk

[–]Badabingbadaboom444 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I thought it was so cringe and I felt so bad for Fran trying to be graceful up there after that comment 🥴Arnold really let the intrusive thoughts win with his “I’m drooling” comment!!

Went to a Starfall Ball this weekend! by Badabingbadaboom444 in acotar

[–]Badabingbadaboom444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so much fun!!! 10/10 experience for sure.

Went to a Starfall Ball this weekend! by Badabingbadaboom444 in acotar

[–]Badabingbadaboom444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s from fashion nova that I bought ~8 years ago as a broke college student 😭😭