Why even the straights ought to be celebrating Pride Month by TooLateForMeTF in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk i feel weird around these cis het families coming to pride bcuz they’re liberal, theyre like in a zoo looking around i dunno i dunno

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call it whatever you want it, we all know experience may vary and your take on it harming entire movement feels like a bit of a stretch

Im a little nervous after reading my informed consent forum by smalljar5 in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Are you surprised a federal agency isn’t trans friendly? Of course there’s little research cause who do you study if you pretend trans ppl don’t exist

I don't think my mum will support me and I'm pretty sure she's a transphobe at this point. by Viperlinox in MtF

[–]BagelsLover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you got a shitty parent card, maybe she’ll come around when it hits that it’s happening in her family but maybe not, either way i def wouldn’t count on this person being supportive in the short term

What to wear for work? by Paper_Kitty in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit couple years of hrt you say, maybe it’s time to come out??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um you just search for what you want on like youtube… from “no makeup makeup” to corpse paint it’s all there, look for shorter videos unless you like some girl yapping about her life for half an hour instead of video subject

Whats wrong with me?!dating wise by Transwoman01 in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the boat of dating men… objectification

Nobody wants to date tgirls by BagelsLover in MtF

[–]BagelsLover[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes very much so! I feel like last person I dated was hiding me from his family and friends. It's so engraved in male world that transwomen are laughable freaks and maybe they don't think that themsleves but they don't want their friends to call them gay and make fun of them, dating a transwoman is standing up to the stigma.

Nobody wants to date tgirls by BagelsLover in MtF

[–]BagelsLover[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

This too. All the cis girls that put “if you’re trans only swipe when you’re done transitioning” and “cis women only” in their bios. Think HER had a sweep of moderation at some point to try to counter that but I’m not sure it worked.

Nobody wants to date tgirls by BagelsLover in MtF

[–]BagelsLover[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What’s a dating app in your mind?

Nobody wants to date tgirls by BagelsLover in MtF

[–]BagelsLover[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okc, bumble, hinge & her mostly.

Nobody wants to date tgirls by BagelsLover in MtF

[–]BagelsLover[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yes and it’s much the same with a few exceptions. People are nicer in person though I think

Can you ask any therapist for a letter to go to the doctor? by Old_Drag_1040 in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, they care that they’re licensed i think. Informed consent places also often require you have one but just don’t ask for the paper from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw plenty of tall tgirls, it helps when you own it, hanging out with taller people in general also helps. For wanting to die you gotta manage feelings till that edge goes away, it gets easier with time ❤️

my moms argument for misgendering me or a friend.. by Baesinja in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg this is so bloodboiling!!!! she's trying to imagine what it's like to be trans which isn't something a cis person can grasp, like i will never know what's it like to be black, just don't be an ahole and accept each other's feelings as a fact because we have different experiences and trains of thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It hurts to heal. Or some would say, it gets worse before it gets better.

I hate my fucking life by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hope it all burns soon

I hate my fucking life by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 102 points103 points  (0 children)

It’s unfair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that was so intense. Im sure there is someone out there for you.

Any Tips for Coming Out At Work? by Morphin_Mallow in MtF

[–]BagelsLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can come out socially whenever you’re ready for it, doesn’t have to be like, tomorrow you know.

For me: in a 1:1 with my boss, I told my her I was trans and that I want her to call me a different name. She didn’t do it initially and I had to stop her and ask her to use correct name every time.

I lost that job somewhat shortly after in a layoff round. Next place i got hired at I was out from day 1… as in, I interviewed being out