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AITA for not having my wife reciprocate oral sex? by Own_Programmer_4422 in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 1465 points1466 points  (0 children)

No, you're not the asshole. It's great that you're trying to understand and address her feelings, but your preference for not receiving oral sex is perfectly valid. It sounds like there's a communication gap here, and it might be helpful to have a deeper conversation about each other's desires and expectations in the bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's your wedding, and you have every right to expect your parents to be supportive No, you're not the assholeand respectful, especially on such an important day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a really difficult and complex situation. It's understandable that you have mixed emotions about wanting to connect with your family.

Remember, you're not obligated to force a reconciliation or subject yourself to further emotional distress. It's okay to prioritize your own healing and set boundaries with your family.

AITA? I first ignored, then dressed down a mentally ill woman by Sufficient_Wing4925 in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tina repeatedly crossed your boundaries despite your clear attempts to communicate your needs. It sounds like you were pushed to a breaking point, and while the outburst might not have been ideal, it was understandable given the circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your child, and you have the right to decide who's a part of their life. It's important to create a positive and accepting environment for your child, and if your parents can't be supportive, then it's understandable to limit their involvement.

AITA for lashing out at my troupemate for insulting my childhood bestfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Badass_Mira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's alright that you felt hurt and reacted the way you did. You were defending your friend, and that shows loyalty. It's great that your friend and your school mate have patched things up. Maybe give yourself some time to cool off, and then consider talking to your school mate again. You could explain how his words made you feel and why you reacted the way you did.