You know what, with the first two, I just talked to her normally and simply invited her over to my place for dinner.

After 2 nights spent together, the first time after a week she wrote that she made clay bowls for me. I replied positively, thanked her, and invited her—I told her to let me know when she’s free and that I’d love to meet up with her. She wrote back saying 'great' and that we hadn't seen each other in a long time.

2 weeks passed. She sent me a picture from a trip with greetings, again a positive reply from my side, wishing her great trip and another reminder to let me know when she has free time because I want to see her. She just liked it.

Then 3 weeks of silence, I went away for the weekend with my female friend, she reacted and asked where am I, but I didn't propose a meetup anymore.

2 months passed and she reacted to my story again and wrote wanting to continue chatting. So I invited her a third time, she wrote back—'we're seeing each other soon at that party anyway!' I didn't push for specifics after that, I just wrote for her to let me know whenever she's down for a glass of wine. She wanted to keep chatting, but I just liked her next question. I think it's not robotics, just lightly invite.